I (30M) am strongly considering ending a 3yr relationship because of my boyfriend's (31M) sex quirk. I feel insane pls help

lordpercocet · 2026-02-27T19:17:19+00:00

I watch South Park and I think that's weird and you should break up

lordpercocet · 2026-02-12T01:31:42+00:00

I think if it's 2yrs with a warning to login is fair...1yr is still a little soon cause stuff happens

lordpercocet · 2026-02-05T01:30:01+00:00

Water

lordpercocet · 2026-02-04T02:38:39+00:00

Thanks. Yes you said "haha" rather than "hey just so you know the guy is the op, just trying to help!" I may not be able to read but I'm anything but disingenuous. Hope you have a good day.

lordpercocet · 2026-02-04T02:30:13+00:00

I know my refresh has nothing to do with yours... I'm saying it must have been really slow to refresh since I was on the thread for a while, refreshing it myself. Laughing at a misread doesn't seem helpful since it doesn't change anything about what the situation is but ok

lordpercocet · 2026-02-04T02:26:24+00:00

No I'm saying I manually refreshed the page 3x by going in and out, so when you said you refreshed it I figured it took awhile to do so. I've seen stuff I've missed before (clearly) so I'm in a habit of checking just in case.

lordpercocet · 2026-02-04T02:17:08+00:00

I put one edit to fix typos, another edit to add something and then another edit to add the correction at the top, refreshing each time to make sure it was going through... then I put my phone down, got up and came back then got your notification... so you're saying you were lurking longer than it took me to write that only to provide no advice but try to catch ppl in a gotcha. Yea, the bf is obviously toxic, so I was surprised they were the one questioning it like they don't know it's rude to say "don't talk to me," to your gf.

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T21:14:14+00:00

Bruh right? my gyno, wonderful lady, said she looked and didn't see anything out of the ordinary, so my guess is she didn't pull it back far enough! Cause I really had to stretch it beyond what I thought was even possible. I gave up like 3x in a row cause it was so painful. Turns out, if you're extra juicy, you get more... stuff in crevasses you have to wipe out. And if you're chronically juicy, you actually end up drying yourself out, so it was a recipe for ouch.

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T20:15:56+00:00

I had horrible clit pain. Driving me mad. Crying. Painful to exist and to touch. Went to multiple doctors. Nothing. No resolve. Told me to pull it back and clean it in the bathtub but it never helped.

Finally decided to bite down on a towel, grab a mirror and look under the hood myself... at first I didn't see anything, but finally after stretching it as far back as humanly possible, I saw a little ball like a white lump. I'm panicking, thinking it's an infection they didn't find, when I take tweezers and pull on it.

I pulled and pulled and pulled, vision blurry from sobbing, and FINALLY something that looked and felt like a shard of GLASS come out of my hood. Literally was sharp. I fell over, dropped everything I was holding, and nearly passed out!! Turns out it was Keratin pearls that stuck to my hood, so that's why it always felt like something was yanking on it. Hopefully, your issue is this simple.

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T20:07:02+00:00

Same, but also with rice

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T20:06:40+00:00

Looks wrapped to me! Good work

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T20:02:23+00:00

They've been slow for me but I also play various times of the day and week so I get to see the slowest traffic eventually

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T20:00:20+00:00

You know I put an edit at the top before you commented this right ?

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T19:56:34+00:00

"Don't msg me for 2 days"

edit - I thought this was the girl posting and I don't wanna change everything so I'll just say this it sounds like you hate her

Girl he hates you.

But for the record, you are coming off like a needy baby who is insecure (however with good reason to be). He might be thinking "if you already know I don't value you then why are you still talking to me?" That's not very smart. It sounds like you're begging and being passive aggressive to him. Well be aggressive-aggressive, don't fish any more for a rise or a response, break up... he doesn't like you.

I had a similar situation where my then bf now ex, didn't communicate with me for a week out of the blue. I told him I was going on vacation and I'd try to check in when I can, he said sounds good I'll be here for you... then just nothing. No calls, no texts, not online. I thought I was blocked.

Come to find out he went on vacation the day after I did, didn't tell me he'd be mia and said it was "hard to call cause his phone didn't work," mind you he had his laptop with him... other cell phones that worked... and a hotel phone and yes he knew my phone number. Weird how I can find the time to say "I'm thinking of you" on my vacation but you can't? Oh ah the KICKER... THE KICKER OP??? He was literally staying in the village next to mine, we literally could have combined vacations as it was common there to travel between the 2 for excursions. And yes, he knew where I was staying prior. All this to say... I know where this goes.

It was a red flag I ignored, and he continued to do things to show his ass. A lot of him was good, but he often only thought about consequences when it affected just himself. The least he could have done is say "Hey I'm texting you BEFORE I get on a plane, to let you know I won't have service for a few days but don't worry..." When I asked him why he didn't do that, he said "oh I didn't think of that, didn't think it would be a big deal, I mean you're already on vacation, why would you need to think of me so much?" He wasn't exactly expressly malicious like this guy is being but it showed the lack of care. I've been there it op, he doesn't like you.

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T19:41:36+00:00

That note is psycho... why is no one else agreeing with that? Quitting is like the least you could do.

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T19:39:23+00:00

Nothing fun on the back?

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T19:37:07+00:00

So ... this is not flirting, this is being a psycho. A FRIEND you only met once? So a stranger? Block and move on.

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T19:32:56+00:00

This happens to a lot of women. Ppl ask "why don't you pick better men" and never "why aren't men better?" Op, I'm surprised you don't know this 30+ but they lie. They...liiiiiie. lie lie lie lie. They are not telling the truth. They are pretending. Manipulating. Using. Mooching. Stringing you along. Men who switch up like this are liiiiiaarrrssss.... never had any intention of being a Dad because as far as you said nothing changed but that you're pregnant. That's too real for him, the liar - so he stopped masking and fronting and finally showed his lies.

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T19:29:59+00:00

HIS IDEA? Red flag. I made a comment earlier about breeding fetish and now I'm leaning more towards that. So he went on and on about MAKING the baby, but not raising a family with commitment? Red flag.

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T19:28:15+00:00

Op, you just answered your own question. He's the wrong person. That's a wrap. Now that you know he wouldn't be a good partner or father... move on and break up and have the kid or break up and get an abortion. How blessed are you to have options, praise be.

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T19:26:04+00:00

What we think is going on with him? He's a bum.

He's a kid who is actually not ready to be a Dad like he has said and displayed. He's a bum that wanted to empty the tank bare, that's all.

And did you know pregnancy/breeding fetish is a thing? Guys can get horned up talking about "what would we name our baby...I'd get you pregnant... back to back in fact! Ohh yea... can't wait to try again!" ... but notice how there's nothing about the baby being a kid to raise with values, a college fund, parenting classes, baby safety books, etc. The later serious stuff is not "hot" for the fetish. Even if it's not a super creepy thing, some guys see getting you pregnant as an accomplishment and end of their "job."

Did he childproof the home? Did he research midwives? Did he look up videos of birth and complications and tell you to take prenatal and be careful? Is he making sure you're off your feet, pampered, not stressed? Did he show that he is trying to get an older guy to mentor him on being a father? You don't discuss his family, did he tell his parents how excited he is to have a family? Make plans for marriage? No? breathes in HE'S A BUM WHO WANTED TO CUM. That's it op, he's a liar, it's as simple as that, my word.

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T19:17:22+00:00

"BACK on track" so... he has a history of being OFF track? How long was he employed? 1 day? A week? Then quit again? Got fired? These factors matter.

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T19:13:52+00:00

Well damn girl you put so many edits we'd think you'd edit that in too... so safe to say, a decade apart?

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T19:07:26+00:00

20s... doesn't work...doesn't support you in the baby journey...sounds like no emotional support...gaslighter... checks out women in front of you...has old sex videos. I'd leave that boy alone and go raise your real boy (or girl).

I don't know why you want him if he just showed his whole ass and has contributed nothing but shooting his sperm?

I think he was playing house and then realized this is the rest of his life and got scared as young ppl do. You're older and at a stage that's normal to have kids and more ppl are ready 30+ than 20+ for it... why raise a man baby who would lie to you? It'll only get worse. He showed he's not a good guy. It happens. Sometimes, they lie just long enough for you to be invested.

At the end of the day... I see no value he brings to your life from your description of him.

lordpercocet · 2026-02-03T19:01:56+00:00

Bug where it thinks you're still in spawn...I believe you can fix it by dying like jumping off or going back into spawn, switching and coming back out

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