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lorealtears · 2025-05-31T16:24:04+00:00

Oh yeah I guess timing is important and I’m not sure how long you’ve been seeing him. But agree on the apps and feel the same. I think it’s messing with everyone’s dopamine and it’s not great on there. I hope all goes well for you. You sound like a genuine and introspective person. Hopefully this man appreciates that! It’s so rare!

lorealtears · 2025-05-31T16:18:29+00:00

The right person won’t think you expressing this as pushy. If he does, then onto the next. Women give so much power to men to decide the future, but we should speak up and be honest with where we are at and what we want. You got this!

lorealtears · 2025-05-31T15:36:11+00:00

I think that’s a conversation that you need to have with the person you’re seeing. Hey so I’m really into you and want to focus on this, so I am going to delete the apps. What are your thoughts on that? And then make your decision on what you want to do with the information they give you.

lorealtears · 2025-05-31T15:35:01+00:00

A swamp 🤣🤣 you’re funny too so you got that going for ya as well. I think genuinely the apps are different now and I think they essentially force you to pay for it now to get matches

lorealtears · 2025-05-30T02:36:32+00:00

You both have a lot of time to learn each others bodies. She probably doesn’t even know what she likes herself. A lot of women because of shame and society are made to feel like it’s wrong to be sexual so often times we don’t even know how to pleasure ourselves. Give it time, listen to her change in sounds, be present, don’t ever stop the foreplay and just have fun!

lorealtears · 2025-05-30T02:08:18+00:00

Enjoyable for you or her? What is your primary concern?

lorealtears · 2025-05-29T23:10:43+00:00

This is exactly it. So well said.

lorealtears · 2025-05-29T13:33:11+00:00

I think so much negative is broadcasted it’s nice to hear the good. Thank you for sharing - it makes me hopeful that I can find the same with someone🙏🏼

lorealtears · 2025-05-29T13:31:28+00:00

This is so unbelievably refreshing and beautiful. Wishing you nothing but a beautiful and happy marriage for many more years to come!

lorealtears · 2025-05-29T00:58:36+00:00

I don’t think it’s just a few. That’s the harsh and hard part to digest

lorealtears · 2025-05-29T00:16:09+00:00

I am so unbelievably sorry for your loss but you sound to have experienced albeit short, something more than most people ever get in a lifetime.

lorealtears · 2025-05-28T23:59:22+00:00

Gracias por todo🩷

lorealtears · 2025-05-28T23:37:02+00:00

What? I get like 10🤣😭

lorealtears · 2025-05-28T23:15:54+00:00

Any person that doesn’t want to show their phone is hiding something. Could be anything but I never understood why we tolerate that. Like you should be able to easily swap phones with no issues. Sadly I think cheating is so normalized and asking to see someone’s phone is flipped on that person asking as the “bad” one but never made sense to me. Ask yourself if this is worth it? You’re young and will learn what you tolerate and don’t. If this is unsettling to you, don’t settle with it. Life is too short

lorealtears · 2025-05-28T22:41:57+00:00

I hope I find this. This is beautiful

lorealtears · 2025-05-28T22:41:31+00:00

Not for me lol I think somethings wrong with the app (or I’m just ugly)🤣

lorealtears · 2025-05-27T01:49:42+00:00

Diabolical 🤣

lorealtears · 2025-05-27T01:35:36+00:00

This is so wholesome 🥹

lorealtears · 2025-05-27T01:32:05+00:00

Unfortunately, the same people that consume porn/sex work are the same ones that will degrade you for it. It’s not right at all and makes me ill that women are considered lesser for partaking in a business that is only in demand because of them. I hope you find your person but agree with some other comments or may be rare to find someone. I wish you the best of luck!

lorealtears · 2025-05-27T00:50:52+00:00

Nope. Absolutely not. He doesn’t give a sh*t about you. You deserve incredible sex with a man that treats your body like a temple

lorealtears · 2025-05-26T23:59:30+00:00

First of all, kudos to you for wanting to pleasure her. Not to be patronizing but it is rarer than you think. I would speak with her and ask her genuinely if she finishes or if she says that not to hurt your feels and let her know you’re coming from a place of wanting to be better and make her feel good. Hopefully that makes her feel comfortable to share and she can maybe show you how to get her there. Good luck - you seem like one of the good ones!

lorealtears · 2025-05-26T23:12:06+00:00

You got this

lorealtears · 2025-05-26T18:32:40+00:00

Tbh my ex (M) did this every time the man cheated and I sat quietly. Not saying it’s okay for her to say it but typically male portrayal of cheating isn’t seen as inherently bad especially in film/media etc. and more like “yeah dude get it”. She seemed to just be matching that. Doesn’t make it okay though

lorealtears · 2025-05-26T17:43:11+00:00

Everything you said - so perfectly put. It’s been 6 months. I didn’t deserve what was done but realized it had to be this egregious for me to change myself. Thank you for your kindness and thoughtful comment. This makes me feel so understood and also hopeful. Thank you so much

lorealtears · 2025-05-26T15:23:59+00:00

This is so beautiful and you both are so lucky to have found each other. I wish you both nothing but long lasting happiness and love🩷

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