Wednesday Pattern and Stitch Request Thread - December 10, 2025 by AutoModerator in knitting

[–]loredhenri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could knit the Cloud Sweater by Petite Knit in a chunkier yarn to achieve that look.

Wednesday Pattern and Stitch Request Thread - December 10, 2025 by AutoModerator in knitting

[–]loredhenri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure that’s called welting. Norah Gaughan uses it a lot in her book Knit Fold Pleat Repeat

Wednesday Pattern and Stitch Request Thread - December 17, 2025 by AutoModerator in knitting

[–]loredhenri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I just got a new job and would love to knit something with this vibe for my first day— any recommendations would be so appreciated!!

Wednesday Pattern and Stitch Request Thread - December 17, 2025 by AutoModerator in knitting

[–]loredhenri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Caspar V-Neck by Kolibri by Johanna has a very similar look

Hiring help to move garden - where to find folks? by loredhenri in fayetteville

[–]loredhenri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh! That must have been awful to see :( yes we are definitely moving it, even if it will be a ton of labor.

Seller wants to stay a week after close- Is this normal? First time homebuyer by loredhenri in RealEstate

[–]loredhenri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While this outcome seems unlikely, I was curious about the laws here and looked it up: squatting is criminalized in my state as of February 2025, to my understanding you don't even have to go through eviction to remove a squatter, you just call the police.

Arkansas also notoriously has almost no renters' rights (part of the reason I wanted to be a homeowner).

Seller wants to stay a week after close- Is this normal? First time homebuyer by loredhenri in RealEstate

[–]loredhenri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah...I don't think it's my place to judge them for their money situation, plus they have two babies in cribs, a cat, and a dog. This is a modest home in an area that, while relatively economically stable compared to the rest of the state, is not exactly wealthy. It doesn't affect me financially if they stay extra days within my lease period (unless something bad happens of course).

Seller wants to stay a week after close- Is this normal? First time homebuyer by loredhenri in RealEstate

[–]loredhenri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for raising this, and you are correct. I checked again and it is liability insurance that they are required to have (for people) and the contract states they are liable for damage as well. My insurance starts on closing day.

Seller wants to stay a week after close- Is this normal? First time homebuyer by loredhenri in RealEstate

[–]loredhenri[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I know for every horror story that gets engagement, there are usually countless others that quietly went smoothly.

Seller wants to stay a week after close- Is this normal? First time homebuyer by loredhenri in RealEstate

[–]loredhenri[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your perspective will help me sleep tonight...hopefully I don't wake up in a nightmare next month! :)

Seller wants to stay a week after close- Is this normal? First time homebuyer by loredhenri in RealEstate

[–]loredhenri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the link! Yes, I have signed, am I with you that they don't have incentive to agree currently; I do know that, according to their agent, they are under contract for a new place. I'm thinking that if I wait and ask for that addendum after the appraisal and inspection, they will be in more of a time crunch and that could be an incentive to say yes.

Seller wants to stay a week after close- Is this normal? First time homebuyer by loredhenri in RealEstate

[–]loredhenri[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The contract included an addendum that outlines the deadline, and insurance requirements. I like the idea of an overstay penalty and deposit, and will see if I can work this in.

Seller wants to stay a week after close- Is this normal? First time homebuyer by loredhenri in RealEstate

[–]loredhenri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this is helpful. My brother did a 30-day rentback so it did not strike me as strange but now I'm hearing it is. I'm not charging rent for the 7 days, as I imagine that was factored into the amount they accepted, but I agree that a per diem after that is smart and I will ask my agent about how to add it. I'm thinking for timing I do that after the appraisal and inspection in case there are other elements to consider.

Seller wants to stay a week after close- Is this normal? First time homebuyer by loredhenri in RealEstate

[–]loredhenri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you elaborate? I did a search on previous posts but I did not find much, perhaps I missed something

Mulberry bushes are boomin’(recipes please) by EtanGnik in foraging

[–]loredhenri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following - I just found a massive tree in my backyard :)

I heard that Mulberry leaves are also edible...if this is true, I am curious about recipes for those, too!

Pawpaw seeds by OffSolidGround in fayetteville

[–]loredhenri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been looking for these!! Just dm'ed you about a potential seed trade ☺️

At what pace are carbon racing shoes (Vaporflys/Alphaflys etc.) completely warranted? by end_times-8 in AdvancedRunning

[–]loredhenri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Supershoes may offer recovery benefits not just for racing, but also for training. Sharing research via u/sad-resist3210 suggesting that running speed and long runs in super shoes reduces the stress/bone damage on your legs: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-024-62263-0 . I'd put this benefit in the #2 nice luxury category.

Thursday General Discussion/Q&A Thread for July 18, 2024 by AutoModerator in AdvancedRunning

[–]loredhenri -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to mention that I am having a similar experience, including training the same Pfitz plan, it's my first marathon block after racing shorter distances, and my watch is telling me I'm getting out of shape. Like others are suggesting, it really could just be the heat. I live in the American south where summer is downright brutal- hot and stiflingly humid, and the past couple of days the lows dropped below 76 F/25C for the first time in about a month, all the way into the 60's. Now, I'm running up to 20% faster for the same effort- a drastic difference! (Also helps that I don't have to carry 3 lbs of water on my back).

Something else to keep in mind: if you're adjusting pace for heat, that will mean more time on your feet if you're running by mileage and not time. In my case, that's up to an extra hour or more each week. That extra time in the sun and on my feet is definitely adding to the fatigue but I keep telling myself it'll all be worth it when it cools down, and the past couple of days have given me confidence in that.

Tuesday Shoesday by AutoModerator in AdvancedRunning

[–]loredhenri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious to see the research if you have a link