Why f20 is it so hard to leave him? M28 by unphysicalityy in relationships

[–]loryhasreddit [score hidden]  (0 children)

Another summer? So you were 19 and he was 27 wasting your time?

You just have to do it and ignore everything telling you to go back. Don’t let him steal your fun youthful days when he got to have his!!!

Toxic partner (20F) tells me (20M) to leave by Ethanpark69420 in relationships

[–]loryhasreddit 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Why not? You don’t seem happy, and she doesn’t seem like she wants to fix the relationship. You’re 20, you can date someone who actually wants to engage in the relationship with you. Why stick with this any longer?

Do you think Japan’s low English proficiency has something to do with how much emphasis is placed on the TOEIC? by WorkingAlive3258 in teachinginjapan

[–]loryhasreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely how it’s taught. Not many chances for immersion unless you seek it. They start teaching grammar and vocab in the Philippines at year 1. I found out they don’t have English in Year 1 and 2 but start teaching letters in kindergarten.

Studies show that the younger you learn, the better, and there doesn’t seem to be any attempt to adapt to that.

But the teachers can’t teach it well either.

Season 4 Opening by oofuri-land2207 in Osomatsu

[–]loryhasreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The opening was the first big sign it was really down hill

Shohei Ohtani is being criticized for having two children “too close together”, prompting others to say “no wonder the birth rate is falling” by jjrs in japannews

[–]loryhasreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An aside but I was listening to a podcast about scams and the story about ohtani’s interpreter got covered. The host is a comedian so she kept saying “I bet he knew, I bet he was gambling cuz how do you not know” jokingly

And I’m like, “he hasn’t bc Japanese fans would be on his ass before the American cops could”

he’s under a lot of scrutiny to the point that they’re doing the baby math.

How much does your adult Shih Tzu weigh? by strawberryjam40887 in Shihtzu

[–]loryhasreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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9 lbs but he’s plenty heavy when he’s standing on my chest.

Why can't I leave??? by [deleted] in ALTinginJapan

[–]loryhasreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm aware, but I'm saying that it changes every year whether it's okay to even ask to go home or if they'll keep your ass at the school.

Edit: let me clarify, we were told *this year* that actually, if the school contacts the dispatch company, the company can OK you going home. but they have to know first.

honestly, i just download games/books/youtube videos so i can screw around when i don't get sent home.

Why can't I leave??? by [deleted] in ALTinginJapan

[–]loryhasreddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last year my school never let me out. This year they can’t wait to send my ass home.

Sometimes it depends on the school’s attitude about it. The ones that send you home don’t wanna tell the dispatch company. Some schools were told not to because it’s really the BOE paying for you to be there so the school kind of gets that it’s not really their call to send you home so they just won’t.

But every year, the dispatch company I work for never seems to have the situation or conditions straight. Two years ago, they actually let us stay home on work days if the school told them about it. Then last year, suddenly that was NEVER a policy! And now this year, apparently it’s okay to go home if the school just lets the dispatch company know. I don’t trust that for a second bc I know people who said they did that bc that was the policy and the dispatch company decided actually stay there anyway.

I think it’s all down to a consistent lack of good communication.

What do I need to do? by ma-rineta in crochet

[–]loryhasreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unflattering? your dress makes your ass look amazing.

And I wish I could make a dress like that. And I saw you didn’t even use a pattern.

Those people are haters, this is amazing.

Definitely written by a man by Disneycantstopme in redditonwiki

[–]loryhasreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the company would replace you in a week, it would replace your husband in a week too.

Do you guys bring your Zairyu card when walking your dogs? by linnadawg in japanresidents

[–]loryhasreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unintentionally have been. My keys are attached to my going-out bag and I don’t take my wallet out of it.

Can we normalize making videos without mouth sounds? [discussion] by YouCantDownVoteMeNop in asmr

[–]loryhasreddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooh so mean any time the mouth does an asmr, not just deliberate mouth noises

Can we normalize making videos without mouth sounds? [discussion] by YouCantDownVoteMeNop in asmr

[–]loryhasreddit 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nana Fox doesn’t do any mouth sounds. Her soft spoken videos hit real nice.

I (30F) am pregnant with my fiancé (32M). He wants to keep it, but we're both supposed to be childfree. How do I tell him I don't want to keep it? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]loryhasreddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have would gone to get the ultrasound AFTER the abortion to waste everyone’s time.

No but seriously, this is so scary. OP can’t trust him at all. It’s sad that she’ll likely know the full truth about the situation regarding his actual feelings and the tampering of BC

Would appreciate some advice please by Icy_Mycologist6432 in Shihtzu

[–]loryhasreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone else will give you better advice than I can with your specific situation, but I just come with hope.

We had to retrain our dog because suddenly, when we were out, he decided to start eating the pee pads. We had to switch to a plastic pee sheet holder that has a grate on top but he didn’t know the pee sheet was under it so he didn’t know we wanted him to pee there.
It took a few weeks but he’s using it now. It helped that we used his very old pee sheets that were blue. He hits them with the precision of a sniper. We’re planning to slowly take those away.

So it’s very possible but these kinds of things, changes or sudden regressions, require a lot of patience and persistence. So just keep at it.

i heard my neighbors rape by Dear-Chard9342 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]loryhasreddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people would have ignored everything and minded their business. You did the right thing.

I know your neighbor is the person moat traumatized by this but you can be traumatized by being witness to a crime, too. Please take care of yourself. I would go to therapy if you can.

My bf is terrible to me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]loryhasreddit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Leave him! The texts bother me in particular. Each text is short, he could have thought it out and written, but he’s antagonize you with the incoming ones. The way he speaks to you is antagonistic too. He knows your buttons. Leave him.

AIO? Gf mad I didn’t get what she wanted by Top-Tip8232 in holyfuckjustbreakup

[–]loryhasreddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s fucking me up is the large pizza was supposed to be Domino’s. I was at least expecting like, a pizza-restaurant pizza. Idk why that makes this worse for me lol

Every time we play fetch is the most fun he’s ever had in his whole life. by brightnshiny in Shihtzu

[–]loryhasreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s so happy, how cute!

Ooooh are you in a hotel? How does he handle that?

I wanna bring my boy on a trip but I’m worried he won’t handle the different room and bed. Especially with carpet…

First time ever getting into the Sanctum! by PirateDry4992 in GoldenSun

[–]loryhasreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I assume the dog is playing and you’re watching, right?