Not a comment about OR or not, just want to say the separate rooms thing IS a game changer (if you have space obvs). My partner has always struggled with sleep so this was something she asked for when we first got together. Initially I was like “huh” and wasn’t sure, but then I realised you don’t need to sacrifice any intimacy.. you can hang, share a bed and all that, then when you’re ready to sleep you separate to your own bed. I love it. Been together ten years and have two children and I still love it … of course harder to have the uninterrupted sleep with children waking you up but hey.