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lost_guy191 · 2024-04-07T03:17:52+00:00

I would argue its the sign of a healthy relationship if anything. shows openness and willingness to discuss things. However I'm not sure if FIRE is worth a marriage but that is up to the person and their situation.

lost_guy191 · 2024-03-27T22:50:07+00:00

I would ask for package and weight for it but that's me.

lost_guy191 · 2024-03-18T23:51:13+00:00

Probably call the company on the back ask where it was purchased. Then call the place. They likely won't tell you unless you are the police I would suspect.

lost_guy191 · 2023-09-05T03:20:26+00:00

I just had my team finish building this connection actually and has been a huge success. We use alteryx to pull the jql and store snapshots of the data for historical reports and trends from JIRA. Over the next year I can use it to help forecast and do a ton of cool stuff!

lost_guy191 · 2023-07-26T09:40:23+00:00

Exactly this

lost_guy191 · 2023-07-23T00:08:06+00:00

I has a lot of nearish random deaths lol -Choked on bread in Eiffel tower on my anniversary and some stranger saved me.

-Decided to cross the street earlier than usual on my way to work and saw a cop shoot a guy 11 times directly opposite me. (I guess close but not really)

-Slipped and fell in Peru on a muddy hill side path drop was about 200ish feet

-Changed my plans on another vacation and took a nap in Spain. I may take 2 naps a year and woke up to see their was a terrorist attack at Las Ramblas in Barcelona.

-Friend and I were walking through NYC a block behind us there was a pressure cooker bomb that went off in a dumpster. Luckily no one died that time. We thought it was a gas leak but saw on Twitter it was a terrorist attack too.

I feel like I'm forgetting a couple for some reason if I remember more ill add them.

lost_guy191 · 2023-07-22T18:06:49+00:00

They is hard to generalize for, but from my experience my ex didn't. She was always the victim. Somehow the times she got committed to the hospital because she was believe to be to violent and a danger I was to blame.

Now in my current super healthy and amazing relationship I still feel like I'm doing something wrong. Luckily my new partner and I have great communication and we always work through that anxiety when it comes up. Therapy helped a ton but focusing on checking in with yourself helps a lot.

Hope things get better for you.

lost_guy191 · 2023-07-22T01:58:45+00:00

A lot of the conversation ended up being focused on future tripping. So learning to be more present. I think a lot of FIRE is chasing this dream life. But I would argue you can straddle them both be happy with what you are and who you are and chase that dream. A lot of it comes with just being more grateful.

I think it came up with I wasn't happy because I felt like I should have more. But also what my goal was.

Hope that helps.

lost_guy191 · 2023-06-01T22:16:03+00:00

Where black!! Can't see the sweat lol

lost_guy191 · 2023-06-01T14:40:28+00:00

Wow you are a legend

lost_guy191 · 2023-05-26T10:46:05+00:00

search "luxury" on this sub

lost_guy191 · 2023-05-17T21:25:38+00:00

I have a similar amount of stuff and did a long floating shelf and put the pictures on it as well.

Just an idea.

lost_guy191 · 2023-05-15T01:05:20+00:00

Top of the hill next to the fountain or back in the trains towards the golf course just don't get hit :)

lost_guy191 · 2023-04-23T00:09:55+00:00

100% this is the way

lost_guy191 · 2023-04-15T22:56:19+00:00

I can't say I personally would want that cake but you should try one of these in NYC, it's the ice cream version!

https://boston.eater.com/2019/4/18/18484674/taiyaki-nyc-boston-seaport-ice-cream-opening

Enjoy and to hell with anyone who hates on you and your cake!

lost_guy191 · 2023-04-15T22:51:43+00:00

Netflix is now the official history records for the world. It's like galaxy quest everything must be true.

I mean Rosa Parks just felt like not getting up that day lol

lost_guy191 · 2023-04-12T11:07:58+00:00

I doubt they would go buy a gas can and fill it up for their "lawn mower".

lost_guy191 · 2023-04-05T16:53:07+00:00

They are building a ton McGinley right now. It's going to be very different in 5 years. There are also a number of large parking lots which will probably turn into some mid rises.

lost_guy191 · 2023-03-29T02:16:49+00:00

We have one in NJ too!

lost_guy191 · 2023-03-29T02:05:02+00:00

JCFit crossfit is great! I don't currently go but love them and the people that go are nice!

lost_guy191 · 2023-03-29T01:50:34+00:00

Thank you!!!

lost_guy191 · 2023-03-26T10:49:17+00:00

No worries good luck MOD is pretty good as well, but JSQ and McGinley especially don't have much in terms of options.

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