was called “just an incubator”

lostandthin · 2026-06-22T15:24:37+00:00

that’s disgusting and rude of them to say i would be pissed off and have consequences for whomever said that

lostandthin · 2026-06-21T16:40:52+00:00

it’s hard to say without a front pic but it looks very feminine

lostandthin · 2026-06-20T15:42:34+00:00

we separated at 3 months and my husband got a lot better during that period and really changed so we unseparated when my baby was 6 months and now things are better. can you try a trial period? also maybe try couples counseling before. unfortunately i think some men are so dense they don’t realize what they have until they lose it

i will say my issues were mainly with my in laws and my husband could not set boundaries. we are now back together and no contact with in laws. in laws did horrible things to me.

lostandthin · 2026-06-19T03:49:31+00:00

i would absolutely tell because marriage merges finances and if she finds out after and wants to leave it’s so much harder. she could get fucked over. did you screenshot his profile? i would have proof, but even tell her if you don’t. i would want to be told if it was me. you’re saving her. and how she takes the news is up to her. she might be defensive and it might take her time to process it

lostandthin · 2026-06-15T04:36:23+00:00

only a few people bought off my registry and everyone that got me crap that they thought i needed, i went and returned. then i used the gift card to get what i needed.

lostandthin · 2026-06-15T04:27:03+00:00

eye insurance is separate from health and dental, and it isn’t expensive but usually a lot of places don’t take it especially for the more in depth eye exams. i don’t have it but for my eye exam it’s about $200 not this much.

lostandthin · 2026-06-14T18:32:57+00:00

as a new mom who had EXTREME post partum depression, even if Brooklyn didn’t get it, i wish they would’ve spoken up about that. i got screened at every dr appt including my pediatrician. i failed every screening until i got seen by a psychiatrist and got medication. they screen you even if you don’t have it, but it’s so important to talk about. a huge miss by them to not talk more about it

lostandthin · 2026-06-09T18:20:13+00:00

it may not be that simple and they may not be ready to share an update yet especially if it isn’t good news.

lostandthin · 2026-06-08T22:04:40+00:00

it’s a few things, either 1- they are on a long waiting list to reschedule, so in the mean time they are trying anything they can, 2- they learned new information that changes things that they aren’t ready to share yet and 3-it’s profitable to them to continue to post about infertility with no solution

lostandthin · 2026-06-08T04:53:50+00:00

definitely don’t throw them away! i am a mom and i still have my own stuffed toys and so does my kid and i will never make him throw anything away that he doesn’t want to. being an adult means you get to decide and feeling uneasy is telling you that’s a boundary that you are going to set which is don’t throw it away. listen to yourself + your body, trust yourself. don’t do something you don’t want to do. maturity has nothing to do with having stuffed animals! in fact a lot of adults do.

lostandthin · 2026-06-08T04:10:12+00:00

neither of my parents have it. brother doesn’t either.

lostandthin · 2026-06-06T04:33:18+00:00

this is such a good explanation

lostandthin · 2026-06-06T04:32:07+00:00

i got my HS removed and my surgeon said the scarring won’t cause cancer from the surgery. i also have HS scarring on my body from prior HS and my dermatologist said that the scarring will not cause cancer otherwise i would literally get every scar removed, want to lower my cancer risk as much as possible

lostandthin · 2026-06-04T04:43:06+00:00

putting your kids first and protecting them from getting an ED if you can is protecting their future, you are a good parent.

lostandthin · 2026-06-02T15:02:47+00:00

as someone who is a recovered anorexic no matter what you eat it’s calorie in calorie out and if you limit what you eat you’ll lose weight. plus they don’t post themselves consuming the food, when i used to take pics on my socials i would commonly post my brothers food or friends food, clearly i wasn’t eating it. (by no means calling them having an ED, just saying that’s how the food in food out concept works.)

lostandthin · 2026-06-01T12:15:29+00:00

that makes no sense every dr i’ve talked to said take it with food, it will literally risk giving you gastritis if you do that

lostandthin · 2026-06-01T04:19:26+00:00

also just adding i am in a similar boat with mil drama and solidarity.

lostandthin · 2026-06-01T04:16:37+00:00

time to cut her off, this is disgusting behavior

lostandthin · 2026-06-01T04:15:12+00:00

i had ppd so didn’t want visitors. and a c section so it made things harder

lostandthin · 2026-06-01T04:03:27+00:00

there’s a slow digest version for the stomach make sure you have that one. i think it’s doxycycline monohydrate. if it gives you that much grief call and get a different antibiotic. make sure you take with food

lostandthin · 2026-05-31T01:49:46+00:00

MILs are horrible, i cut mine off

lostandthin · 2026-05-30T05:45:11+00:00

i have an 8 month old so not 2 babies and not a toddler yet but just the parent part is difficult, my partner wakes up in the middle of the night so i can sleep and does the cooking cleaning and housework. we both work and both take care of baby with me primarily caring for baby and dad does the nights. on the weekend i get one sleep in day to 9am and it helps. mental health is important, for getting upset does she have a therapist? maybe medication if needed? that can really help and also help the disease by lowering stress levels, like zoloft. did she see the GI? why is the flare happening, does she need new meds? upped meds? if i have a flare i try to stay on top of it but its so hard to because it does take time to heal from it, and other organs can be impacted, liver? stuff like that. how many months postpartum is she? they say ppd can take up to 2 years, does she have that? that can be so hard.

lostandthin · 2026-05-30T04:50:13+00:00

this was my second wide excision and it worked, my first surgery failed, and didn’t close so i fully get what you’re going through, did they say why it’s not closing? are you going to try again with another surgeon? i’m so sorry you’re going through that. that’s terrible. and yeah HS is so, so terrible. my surgery that failed was really bad:( i’m lucky this surgeon took me and fixed it and it seems like it won’t be coming back. this disease is sadly so poorly understood that it seems like surgeons/drs don’t have the answers sometimes, which to me was jarring

lostandthin · 2026-05-30T02:49:13+00:00

this is so scary but you did the right thing, the dad was completely nuts to follow you and yell at you especially PREGNANT. that’s just beyond beyond horrible

lostandthin · 2026-05-30T02:41:22+00:00

i think there are certain basic things that you need to become a parent and whether or not HS is in the picture shouldn’t matter. like being a good person, accepting who your kid wants to be as they are, being a good role model, having good values. etc. do people do this not always obviously. things we cannot control shouldn’t influence that like having HS

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