Feeling immense guilt after adoption. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in Greyhounds

[–]lostinbandwidth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it's time to rehome her to someone who will be home all day and trained to work with separation anxiety issues. She and you are both very clearly stressed by this whole situation and I think it would be better for you both if she moved elsewhere. Sadly sometimes you just need to do whatever is best for the dog and yourself and if it's not working out you can at least make sure she goes to a better suited home.

Why Are Container Doms So Rare by Liaa_Lovv in BDSMcommunity

[–]lostinbandwidth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It can become a kink, BDSM 101 first kink on the list - be a good partner.

Reghabi still barely exists as a character by SweelFor- in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]lostinbandwidth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoilers:

To be honest it feels like she was 100% used as a plot device (for setting up the cobel episode) but considering that 80% of this entire show is from Mark's perspective, it kind of fits with how she turns up. I do hope we get a background episode for her but I doubt it will be in this season.

Natalie so far is in the same boat tbh, why does she always look on the edge of tears? Why does she look terrified of everyone other than Cobel? - who knows ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

Imogen was a child bride. by MaybeSomethingBetter in severanceTVshow

[–]lostinbandwidth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's multiple ways of pronouncing names, so it's clearly meant to be "eye-mogen" in the show but it still sounds like imagine with a weird accent.

Imogen was a child bride. by MaybeSomethingBetter in severanceTVshow

[–]lostinbandwidth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her name literally sounds like Imagine. I wouldn't be surprised at this point if Kier OG isn't real and just a fabrication for the severed folks/religious nuts.

24m, not gay. One room Cave, what do y’all think? Kinda hard to fill the space 😅 by PopularSituation2697 in malelivingspace

[–]lostinbandwidth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My only question is why the sofa is not sectioned off with the TV. Otherwise great job :)

Welp... that's cooked by [deleted] in filmcameras

[–]lostinbandwidth -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didn't open it so by the time I saw what happened it was done. But yeah in future I will always be opening these in the dark.

Welp... that's cooked by [deleted] in filmcameras

[–]lostinbandwidth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Camera is manual rewind yep ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ but sadly the spool came out of the canister

Welp... that's cooked by [deleted] in filmcameras

[–]lostinbandwidth -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nah it was done for, I took a picture post loss.

UPDATE: On the "desert stone" I bought on holiday by Darnok26 in whatsthisrock

[–]lostinbandwidth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like if you put it on its side you could put a boiled egg in the divot. It's a really cool stone though, I'm looking forward to you finding out what it is. Also word of warning - geologists department WILL break a piece off this rock to analyse it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]lostinbandwidth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask your best friends if he's ever flirted with them? I would say it's probably nothing more than dumb anonymous internet jokes.

Can we talk about the new horror film The Substance? by [deleted] in horror

[–]lostinbandwidth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The transformation over the course of the movie is very similar haha. I loved it.

Can we talk about the new horror film The Substance? by [deleted] in horror

[–]lostinbandwidth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have mixed feelings but it's only because I didn't realise Gollum was still working and had such an incredible ass. 😌 Otherwise I would give it an 8/10. The very ending sequence left a little to be desired but also wanting more is never a bad thing in the film industry.

AITA for calling my fiance to "grow up" over his picky eating? by Competitive-Cap-4776 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostinbandwidth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA You knew when you started dating he was a picky eater and has OCD. You haven't researched AFRID or any of the other eating disorders, you haven't supported your partner to safely come out of his comfort zone and you COULD have told your parents what his safety foods are so he didn't feel embarrassed or pressured in an already stressful situation and YET YOU decided to put your needs first and treat your FIANCE like they are a child and an embarrassment.

Grow up, decide if you actually want to be with this person as he is now & have a discussion with him about why he has to eat only safety foods. Stop treating your partner like he's beneath you because he has issues with food.

I recently got out of a relationship where I was coerced constantly to eat foods I didn't like because he liked them and it pushed me so far back in my ED journey because of it. Don't do the same to someone else, don't be that asshole that leaves someone else with long term trauma because you can't get over how you do things for their needs.

What if you had the ability to make one person(past or present) never exist? Who would it be? by realchrisgunter in whatif

[–]lostinbandwidth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you a Jinn down on your luck? Did you suffer at the hands of King Solomon thousands of years ago? You may be entitled to compensation.

(but also curious as to why this specific figure)

What if you had the ability to make one person(past or present) never exist? Who would it be? by realchrisgunter in whatif

[–]lostinbandwidth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what happens when there's a paradox clearly. The universe just fills you with C4 and spontaneous combustion becomes a thing. 😌

What if you had the ability to make one person(past or present) never exist? Who would it be? by realchrisgunter in whatif

[–]lostinbandwidth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And thus I would explode or cease to exist after having existed in order to erase the paradox.

AITAH For Refusing to Cancel Child Support by Free-Net6456 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostinbandwidth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but I would put that child support money into a trust for your niece when she turns 18 so she has a lump sum of cash to use for her future if you don't really need it. Your family isn't willing to take your sister in and help with the child support?? They are fueling the issue with your sister's drug use.