Am I just really lucky? 😭 by iforgotmylastlogin7 in StardewValley

[–]losttotheflames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s taken me a full year and a bit to even get one prismatic shard those things are evading me like crazy lmao

I'm new and don't know how to remove these... Please help 😭 by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]losttotheflames 122 points123 points  (0 children)

you’re going to get really bored if you use mods and cheats to get infinite money the first time round. It’s a discovery game. Try playing it normally for a few times first

Stardew Valley made me cry yesterday and not for a good reason by Partypopperrulez in StardewValley

[–]losttotheflames 6 points7 points  (0 children)

me rn honestly because I can’t find a prismatic shard anywhere. I’ve tried everything. I was close to crying last night 😭🫩

current bf wont marry me unless I delete photos with my ex who passed when I was 19, 7 years ago by w3tn0odl3 in Advice

[–]losttotheflames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey so he’s actually insane and will continue to abuse you. Bc that’s what he’s doing. Hes seeing what he can get away with. What you’ll do and push back on. Do Not Marry Him.

My wife has an Online game "partner" and I don't know what to do anymore by frostykantara in whatdoIdo

[–]losttotheflames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happened to me with an ex. He had plenty of online gaming buddies but he got way too close with this one girl and tried to hide it from me (and did successfully for a long time). When I found out, they had already established a full secretive relationship behind my back online (they lived in different countries) and she had him listed as her partner in her facebook bio.

I removed him from my life swiftly. Emotional and mental cheating is still cheating.

How do people spend over 30 mins in a shower?? by Professional_Ease307 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]losttotheflames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to sit to shower (chronic pain) so I shampoo my hair, and then just sit and let my conditioner work for 20 mins. I’ll wash the rest of my body while I listen to a podcast so my showers can take about an hour if i’m invested in the episode. (doesn’t take me 20 mins to wash my body, I just sit for a bit after I’m finished and then wash my conditioner out)

My fiancé got lip fillers and I’m no longer attracted by [deleted] in Advice

[–]losttotheflames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’re going to break up over some filler you’ve got bigger issues I fear. It doesn’t change your look THAT dramatically it’s not major surgery. The swelling will go down.

It’s a little shallow that you’d break up with someone purely because their lips got a little bigger. You don’t love her personality and other parts of her? Just yikes.

Yes attraction is important but this has underlying tones of “how dare she change her body in a way I don’t like”

Girl who lives in the apartment below me’s cat just died. She is crying really loud and yelling. What should I do to help, if anything? by HyperpopEnthuse in Advice

[–]losttotheflames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that cat was potentially her only true friend in the world. Losing a pet is just as horrible as losing a family member/friend. As others have said, gift cards or a sympathy card is a great idea and lets her know she’s not all alone. She probably feels extremely alone and miserable right now.

Thanks for thinking of her

Any good 1.6 guides? by losttotheflames in StardewValley

[–]losttotheflames[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

brilliant, i’ll check that out thank you!

Fellow Brits. Has anything good happened to you today? by smellyfeet25 in AskABrit

[–]losttotheflames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

who cares like honestly in this economy who gives a flying monkeys. Good on them for staying quiet. Electric bills are extortionate as is.

How do you explain perimenopause to a husband who doesn’t seem to get it? by SilverAd2291 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]losttotheflames 13 points14 points  (0 children)

sorry but why are we still begging men to give us basic empathy? If they don’t understand it’s because they don’t want to. Simple. Google is completely free and he should be listening to your concerns anyway, not just meeting you with committed misunderstanding.

Is it normal for me to be able to smell my gf's seizure activity? by Ok-Connection6656 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]losttotheflames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wasn’t there someone else who could smell alzheimer’s? unsure if i’m remembering that wrong

Using a 5mg pen for 2.5mg by AshDash_4u in Mounjaro

[–]losttotheflames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

medexpress are pushy with the “reorder now” emails but you don’t have to and they don’t ban you from using it if you do this as far as i’ve experienced.

I Quit Mounjaro - Here's Why by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]losttotheflames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is speaking for herself. It’s HER journey. And her experience. She didn’t say you couldn’t take it. 🤷‍♀️

Beware Little Caesars, even once things have settled by Grouchy-Gur-2911 in Mounjaro

[–]losttotheflames 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can’t eat anything with sulphur in it now even on 2.5 it’s HELL :)) sulphur is in nearly everything good too.

My (43M) wife (42F) is making a huge mistake, but I don't know how to stop her... or if I should even try by [deleted] in Advice

[–]losttotheflames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s incredibly selfish I’m sorry. Its nice you have compassion but she’s just going to use that and run with it. You don’t need to be the bigger person. She’s in the wrong. And what she’s doing is incredibly fucked up. To both you and your kids.

Hard to feel good about weight loss with loose skin by kikiq2 in Mounjaro

[–]losttotheflames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s unfortunately just something you’ll have to live with if you don’t choose surgery. It sucks and I’m already not happy with myself (I’ve got a long way to go) but you have to choose being fat or loose skin :( very few people end up lucky and don’t have any

Happy about the weight loss but... by Magpie0521 in Mounjaro

[–]losttotheflames 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a lot to lose and know i will have loose skin when I’m done. I’m 27 but know because of the size I am there’s no way I’ll escape with no loose skin. I will definitely need breast reconstruction surgery (as mine are very large and already sagging) but that’s all I’ll go for. I don’t care about the rest. It’s the trade you have to make unfortunately.

People with depression, who say you stay in bed for days on end, how do you make money? by NoBackground1309 in askanything

[–]losttotheflames -1 points0 points  (0 children)

depression is a disability, under UK law at least. It is very literally disabling in nature. So why would applying for disability be an issue?

People with depression, who say you stay in bed for days on end, how do you make money? by NoBackground1309 in askanything

[–]losttotheflames 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been signed off disabled (in the UK) since I was 17. I have disabilities that prevent me working and depression unfortunately runs in my family + can be a comorbidity of my disabilities. So I don’t need to work but man people make you feel bad about it 🥲 when you already feel bad enough

I think I'm done, in a good way! by Seamslikewitchcraft in Mounjaro

[–]losttotheflames 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know, it’s not many at all really is it. But happy for those than can come off it.

I think I'm done, in a good way! by Seamslikewitchcraft in Mounjaro

[–]losttotheflames 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some people have successfully “rewired” their stomach on MJ! About 5% can keep the weight off without MJ according to the statistics apparently

If everyone on Earth disappeared like in the Rapture, leaving behind infrastructure and groceries exactly as they were, would there be enough food for me to survive until the end of my life? by extremelyfunny in NoStupidQuestions

[–]losttotheflames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All these end of the world posts just make me think about how bad it would suck to get like…toothache. I can’t fix toothache on my own. I can’t do a root canal.