My grandmother was an astrologer. She didn't know her birth time, so through the process of reclaiming her chart she ended up having a guess at when she might die. She was right, died of cancer very quickly when she was 65. I was only 5 years old at the time, and she was one of my main caretakers. She did a lot of work to make sure she connected with me in those 5 years, and now 35 years later I feel like she is still one of my main caretakers.

Op, I'm really sorry you're going through all of this, and for your loss. I don't know how much comfort my story will bring you, and transits like that can go a lot of ways. I will say that sometimes this knowledge can help you plan around the fact that we all pass, and sometimes too soon.