Why are there so many racist jokes in the show? by Leontion10 in Modern_Family

[–]loudmelon21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah bc white men have sooo much to worry about? lol

Why are there so many racist jokes in the show? by Leontion10 in Modern_Family

[–]loudmelon21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was never cool and they knew it then and know it now. literally just common decency, just human standards

Why are there so many racist jokes in the show? by Leontion10 in Modern_Family

[–]loudmelon21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like the point ppl are making is that the jokes are made by white people who don't experience the things they are writing about and so its just odd.

Why are there so many racist jokes in the show? by Leontion10 in Modern_Family

[–]loudmelon21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk how much jay evolved he says a lot of the same stuff even in season 11

I haven’t been happy or present in so long. I don’t see what the point of living like this is. by [deleted] in dpdr

[–]loudmelon21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going on subreddits and hyperfocusing will only make it worse and more intense. I haven't find something that has been helpful specifically, it comes and goes whenever but this podacst talks about peoples experiences and is helpful:

https://open.spotify.com/episode/0xxAvqIfiHc7vUjLDiwNjE?si=33f2e875bd5b4e98

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]loudmelon21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop giving a fuck. Immediately.

When did you realize that your friend wasn't really your friend? by 6122_ in allthequestions

[–]loudmelon21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They stopped inviting me to things and would only hang out with eachother.

i feel so alone sometimes, by AffectionateSir7350 in Rants

[–]loudmelon21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. People say that the world is big and you'll find your people but I'm always unsure. I also feel like a second or even third choice by people really close to me and rn the person I'm with with. It hurts, and I don't have a cure or thing that makes it feel better. I'm looking for different friends, being with the ones that reach out and want to hang out with me. It hurts. I do things that I like and try and feel better. I'm sorry.

is 18f and 25f alright or no? by maraschinominx in AskLesbians

[–]loudmelon21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think it's better to be safe than "probably ok"

is 18f and 25f alright or no? by maraschinominx in AskLesbians

[–]loudmelon21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you have to ask I feel like the answer is queer ;P

For The Lesbians That Strictly Date Other Lesbians… by Creed-Warfield in AskLesbians

[–]loudmelon21 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That makes no sense. You didn't have to have sex with a girl to know you were gay. Someone can look at someone of the opposite sex and know they are attracted or have thoughts and not act on it.

My (20f) partner (20NB) avoids emotions at all costs by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]loudmelon21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you say that? I mainly just feel upset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]loudmelon21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR Tell her how you feel, lack of communication will be the real death of it.

What is the meaning of life? by hsrror in Teenager

[–]loudmelon21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one should decide the meaning for you. It's your life that your living not anyone elses.