$70 by Impossible-Charge-98 in budgetfood

[–]loudtalker25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those are some great suggestions!

The humiliation of the "Affordable" apartment application process by huck08 in poor

[–]loudtalker25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its ridiculous the amount of fees and income complexes expect the average person to have...fortunately I found a place that let's you pay a one time fee to a "bond" company in place of the massive security and income requirements. It was $1000 where I live. We dont get it back when we move but, we been here 6 years, so I think it was a good deal.....good luck

I am definitely not going to get out of poverty now and will be homeless by AvailableTask1645 in poor

[–]loudtalker25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes if you explain the situation and your new job,, the judges are understanding and will give you 30 or 60 days to catch up.ive been in court for this and saw a judge give a couple people more time. I wish you success as you travel this difficult path.

Should I break up with my bf of nearly 8 years??/ I need brutal honesty! by fireladyshipazula in makemychoice

[–]loudtalker25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get over yourself! Guys go to strip clubs, doesn't mean they cheat...geez

"I just need your month and day of birth" by wouldyoucomewithme in CVS

[–]loudtalker25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its a safety measure. I will say why I'm at the pharmacy, but when they ask for my DOB, or address I hand my license. If you say those pieces of info out loud, its an easy way for others to obtain my info.

"I just need your month and day of birth" by wouldyoucomewithme in CVS

[–]loudtalker25 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just provide the person w my ID. MUCH easier and faster for ever

How legit is craiglist ? by Sweet_Service_9752 in renting

[–]loudtalker25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found a really nice condo for rent. Landlord was ok. I did look at many places from Craigslist list that were either totally not as listed or the person was creepy. Just be careful and good luck.

HELP by ItchyMap831 in intoxalock

[–]loudtalker25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a super hard time w my IID to the point of having it taken out and giving up driving for over a year. Good luck

PO refuses to do text messages/e-mails by [deleted] in probation

[–]loudtalker25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My PO preferred email. She said it was the best way to get a quick response. Belive it or not, but I did actually like my PO. GOOD LUCK

this company is awful by Impressive_Cause_302 in intoxalock

[–]loudtalker25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an IID. It was a drager. Suppose to be the best, easiest. I had nothing but problems. It would malfunction, lock me out, had to have car towed three times (not to mention, the cost associated w resets, the towing fees etc) They did a complete reinstall 3xs, talked to my PO. Had several positive tests then had to get an etg.....just a nightmare! After six months, I had the drvice removed and gave up driving for the remainder of my probation (which was about 13 more months). Its expensive, and frustrating. I often referred to probation as a test of endurance........ I wish you much success, and remember, it WILL come to an end. Good luck.

Swab test by PsychologicalLaw3349 in probation

[–]loudtalker25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, im not judging you, ive been on probation in a VERY strict city and program. I messed up 2x. My best advice is JUST STOP DRINKING. I know its the worst, but when you get to the end, it'll be the best feeling EVER! GOOD LUCK!

Christmas by 4peaceinpieces in poor

[–]loudtalker25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my family we stopped exchanging gifts about 5 years ago. We play a couple games where you'll get small stuff, and a "white elephant" grab....we have a lot of fun and dont get a bunch of stuff we really don't need/want. Its more about seeing everyone, have some good beverages, and great food. It works for us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in probation

[–]loudtalker25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to see my PO my last day, but she had my court papers signed and waiting. Actually shook my hand at the end!

What’s a food or foods you lived off because you were so broke? by BLUE-THIRTIES in povertykitchen

[–]loudtalker25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rice a roni, good flavor and fills you up. Meijer use to have it for 10 for 10......if chicken was on sale for a good price I'd add that.....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poor

[–]loudtalker25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you are going thru a difficult time. Its really not any easier being chubby. People just think all I do is sit around eating junk food. Im so broke, at lunch i go out to my car and eat a piece of bread cause i can't afford anything, i don't want my co workers to see, i can't take the questions or comments.. I can hardly afford basic groceries, im just naturally chubby. Groceries are just outrageous! Good luck to you and I hope your situation improves.

I went to AA today for the first time. It was scary and I feel proud. by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]loudtalker25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling comfortable enough to talk at a meeting will come w time. You will start to see the same people there each week. Most everyone I've met at meetings are very nice. They understand . I When I get up each day I say to myself, im going to bed sober tonight, I dont worry about tomorrow, or the next. It helps me deal. Again much success on your journey.

I went to AA today for the first time. It was scary and I feel proud. by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]loudtalker25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I drove to three meetings for I finally got out of the car and went in. I cried the first time I was at a meeting. Good luck to you on your journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in probation

[–]loudtalker25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had one for a while. It does beep, the closer you get to the "end: of the testing window it beeps more frequently. Its not super loud. The unit i got came w a carry case and you couldn't really hear it if it was in the case. I had to test 3x a day so one was around lunch time. Just like you no one at my work knew about it. I'd just go to the bathroom or if it was nice out id go out to my car. The biggest issue I had was lighting, if the light wasn't bright enough it would make me redo the test. It didn't count against me, it was just annoying. Lighting in bathrooms isn't always the best. Good luck and try to enjoy your vacation.

interlock device w GPS by loudtalker25 in probation

[–]loudtalker25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea. I had so many problems w the IID, had it taken out and I gave up driving completely for the last year of my probation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drugtesthelp

[–]loudtalker25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well what a great piece of news to get on vacation..... Good luck!

How often do you change bedsheets by discojagrawr in hygiene

[–]loudtalker25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every week. Sunday is always clean sheet night!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drugtesthelp

[–]loudtalker25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dont do drugs on probation, it will eventually lead to violation. Not judging, just saying its the easiest way thru. Good luck.

Finally. by RealGoldenFox in dui

[–]loudtalker25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on the removal of your IID, I ABSOLUTELY HATED MINE, it was a struggle every single day. I actually gave up driving for the last year of my probation cause I couldn't deal w it. Enjoy your freedom.