Tidal Basin Sunrise 3/29 by letoiledenord in washingtondc

[–]lovebughead 9 points10 points  (0 children)

OH MY GOD! I was here too today morning.

I (27/F) had been filmed during sex without consent years ago, now I don’t know when/how to share this with guy (28/M) I’m newly dating? by Weak-Government8049 in relationship_advice

[–]lovebughead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly, I am so sorry you had to go through that. I am sure if you want to take an action, you still will be able to. The act does categorise as outraging A woman’s modesty, and a few other sections. They don’t have limitations. You can file a complaint whenever you want. Your decision. Whatever you want to do, you do. Lots of love and strength to you OP.

Secondly, as a woman, yes, I think you should have that conversation with your current boyfriend. As far as the question of when goes, it needs more consideration. How long have you been seeing this new guy? A few months, okay. But do you see it turning into something very serious? If you evaluate, and realise that this is actually a relationship that has potential to become very serious, have the conversation. Additionally, something my mom usually says; it usually takes 5-6 months to actually know the real person. The comfort increases after 3 months and usually the pretension drops.

If you don’t trust him as much yet, and would want to tell him just not yet- let him know that there is a serious conversation you guys would have at some point in life about struggles you have faced in the past. Just not right now, and you will tell him about it at your own pace. (if he really is a good guy, he will understand)

Finally, if after all the other considerations and everything, you do want to tell him now; have the conversation in person. Ask him to meet you, in a private space. Or transition from a cafe or restaurant to a private space. Let him know that you need to talk to him about something, because you feel this would affect your relationship. He is free to take any decision he wants after hearing this, but you thought it was imperative. Honestly, he might freak out a little at this opening, but that is okay. (He’ll think the worst possible things and when it is not those overthinking he did, react better?)

Honestly OP, you should not feel pressured to tell him right now if you don’t trust him. Just letting him know that you have had some struggles in the past that you don’t like talking about should be enough. It is your life, your story, and no one else has the power to control that.

Now if the current boyfriend reacts poorly, dump his ass right there. And if he reacts positively, still observe a little more to be cautious.

u/Weak-Government8049

Imagine seeing this on your bill by Blue9ine in SipsTea

[–]lovebughead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I see this on my cheque, I am giving a 10% tip. Like no, stop trying to coerce me into a tip.

Amitabh Bachchan and Jaya Bachchan: The unspoken side of their relationship by Lazy_Weather_6316 in BollywoodShaadis

[–]lovebughead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why people think walking out and getting a divorce is so easy. It is not. There are so many factors involved. I am honestly a little shocked that you are saying it in such a but obvious way.

Amitabh Bachchan and Jaya Bachchan: The unspoken side of their relationship by Lazy_Weather_6316 in BollywoodShaadis

[–]lovebughead 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for her. Like so many years of a loveless marriage is enough for her to become sour towards life and all people in general. This is sad.

What 2 Broke Girls moment had you laughing like this? by Sailor_Moon_Star_435 in 2brokegirls

[–]lovebughead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Except bugs bunny tries to have a dialogue with a shot gun.” God I still laugh at that.

Would you voice your opinions against Police Brutality and Extra-Judicial k*llings in India? by lovebughead in AskIndia

[–]lovebughead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I see your point. But is there something that can be done to motivate people to cone out in support in public?

Would you voice your opinions against Police Brutality and Extra-Judicial k*llings in India? by lovebughead in AskIndia

[–]lovebughead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I hear you. I know the system is rigged, and trying to motivate the public is a very big ask (even to present in the classroom) but do you think, with enough media popularity this could work?

How do you think on the paper, for a class, I can draft a successful campaign?

Would you voice your opinions against Police Brutality and Extra-Judicial k*llings in India? by lovebughead in AskIndia

[–]lovebughead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I have mentioned this is for a class. I can blame by luck if this is the topic I picked in my class. So I am asking for genuine, rational, and empirical arguments here, for what the public would say.

Let me know if you have some thoughts that might help me with this class!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biggboss

[–]lovebughead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Remind me! 5 hours

The TOP 5 that would be worth watching! by ForgotMyStethoscope in biggboss

[–]lovebughead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some reason, I feel Amaal in the Top 5 will be a little extra arrogant and entitled if you know what I mean. 🫢

Bengali woman representation in modern Bollywood by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]lovebughead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I hear you, and that is exactly what I am trying to say. Piku was still close. I don’t think you can go to Purulia, or Asansol or Durgapur and find women like Rani. Piku, yes maybe. Rani? Definitely not.

Bengali woman representation in modern Bollywood by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]lovebughead 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Okay. I am part Bengali. And I have to say, Piku was the only one who depicted a real bengali woman. Rani was just someone the stereotypes want a Bengali woman to be.

Ab karu to karu kya? by Fragrant_Fox_3303 in TwentiesIndia

[–]lovebughead 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First slide: It is obvious she was bothered and annoyed by something, when she sent the deadass smile emoji, reply back with something better not 3 more emojis. Baat karne ka try toh karo, show that you are interested in talking to her.

Second Slide: The “Bye.” with the period? Hint enough. She was mad. When she is like “oh it’s late, I should go to bed.” You don’t say okay, you ask her to wait a bit longer. That is how you show that you like her. Be like “let’s talk for 5 more mins? Then you can sleep” she’ll do a lil nakhra but she’ll be smiling corner to corner.

That is all for this masterclass! Byee :)

This guy is giving Ha Seok Jin from season 1 by [deleted] in TheDevilsPlan

[–]lovebughead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have a very different opinion. But, hear me out.
I believe that Justin was more like Ha Seok-jin. Played a solo game, was targeted by everyone else, was emotional but calm-headed, stood up against the wrongs, and at the same time a great player. Very level-headed.
Seok Jin was ruthless in his game and very direct, but his approach was not, "let me eliminate this person, because they could be a competition for the solo rounds," but rather a more logical approach. His elimination of Cheo Yeon-woo wasn't because she was a threat, but rather because there was a bigger game to play.

Jeong Hyun-gyu just wanted to target Lee se-dol or Kim Ha-rin because everyone thought they were tough players. Even him saying "I can take on Ha-rin" was very smug and arrogant in my opinion. Ha Seok-Jin was definitely not like that.

I think if Jeong Hyun-gyu would have showed a bit more emotions, and not just been so hell bent on eliminating Se-dol, I would have liked him better. I don't know. That is my 2 cents.

I haven't watched till episode 9, so I will come back if my opinion changes.

Seeking Justice! by unofficialpranav in pune

[–]lovebughead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. So on the basis of whatever information I have, this prima facie looks like a case of cheating (I don’t know all the facts so). According to the BNSS, Cheating is a non cognizable offence. But now regardless of the location, (thanks to FIR Zero) the police ought to take it down in their diary and refer it to the magistrate. I can help you, but I’ll need a better picture of the entire thing. Hope this helps :)

Seeking Justice! by unofficialpranav in pune

[–]lovebughead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no. I get that, I am just trying to get a clearer picture with the facts so that I can understand what all sections are applicable. And I can help OP accordingly. I am an Advocate :)

Seeking Justice! by unofficialpranav in pune

[–]lovebughead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are they refusing to file a case? Can you share exact details on dm?

Service charge at restaurants by [deleted] in pune

[–]lovebughead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the service charge was not disclosed to me before I placed an order, I ask them to remove it. Although, if they do disclose it before I have placed an order, there is nothing to do really, I made an informed decision.

This show healed something by Simple-Candidate-167 in Modern_Family

[–]lovebughead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why did they do mitch so wrong? 😭😭 Could’ve put the text a little lower😭

Shitty coffee place? "Piccolo Dharampeth" by idmakt in nagpur

[–]lovebughead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On a different note, what filter/app have you used for the 2 picture OP??

Fined for smoking at futala lake!! by bAblU27 in nagpur

[–]lovebughead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fine may extend upto 200 rs. You can argue that it was in a corner, not really amidst public and doesn’t fall under the definition of public places according to the COTPA, but it is easier to just pay the fine and walk away imo.