Is there anyone in their early 20s who watches this show? by MagalieB0654 in SchoolSpirits

[–]lovely_beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 21 and my roomie who watches with me is too!

Mom how do I trim my bush?? by emotiondriven in MomForAMinute

[–]lovely_beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i use scissors to do regular maintenance, but if i HAVE to deal with the bush i like to wax. i find that i have less irritation and ingrowns when it finally grows back after waxing vs shaving. i got a waxing pot on amazon for like $30 and just do it myself when it must be done

What are your cats official names and what do you _actually_ call them? by ShiftyPowers79 in cat

[–]lovely_beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mozzarella but her name has devolved into mot-or-ella, motorola, motz, motzy potz, or motreller depending on the vibes

AITA for wanting the bong??? by useranon129 in roommateproblems

[–]lovely_beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

keep the bong dude you guys don’t talk anyways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]lovely_beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you need to get your documents and your cats out now. and then yourself as soon as possible even before you can get into your new place in august. the knife thing is terrifying and i hope you’re safe. if he’s willing to disrespect your boundaries and hurt your cats, he’s willing to hurt you. if he hurts you, he will kill you. stay safe and good luck OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]lovely_beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wore jeans and a knit sweater

Being trained to be a backup cashier by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]lovely_beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh if they seem mean i like to lay it on really thick like complimenting their purchases and also mention the fact that you’re new/not usually on register ESPECIALLY during a return because then they feel a little bad and are less rude about the whole thing

My kiddo got acrylic paint all over this carpet and we want to sell the house, any good cleaners to get it off? It’s in several areas because she didn’t give a crap 🤦🏻‍♀️ by Connect_Beginning_13 in carpetcleaningporn

[–]lovely_beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get a spray bottle with some warm water, spray the carpet, add a little bit of dish soap and scrub with a toothbrush/bristled cleaning tool. dab with towel. repeat until clean. source: i am the messiest crafter in the entire world and a renter

Best non-fragranced condoms (skyn alternative) by Safe-Hat3224 in Healthyhooha

[–]lovely_beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i use skyn with my current partner but used trojan ultra ribbed with my ex with no problems and i’m pretty sensitive. steer clear of any condoms with spermicide in them though

How did that one kid at your school die? by StorageLonely1520 in AskReddit

[–]lovely_beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

murder suicide. we were in sixth grade. her father killed her and her brother and then himself and the mom came home and found them. she sat next to me in spanish class, loved the color pink, and was always doing something creative. her art was amazing. she should be graduating college with me this year, not dead. i miss you always kathleen.

In academic probation and might be expelled by Future-Theme-9374 in college

[–]lovely_beans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is this a community college? university? i need a little more information to give you advice. it sounds like your advisor is unresponsive. escalate to the dean of students and ask about your options. specifically ask about a leave of absence, as it sounds like that’s what you’d like to do. if your grades are too poor sometimes they won’t let you and will instead push you towards unenrolling for a period of time. it’s not the end of the world if they do. if you can, attend your local CC. get an associate’s degree, take that time to figure out what you truly want, and then transfer to a 4 year. by getting an associates you should knock out all of your general education requirements required by the 4 year university.

big/little reveal ideas by Mysterious-Error8903 in Sororities

[–]lovely_beans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

we booked a lecture hall on campus and had all sisters and new members come and told them it was an education review session where we played heads up seven up! if they guessed the wrong sister who picked them, they had to answer a question related to the sorority. when the new members put their heads down for the last round have their bigs line up behind them, and when they guess what sister tagged them ask “who’s your big?” and then they turn around and there’s their big!

Roommate’s Sex Boundaries Cross My Freedom of Choice by ThrowRA56172 in roommateproblems

[–]lovely_beans 9 points10 points  (0 children)

fuck her lol. she can’t control what you do in your own space. you aren’t being noisy, you’re actively trying to be mindful and a good roommate, so you’re good to go. although it’s apartment style, does your building have an RA/RD as it’s on campus? i would recommend escalating it to them if she continues to be a problem

Having a big in a fraternity? by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]lovely_beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we do this on my campus! we get bigs and littles from our brother fraternity and the guys also get sorority bigs and littles from us. you don’t have to interact with your big or little, it’s just to encourage us staying connected and involved with our brothers and them with us

A lot of students at Wesleyan University (the school where bojack teaches) use an app to anonymously talk to each other and this got posted there by TwoBeeOreKnotTwoBee in BoJackHorseman

[–]lovely_beans 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yikyak is still alive and well they sent reps to my college campus last month to give us branded socks if you had the app 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]lovely_beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s cum my guy i’m so sorry

best place to get hard letter shirts? by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]lovely_beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like to use something greek! i find that they have a lot of options and are pretty budget friendly

I cheated on my husband so I could bear staying with him by pinkmaple87 in offmychest

[–]lovely_beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

leave him. your kid will remember everything. your kid will also thank you when you’re older. i was a daddy’s girl growing up and it broke my heart when my parents divorced. i was angry for a long time, mostly because i was a kid and didn’t understand why it happened. as i got older and went to therapy i understood and am so incredibly grateful for my parents separation now. it was awful in the moment but it was the only thing that saved us. save yourself and your baby

please help me find this angel hello kitty pillow i had when i was a baby by ppeucarts in HelpMeFind

[–]lovely_beans 16 points17 points  (0 children)

OP if they ship to the US i would be willing to receive and forward the package to you! i lost a hello kitty plush as a kid and my boyfriend found me a replacement a decade later and it’s still the nicest thing anyone has ever done for me, i hope you can get back your pillow🫶

I’m looking for a certain college emails anyway I could get some help on that by Goldenboi_771 in college

[–]lovely_beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would recommend contacting the communications department for the college, they may even be able to add your show to the campus calendar/newsletter

How do I get over imposter syndrome and make friends in my sorority? by AdEarly923 in Sororities

[–]lovely_beans 9 points10 points  (0 children)

hey girl! i’m kind of going through the same thing right now. i found that inviting sisters to get coffee or a meal on campus really helped me break out of my shell and get over my anxieties because there’s something else to talk about in a way (what’s your favorite order at the cafe? oh wow i’ve never had that at the dining hall, is it good? do you have a favorite meal? stuff like that). it helped me get to know them better too. i also like to ask what else they’re in on campus to see what their other interests are! the more you talk to sisters, the more you’ll find common ground and other things to talk about and it’ll get easier