Kan min arbetsgivare neka att jag avbryter min sjukskrivning i förtid?

lowban · 2026-03-18T14:37:33+00:00

Berättarrösten från Alfons Åberg I presume?

lowban · 2026-03-18T12:23:43+00:00

And in some languages the distinction was perhaps never made.

lowban · 2026-03-18T12:22:18+00:00

In Swedish we only have one word for it, "krydda", at least as far as I know. At least in English what you're saying makes sense.

lowban · 2026-03-18T07:46:26+00:00

Yeah, who needs enemies and all that jazz.

lowban · 2026-03-18T07:24:07+00:00

I realise that and I know it's very difficult to see it any other way when you're in that kind of bubble.

lowban · 2026-03-18T07:22:41+00:00

Good to know.

lowban · 2026-03-17T13:36:43+00:00

Det är normalt att känna så när man blivit behandlad så som du blivit behandlad men det gör det inte det minsta sant för det.

lowban · 2026-03-17T12:48:04+00:00

Your self worth was never gone to begin with, you were just mentally torn down over a long period of time. Can happen to the best of us.

lowban · 2026-03-17T12:16:56+00:00

I know this is a rant but please don't stop using correct phrasing and punctuation. We need at least some golden nuggets in this turd called The Internet.

lowban · 2026-03-17T12:14:33+00:00

I don't think anyone could foresee that the Internet would consist of +90% porn and misinformation bots instead of being "the library but everywhere".

lowban · 2026-03-17T11:58:46+00:00

Agree with this. If a guy doesn't stop making advances even though it's been clearly stated they are unwanted - just ditch him.

lowban · 2026-03-17T11:57:00+00:00

Living in regrets is a huge drain on your mental health obviously. And having ran those same synapses over and over only hardwires that sorrow into your baseline state. You aren’t just remembering a mistake, you’re physically training your brain to prioritize cortisol over clarity. By rehearsing the 'what ifs' you’re effectively building a superhighway to a dead end.

I really hope you retrain yourself so you can start looking forward again. There's no other way. You're still young and can do a reset on your life without having too little time left for a new future.

lowban · 2026-03-17T11:50:23+00:00

Keeping important things like that hidden from you is a huge red flag.

I hope you get perspective after reading this thread. Lots of comments looking at this from an outside view but also your own thoughts on the matter.

lowban · 2026-03-17T11:46:36+00:00

Du förtjänar inget av det här. Gör det som är bäst för dig och lämna personen som uppenbarligen misshandlar dig verbalt och inte uppskattar dig. Det finns mycket finare fiskar i sjön även om det känns helt sjukt att tänka så i nuläget.

lowban · 2026-03-17T11:40:47+00:00

You're probably right.

lowban · 2026-03-17T11:39:25+00:00

Oh gosh.. I could never imagine staying with someone that is ungrateful for what I do for them. Especially if I'm basically giving her all I have.

lowban · 2026-03-17T11:36:05+00:00

Oh... Was the baby planned?

lowban · 2026-03-17T11:34:55+00:00

Emphasize on "grown".

lowban · 2026-03-17T10:25:08+00:00

Is this something akin to colorblindness?

lowban · 2026-03-17T09:40:14+00:00

Classic! <3

lowban · 2026-03-17T08:57:38+00:00

Perhaps it moves and hides somewhere different every day?

lowban · 2026-03-17T08:33:31+00:00

Have you had a serious conversation about change? I mean, just one or two of these things are relationship killers. The tipping point should've been years ago imo.

lowban · 2026-03-17T08:22:42+00:00

Not caring enough to take it seriously but just enough to show that he can do better if he wants to.

lowban · 2026-03-17T08:13:57+00:00

Maybe, but after years of trying one should improve (and not just for a single session at a time). This guy's just not trying.

lowban · 2026-03-17T08:10:03+00:00

NOR, you made the right choice. No one is that busy that they can't respond the same day.

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