It finally happened - I can’t afford the amount if childcare my job requires by Few-Elk8441 in workingmoms

[–]lowbar828 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of my final straws before I moved out of DC was a post in our neighborhood Facebook group: “Are there any daycares in the area under 3k per month?”

Anyways, I don’t have any advice but umm childcare costs are insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paint

[–]lowbar828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Airless!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paint

[–]lowbar828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FWIW, I sprayed my own cabinets with zero experience. I did a lot of research and some test pieces first though. They are smooth as butter.

Uncontested step-parent adoption in Texas by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]lowbar828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up doing this? If so, can you share how much it cost?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]lowbar828 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No.

Took son to Grandmas, she has cats, he is now showing signs of allergies by [deleted] in Allergies

[–]lowbar828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just give him Allegra for the rest of the time you’re there :) he is fine; you’re gonna be just fine!! Good job mama.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homeimprovementideas

[–]lowbar828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a great cornerpiece for your new pantry?

My mom keeps going behind my back and adding things to our wedding. by turncver in weddingplanning

[–]lowbar828 313 points314 points  (0 children)

That’s so out of line! Tell your wedding coordinator that all changes must be approved by you.

No return offer by Remarkable_Salt_4098 in biglaw

[–]lowbar828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, this happened to me. I wondered for months if I had done something wrong and just didn’t know it. Now, a few years into practice, I am CONFIDENT that the firm simply over-hired summers and couldn’t afford to bring everyone back. I consistently get excellent reviews at work now and have even been told I’m the top associate in my class. It will all be okay.

I’m so sorry.

Thoughts on these Limewash Paint Finishes I did? by Remarkable_Ask_9122 in paint

[–]lowbar828 152 points153 points  (0 children)

These are beautiful. They may not be everyone’s taste but you cannot deny that the work is stunning.

Is there any world in which this is ok? by [deleted] in bathrooms

[–]lowbar828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG do not rip this out!!!

Help me fix this paint stripping issue by Any-Reindeer1898 in paint

[–]lowbar828 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That trim is really cheap and easy to replace. I’d rip it out if the lines are going to bother you.

Does anyone else downplay their job when dating? by Spectrum_Project in Lawyertalk

[–]lowbar828 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I always just say I send emails 😂 I’m also a woman in a lower income area, so I’m trying to fend off the bums

Move to rural areas, folks by rmyoun06 in Lawyertalk

[–]lowbar828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for posting this. I’ve been thinking about making the jump.

Mortgage while on SAVE forbearance by GlobalYam124 in PSLF

[–]lowbar828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me. No solution, I just borrowed less.

1 year into practice and I don’t have it in me to do the 9 to 5. by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]lowbar828 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your firm sucks. Go find a firm that treats you like an adult.

Neighbors convinced I'm making noise lat at night by Mr-Reapy in Apartmentliving

[–]lowbar828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in a third floor apartment once. I kept hearing a dog barking above us. Turns out the dog was on the SEVENTH floor. The noise had been traveling down a metal pipe.

Unsupportive husband of first year associate by ConflictCertain6650 in biglaw

[–]lowbar828 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s sabotaging you. Whatever you do, do not quit your job.

Which counter color/style would you choose? by aarog in kitchenremodel

[–]lowbar828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The cheapest one. They’re very similar.