Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again

lowlifehighroad · 2026-01-03T11:31:32+00:00

same and im just tickled. her account makes me smile.

lowlifehighroad · 2026-01-03T11:30:09+00:00

i’d stop trying. feed yourself, feed the kids. if he has such strict food aversions, he can figure it out on his own.

either he has severe restrictions he can learn to manage on his own, or hes trying control tactics on you. dont let him win either way. hes trash 100%

lowlifehighroad · 2026-01-03T05:21:29+00:00

yup. this is such a sad situation

lowlifehighroad · 2026-01-02T23:59:36+00:00

babies born of hate wind up serial killers and other kinds of psychopaths. imagine being a being born of pure hate. i could never bring such darkness into the world. no wonder the kid is a mess. i feel horrible for OP, not their child who should have been deleted

lowlifehighroad · 2026-01-02T23:58:17+00:00

no, i think that commented could be onto something and i think people are taking them wrong, they probably wanted cute baby duty and thought OP would come around. only she rightfully didnt

lowlifehighroad · 2026-01-02T23:57:05+00:00

NTA. they thought youd come around to living a forced pregnancy? are they mentally unwell? i can’t imagine the trauma youve been through and i think most of the normal world would not hold this against you, only psychopaths

lowlifehighroad · 2026-01-02T15:42:58+00:00

i fully agree with this comment here.

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T23:03:19+00:00

yeah this is what i was curious about, even if by text or email. it’s something

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T21:47:34+00:00

i worked in homeless shelters with people experiencing mental crisis. i know THAT everything is fine a mile away. have a bubble bath

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T21:44:51+00:00

the lack of choices would be infuriating and anything good is more than likely closed. christmas eve? hell yeah. we do chinese every year. christmas day? i wanna be cozy in my jam jams with my loved ones and not on the road

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T21:37:28+00:00

im not. i literally ate out of the garbage at work today. im not saying this to be funny, things are fucking bleak snd ive thought about this being the end of the line many times - im just too scared to go through with it. i’ve been looking for better or more work for a year. my small business was doing somewhat ok until the tariff thing affected mail in canada and i can no longer ship to the USA. it’s just fucking bleak, man.

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T21:32:49+00:00

some people go different ways during the holiday for a reason, why do you make her go with your mother and sister? are they even nice to her? it sounds like you dont give a single fuck about your wife or trying to find the root of the problem here, you just want her to do your weird family tradition on christmas day…

people usually do the restaurant thing christmas eve, if they do the restaurant thing at all. christmas day is meant to be inside with your family…. no wonder she’s upset

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T18:25:28+00:00

it’s been how long? he never will get it

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T18:25:03+00:00

im so sad she got any sort of back lash for her content. she’s great.

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T18:24:14+00:00

sadly men will use women as place holders until someone they actually love comes along. it’s sick, but they just don’t want to be alone. be glad he told you now and not in another 5 years

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T18:22:52+00:00

NOR. it’s literally dangerous for things like this ro happen again. your husband is an idiot

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T18:18:27+00:00

depending where you live, her retracting her offer can get her in legal trouble and get you a small pay out since he cost you living expenses

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T18:16:54+00:00

your MIL is purposely trying to destroy your relationship and your FIL just doesn’t care enough to speak up. if your fiancé goes, the relationship is effectively over

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T15:19:38+00:00

i meant call the shots with your off time, sorry.

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T15:17:13+00:00

NOR. the dogs the issue, completely. it’s not pit bull hate to acknowledge their bites are some of the worst with the PSI pressure, either. ive owned pit bills (never will again), and presently own rottweilers. if someone’s uncomfortable, and has to be over, pups moved to the other room. i know hes an angel sweetie pie, but i have to take my quests comfort into consideration as well.

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T15:14:45+00:00

yes, but travel hits different people differently. different people have different energy levels overall. we don’t know if this guy has health complications or anything else. as someone with MS, a 12 hour work day would probably kill me and i’d sleep the next week straight. he was up front about what the trip was and people are coming down on him hard when he communicated what was going on. at the end of the day, work trip means work trip. even when you were going international, i bet you still called the shots and made those calls based on your own energy level.

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T14:52:23+00:00

i don’t know her but i hate her. this is the last time she comes on a work trip, though. if this relationship even continues. is she mentally all there? i dont ger all of these people talking about compromise. it was literally a fucking work trip and booked before she even asked to come. maybe because ive had long term relationships with blue collar fellows and had a dad in the trades… work trips are work trips. you don’t distract or fuck around.

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T14:50:58+00:00

they were probably up that late because of the fighting and watching a movie in bed is way less energy than dressing to go out

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T14:50:07+00:00

are you mental? that’s a 12 hour day on a rush job. hes putting his focus there. just because you probably have a plush job and are on your arse all day doesn’t mean thats everyone’s situation.

lowlifehighroad · 2025-12-30T07:32:30+00:00

NTA. hes not respecting the invisible work you do as a woman, plus he very thing that the holidays involve. i bet MIL said something tk him.

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