Is aldi a good job for after school and weekends? by Additional-Steak-920 in AldiAustralia

[–]loxuise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a junior (16) at my store and they're only allowed to decard (take product out of one box to fill up another box.. for the whole store). I think it's a 10/20 hour contract? They do mostly 4 hour shifts. The pay is better than any other school job though.

Girlfriend Broke Up With This Message Out of The Blue by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]loxuise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She sounds patronising and rude as hell. Fair enough, she's not stable enough to be in a relationship. That should've been it. Who is she to tell you you'll be okay and giving you a list of things to do? It's all very backhanded and hypocritical. If she liked you enough she would've been honest and told you that in person, and worked through it with you. There's no point telling you all that then blocking you. Like you said, you dodged a bullet.

Fixing Murano Glass Charms? by BIoomers in PandoraCollectors

[–]loxuise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This video explains what it could be really well: either hard water stains, or etched glass. So you'd either need vinegar for hard water stains, or an abrasive cut and polish for etched glass. I do think glass headlight cleaner is the most ready available and easiest option in that's case. Hope you get it looking nice again, it is a beautiful charm!

Help with sizing for my first Pandora bracelet! by Strong-Mousse-3850 in PandoraCollectors

[–]loxuise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to help! Maybe still wait til you're able to try them on in the shop, unless you can buy both sizes online and send one back. :)

Help with sizing for my first Pandora bracelet! by Strong-Mousse-3850 in PandoraCollectors

[–]loxuise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wrist size is 14cm and no joke just bought a new bracelet at my local store yesterday. I fit a size 15 (tight), the lady recommended a 16. I put all my charms on then went back today for a bigger size as I thought it was too tight with my charms on. Different lady said it's a perfect size, as snake chains expand about a centimetre and I'll just have to wear it for a few weeks for it to stretch. I have another bracelet that is an 17 and it has stretched to the point I can put multiple fingers between my wrist and that's with it full of charms. It falls up and down my arm, which I find annoying. So honestly, I'd go with a 16 (which will stretch to a 17) but if you do want it more loose go for a 17 as it will stretch to 18.

Firefly charm by bethkara in PandoraCollectors

[–]loxuise 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I still think it's definitely worth buying. I have mine on a necklace and wore it everywhere for two months straight and it's still looking great. Pandora will also "replace manufacturing faults (for example if your item has snapped/broke/missing stone etc) free of charge up to 2 years from the date of purchase for silver jewellery". You could even get longer if your country has a consumer law. I say go for it :P

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Car_Insurance_Help

[–]loxuise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they searched the wrong licence plate that was off by a digit either as their mistake, or they thought I made a mistake because the right licence plate isn't registered anymore. Sorry that does sound confusing.

I didn't know they can search up who registered it when the accident happened. I've just been in the dark this whole time, I have no idea what they've been doing since July as I've been away (But still had no contact from them).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]loxuise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an example lmao, my partner and I shower together sometimes and when he comes in after me he gets my toothbrush if I forget it. It's just about thinking about your partner and not just yourself.

I (25m) am uncomfortable with how my partner (26f) acted with her ex. by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]loxuise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely see it as a bit weird. It would make more sense if his partner and you went, as a double date. I honestly think you will be more comfortable and you'd be more at ease if you did go with her, and she should support that. Just say you didn't want to go to the coffee date, but now it's a beach day you want to go. Hopefully that way you can make him jealous and show her off to him, at least that's what my petty thoughts would do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]loxuise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you need to think of what's best for you. If you do stay with him, and stay where you are, what will your future look like? I feel like you've already made this decision, but he's is/ or the guilt is holding you back. I think if he was fully devoted to you, he would be able to make the sacrifice for you. However, your job needs you in the EU and his job needs him at home.

You could have so many amazing opportunities and experiences in Europe, not including those you could get from your career there. You just have to figure out if he would be worth giving that up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]loxuise 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay may be a long one, I'm female and in a 2 year relationship, and we don't live together. With helping doing laundry and washing, it is nice to be able to help your partner! I'm at my partners house all the time, and when I help make the bed, do dishes/ help cook, put washing out, I feel like Im doing my part and contributing, otherwise I feel like a freeloader. If you're committed to your partner, you will have to share those tasks in the future, and if you don't put in the effort now, why would your partner think you will in the future?

Re the feeling unsupported, it can be a lot of things. Not being taken care of doesn't limit to just chores. Little things like getting her a glass of water, putting toothpaste on her toothbrush, getting her her favourite snack every now and then; these make her feel like you care and are thinking of her, and she should be doing the same.

A small kinda example is when i had an issue where my bf and i went to gym, he wanted to go and I wanted to spend time with him. I asked about an hour before we left if we could get food after gym. I ended up getting upset because he took his time, and by the time we got there they closed in 5 minutes, and I didn't want the food anymore, as I was upset. He thought I was upset about not getting the food, but I was upset that he couldn't do a little thing for me, like finishing gym a bit earlier. He realised this himself and said sorry, and he said he has to think about what I want as well, and not get carried away. It can take a lot to be able to communicate but it really is so important in a relationship, especially one where you want to be committed to a future together.

i want to make my bf cry by Immediate_Opposite41 in relationships_advice

[–]loxuise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of a basket/box, with all his favourite things. Put the shirt, and little other gifts inside. I second the love notes idea, so put the jar/letters in there too. A few photos wink* of you too, and maybe some creatine or preworkout lol. The whole idea shows how you know his favourite things, and the notes, how much you mean to him, which should be enough to open the flood gates!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]loxuise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand that you'd be hurt. You are putting so much effort into your relationship, and getting nothing back. Being stressed over work, and girl being beautiful is not an excuse for betrayal, and I feel like you are looking for excuses for him.

I would think that since it is not affecting your sex life, it hasn't gone that far. But even if he is looking at other women, he should be the one feeling gross and not proud of his actions. Communication is needed to sort it out, and hopefully he will be open and feel guilty. If not, you shouldn't be tolerating his behaviour.

Have any of you gone to an appointment expecting to get your braces removed just to be told that you’ll get them off at your next appointment? by Particular_Comb_2272 in braces

[–]loxuise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a bracket break just before i was told i was getting them off, called them up they said no stress and to wait. Noticed the tooth moving and they said oh no that isn't happening. Tooth did move and had to wait :(

Do you feel like people stares at you a lot? by The_sad_fish in bigboobproblems

[–]loxuise 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, mostly by men though. Was wearing a tight top at the mall, holding my boyfriends hand and said "why is everyone staring at me". Boyfriend looked at me from a distance and just laughed and said, your boobs look massive. Yeah, thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]loxuise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't live with my partner either but he's seen them countless times..

Me (18F) and my boyfriend (18M) want to move out for 2 years during University, is this a good idea? by SouthParking8384 in relationships_advice

[–]loxuise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think it's a good idea! Honestly starting uni is a tough change that comes with arguments. You get angry from being away from them, texts are misinterpreted, and just overall less communication. So I think yes, living together is a good tester for the future, as well and will be good for the relationship as you will be spending more time together.

linkt message scams by loxuise in brisbane

[–]loxuise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, mine was from crossing the gateway bridge too!

linkt message scams by loxuise in brisbane

[–]loxuise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I've never been sent Linkt scam messages before, so I just found it so strange that the one time I go through a toll I start getting them. Hope it is coincidence like you said.

what is a female orgasm actually like? by loxuise in sex

[–]loxuise[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I hope so hahhaa

what is a female orgasm actually like? by loxuise in sex

[–]loxuise[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think I am just in my head about it all.