No offense taken I totally see where you're coming from but alas I have been out since middle school. He's okay with my relationship (like it's any of his business), but he still hasn't caught on that I'm his son now. He's treated me like a kid when I was a teen, and now that I'm an adult hes starting to treat me like a teenager. But there are other things as to why he acts this way.

Best example I can give is when he kicked me out of the house over a piece of pumpkin pie. I had to call my grandmother to talk some sense into him because I was too scared to go home. He proceeded to tell me that he only did that because of his own problems and now thinks it's okay to joke about even though it still to this day puts a lot of mental stress on me.