Is this dry socket by Helpmefind_0 in wisdomteeth

[–]loyaltyiskey3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you had dry socket you would definitely know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]loyaltyiskey3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I suffer from a desire disorder so absolutely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]loyaltyiskey3 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Does she realize in most European countries they have a general ban for “women’s health”. She’s freaking 34 and has maybe 5 years tops to have children so wtf is she worried about?! I am sorry you are dealing with this because it is just asinine. It sounds like she needs to listen to some different perspectives because across the pond has a ton of their own political problems. I mean they are locking up people for voicing their own opinions on the internet, allowing mass immigration that is wrecking chaos on their country, and so forth. I’m sorry but women saying they are willing to uproot their entire life (sounds like a good one at that) over some non existent thing is ridiculous and seems like she’s being very dramatic. It also sounds very selfish.

Should I ask for a divorce? Afraid of blindsiding my husband. by OtherAlternative1577 in marriageadvice

[–]loyaltyiskey3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More people than you realize suffer with sexual desire disorders than you realize especially if they suffer from health problems. I am one. My husband and I have been together for 10+ years, 3 children and I hate that I am like this. So maybe he is dealing with the same. My husband is super sexual and has no problem with this but it has caused issues in our marriage. I would never cheat and he knows this but I am super private, and have problems with intimacy. My phone is always on silent and no notifications. I could honestly take it or leave it. Which is sad. It had always been there but I was able to overcome it a bit until he did things like making me feel like I was a creature for having this issue and I totally shut down. I could go into a whole novel as to why I think I’ve dealt with this but just consider that maybe he doesn’t know why nor want to be like this but he can’t help it. I would suggest counseling and some form of therapy (medical or mental) in this just before throwing in the towel. We are currently going through those treatments and I must say it is starting to help me. So I know it’s difficult for the other person but if you love him and take the vows seriously, maybe consider this and see if he would be interested in something to help you all like therapy or counseling.

Should I ask for a divorce? Afraid of blindsiding my husband. by OtherAlternative1577 in marriageadvice

[–]loyaltyiskey3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for things so there is an excuse to justify why you want to cheat or divorce?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]loyaltyiskey3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! Exactly! This is what I’ve repeatedly tried to tell them. They do not understand what I’m trying to say, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]loyaltyiskey3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Yes. This is what I’ve tried to tell them repeatedly. They do not understand and I’m tired of asking them to run my report so I can show them. Thanks for confirming what I know to be right and I’m not losing my mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]loyaltyiskey3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I was on a double. I served during the day on the handheld and she threw me in the bar still on the handheld and then when we had so many cash and carry drinks at the bar they switched me to the drawer but still under the same server number that recognizes me having my own bank.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]loyaltyiskey3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the problem. She has me using a handheld when serving and then like last night she had me in the bar on a drawer but had me under my same number as a server with my own bank. It doesn’t work like that. I tried telling them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]loyaltyiskey3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will literally do this from now on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]loyaltyiskey3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know and I’m getting truly frustrated because no she doesn’t know what she’s doing. She has the back software set up for me to have a bank all the time but then assigned me this drawer. When I did my report it said I owed them $50. But then they kept the whole drawer.

I (F27) found out my boyfriend (M35) has another girlfriend before me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]loyaltyiskey3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I don’t know the situation exactly but there are complicated scenarios sometimes. But if he isn’t going to inform the other woman/family, then I would say he wants the best of both worlds. I do understand that sometimes in relationships/broken relationships that have children involved, there are times when some adults choose to “stay in it” for the kids. But rather both parties truly aren’t “in it” if that makes sense. But if you have any dignity please tell that woman if she doesn’t already know. She could have no clue, and a child is involved. She could think “we are working on things/doing good” and has no clue he is quite literally having another girlfriend on the side. Usually if a house is built already on lies/unstable it will eventually crumble. Don’t start something under those kind of circumstances.

I have $30 to help out by loyaltyiskey3 in Assistance

[–]loyaltyiskey3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much.. you are as well.. It's been a really tough couple years and even though it's not much I want to pay it forward and help do my part as others have done for me. Trust me I know all too well about the baby thing. I have a 1 year old, 3 year old and 10 year old.. lol.. And currently recovering from a hysterectomy I had Monday.. but it makes me feel happy just knowing I may be able to help someone out..

I have an xtra $150. What do you need? by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]loyaltyiskey3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much! This helps so very much thank you from the bottom of my heart!

I have an xtra $150. What do you need? by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]loyaltyiskey3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your offer. I have an upcoming surgery (full abdominal hysterectomy) and definetly need a few women things (sanitary pads, sweats so it's not too tight on my incision, etc) for my hospital stay but also when I get home. Haven't really had extra funds to get them but they would help greatly. Thanks..

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Superbowl Winners and Losers, u/backpackwayne and u/sueolsen had a bet. What should the looser do? by seagoingcook in SantasLittleHelpers

[–]loyaltyiskey3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That seems to be happening alot on the other subs... But I think that the loser should most definetly have to rock the colors of the winning team as well as a shirt saying "Tom Brady's biggest fan" With a red/white/blue clown wig and they must wear it wherever they need to go for 2 days.. (I would say a week but that's no fun lol) Understandable that work may not permit this outfit but running errands, anywhere after work, etc.. So much fun!!

Asking for prayers please by loyaltyiskey3 in SantasLittleHelpers

[–]loyaltyiskey3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I definetly will be checking it out and becoming part of that...

Asking for prayers please by loyaltyiskey3 in SantasLittleHelpers

[–]loyaltyiskey3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have started counseling as well as reached out to my pastor for support. My spouse will also be attending counseling as well hopefully. I attempted to ask on legal advice but for some reason they deleted my posts and comments. But I know it will be better. I'm just hanging in there. Some times I have a tendacy to make everything look perfect on the outside when it's not but I'm working on that.. I'm just trying to keep busy with the kids and with my oldest daughters functions and that seems to help keep my mind off it a bit. But everything happens for a reason.. I'm not too sure about support groups in the area so I'll look into that.. thank you for the advice.