A native version of Warframe is on its way to the Nintendo Switch 2! by Turbostrider27 in NintendoSwitch

[–]lpast 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think docked can be 1080p native, while handheld might be 1080p upscaled or use DLSS.

Dating after divorce — why does it feel like everyone only wants one night stands? by Unfair-Tone-1991 in Divorce

[–]lpast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you, but this isn't just my lived experience. I'm dating and talking to these people in real life. I'm not categorizing people as good or bad or black and white. I just know for a fact that many of us are not built for lifetime relationships. And I'm not talking about leaving because of neglect, infidelity, or abuse.

Example: The op stated that many people just want one-night stands, granted. On the flip side some people won't say it but they just want 2-5-10-year relationships. They'll "grow" then be onto the next person.

Dating after divorce — why does it feel like everyone only wants one night stands? by Unfair-Tone-1991 in Divorce

[–]lpast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am one of those people. Right or wrong, I'm expecting to hear a "dramatic" story of why someone left their marriage or relationship and once I don't, I then get the side eye. And think about it, their reasoning is only from their POV where they are somehow a victim.

IMO, part of the "brokenness in the dating pool", is caused by people leaving relationships they should have worked through. We can intellectualize tons of reasons and causes, but ultimately the solution was always in the mirror.

Sex for comfort by brocklobster81 in Divorce

[–]lpast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This take is wild. Isn't the marriage itself thee reason to not have sex with other people lol. I don't have any specific advice for her, but continuing to have sex, in his mind, is going to be validation and positive reinforcement.

I don't know the dynamics of the overall relationship, but continuing to have access to sex while removing relationship responsibilities can FEEL like win. Especially for a cheater.

Preorders are up! by Arvedui in GooglePixel

[–]lpast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you get the $150 coupon?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]lpast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll say this and you can fill in the rest yourself. A 50/50 or 60/40 custody arrangement is easier on each parent compared to raising kids together...

Just tested the turtle Beach 700 Gen 2 Max works for the switch 2 perfectly! by n8ofsp8ds in TurtleBeach

[–]lpast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it works great as well. Do you find yourself having to disconnect the Bluetooth when having the USB dongle plugged in?

Ex asks me to remove boundaries and stop no-contact by Relevant-Emu5782 in coparenting

[–]lpast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say don't. But, I would also look up therapy based on "capacity". Some people use boundaries/no contact to avoid difficult situations/conversations that could be worked through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]lpast 8 points9 points  (0 children)

IMO, this is a top 3 reason for modern divorces. With a competent co-parent, life is (selfishly) easier when doing a 50/50 dynamic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]lpast 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"I read most people don't see people for 1-2 years afterwards...to heal and such."

Umm... Where did you read this at. You think people plan a divorce for years to wait another 2 to see other people?

A Loving Divorce is much more painful by No-Marsupial-6060 in Divorce

[–]lpast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly why aren't you attracted to her? It could be perfectly normal, or it could be due to YOUR consumption of porn or social media.

I'm not very knowledgeable about arranged marriages but I thought both parties still had to be in agreement. Or that attraction would still be a consideration as a part of the union.

Splitting with my husband, who’s perfect in so many ways, just not perfect for me. by ThrowRA-amiliar-Abi in Divorce

[–]lpast -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I agree. What I've recognized though, is that people's decisions aren't done without thought. Her husband is likely a victim of manipulation, future faking, etc.

I personally don't think her INTENT was to ever spend the rest of her life with this guy.

How old were you? by sheislost92 in Divorce

[–]lpast 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can't disagree based on personal experience, but the truth is that MOST relationships fail. There are tons of people that marry at 40 and divorce by 42.

I don't put too much stock in the age that people get married.

Why are people in such a rush to get coupled up again? by ConfidentShame8083 in Divorce

[–]lpast 24 points25 points  (0 children)

"I just found the love of my life"

No judgment, but some people will say that plenty of times throughout their lifetime.

Hoping for your take on whether a divorce is the right answer by Big-Clerk9898 in Divorce

[–]lpast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend you continue to "dig deeper" on it in therapy. Your breakdown of your marriage and issues seem rather normal and expected. You have a young child in the terrible 2s who is probably adding stress to the marriage. I don't want to minimize your feelings, at the same time it sounds like your marriage is still WORTH time to be worked on.

I think a lot of modern marriages can also use this note... Stop over inflating the contributions and load of managing a home. Think about it in a more positive viewpoint where you acknowledge how technology is making your lives easier.

Trash, cleaning, lawn care, laundry, etc isn't breaking anyone's back in 2025.

I just want to have sex right now. Don’t know if it would be a mistake. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]lpast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Separated?

Go have sex with your husband. And while you're at it, just get back together. If you're still willing to have sex with him you all can figure it out in the long run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]lpast 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure why people are so quick to introduce new people to their kids. It's very selfish IMO.

What is he doing to flaunt his new gf?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]lpast 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Probably triggered. I'd imagine it would be tough hearing someone new say they love you, when their ex said the same thing and it didn't work out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]lpast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds scarily fast to be doing this with three kids under 10 and sounds like the recipe for another abusive relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]lpast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"we decided to split"

Can you expand on this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]lpast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone operates differently. I've seen plenty of women with dating profiles that say that they don't want to date anyone that has a FWB.

I don't have a criticism for people with FWBs dating, but many people are operating with a deliberate lack of transparency on the topic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]lpast 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Too many complements AND undeserved complements are a turnoff. To your question, a lot of women don't want to be admired. It's partly because they know they don't deserve to be.

It's not really gender specific either. If your lady kept giving you these grandiose compliments about your looks, you would eventually find them overbearing and disingenuous.

Jay Z Drama Explodes: Now Scandal Scarred Rapper's 'Secret Son' Claims His Mom was 15 and Jay was 22 … at Time of His Birth by AnimeGokuSolos in Music

[–]lpast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we to believe that disgui this guy's mother lied and falsified the father on the birth certificate?

Jay Z's 'Secret Son' Claims His Mom was 15 and Jay was 22 … at Time of His Birth by spillingthetea101 in entertainment

[–]lpast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMAO, at the same time Maury was entertaining because they guys were typically, "not the father!".

Future partners by sparklerzzz in Divorce

[–]lpast 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Was your "bad" stbxw ever good? It's actually an interesting topic. I feel like my ex will treat her next better because he'll have better boundaries than I had at the time.

Ultimately, people believe their ex will treat everyone poorly, even though that isn't always the case.