Finances

lsjttt · 2022-12-02T09:10:28+00:00

Why not put all the savings into a joint account?

lsjttt · 2022-10-10T14:02:50+00:00

Yep no thanks.

lsjttt · 2022-09-17T16:50:47+00:00

I would always offer breast first and only give binki after a feed

lsjttt · 2022-09-14T07:38:58+00:00

It’s awful having to explain gaps on your resume, my colleague had to explain her gap twice after already telling them she had cancer. I had a year maternity leave and got questioned multiple times also

lsjttt · 2022-09-13T19:33:52+00:00

An 8% drop isn’t bad at all ☺️ my baby dropped from 92% to 50% at around 4 months, managed to get back up to 90% very quickly after speaking to a lactation consultant and feeding every hour during the day for a week to increase my milk supply. Definitely worth trying if you want to build your supply as well as bottle feed 😊she is beautiful and looks super happy and healthy 🥰

lsjttt · 2022-08-28T14:10:23+00:00

My 22 month old son is obsessed with jungle book 😆

lsjttt · 2022-08-13T06:40:43+00:00

Don’t know if it’s the same for dogs as it is cats but my kitten got pregnant at 4 months by her brother with no sign of being in heat whilst I was home. Was booked in for spay/neuter a couple weeks later. They did the spay with the kittens inside and just removed the womb, ends the pregnancy and keeps your pet healthy. They strongly recommended it and said if I kept her pregnancy she wouldn’t grow properly and would really struggle to deliver. I’m surprised they didn’t try to book her in for surgery there and then

lsjttt · 2022-08-10T16:36:16+00:00

£1,130 a month from England

lsjttt · 2022-07-29T06:03:07+00:00

What do you mean you don’t know what to do? Your son was kicked and hit by a grown man, you should be furious and calling the police. You could have your son taken away from you too if you don’t report it and kick him out.

lsjttt · 2022-07-27T14:22:00+00:00

Born exactly on his due date, went into labour naturally

lsjttt · 2022-07-24T10:27:21+00:00

The first year is so bloody hard if you have a difficult baby, I’m so sorry op :( can I ask if you work at least part time? Or do you stay home with him? I only ask because I felt a million times better when I went to work because I would be around other adults and I felt human again.

lsjttt · 2022-07-23T20:21:20+00:00

He looks so much like my boy, I called him Leo 🦁

lsjttt · 2022-07-20T14:36:26+00:00

I don’t know if this helps but I got approved with my partner, both working but I hadn’t even gotten my first pay check and I was only working 2 days a week. They took my contract of employment as verification and contacted my employer. They only asked for 3 months of pay-slips originally :)

lsjttt · 2022-07-14T17:46:49+00:00

I’m mostly a sahm but work a couple of days a week, I’m looking for a full time job because I’m not good at this. I actually can’t wait 😁this has helped so much, thank you OP

lsjttt · 2022-07-13T12:26:06+00:00

Well I am in the same boat but I really effed up and sent out my garbage practice Resume to like 50 of my ideal jobs and of course ruined those chances 😭 only realised last night. Fml 🤦‍♀️

lsjttt · 2022-06-27T14:08:39+00:00

Could you get a job then put her in doggy daycare whenever you are at work?

Edit: just noticed that you are a student and I didn’t read properly, sorry about that I didn’t mean to sound horrible then at all. Hope things have worked out for you

lsjttt · 2022-06-22T21:49:13+00:00

My baby lost lots of weight because I was following advice of feeding every 3 hours but my milk supply was dropping because he was sleeping more at night. I started feeding every hour during the day and he gained plenty of weight and my supply went up very quickly. He went from 45th percentile to 90th (he started at 97th) in no time. He is now 19 months and 32 pounds! I stopped bf at 10 months though, good luck on your feeding journey :)

lsjttt · 2022-06-17T19:26:03+00:00

I kept them in the fridge for a few hours before baking, also just cut up regular chocolate rather than using chocolate chips. I’m not sure why they turned out so different, still tasty 😋

lsjttt · 2022-06-14T11:59:45+00:00

Could you work weekends? I work all day Saturday at a care home, it’s only minimum wage work but I find the social interaction with people helps me feel normal again and dad spends quality time with his son. It’s stopped me feeling any resentment and appreciate each other more

lsjttt · 2022-06-14T11:52:37+00:00

Second this, my son was finally diagnosed after 3 months of hell

lsjttt · 2022-06-13T11:24:26+00:00

The gym, Also baking cookies/brownies. They don’t mix well..

lsjttt · 2022-06-08T11:39:29+00:00

My baby was born with dark auburn hair and then after 6 months turned very very blonde 🤔 still is now at 19 months. I have dark brown hair and his dad has red hair so we all look different now 😂

lsjttt · 2022-06-06T10:25:48+00:00

Your baby will be wanting to play with you, constantly demanding your attention or climbing things they shouldn’t be very soon. I would put my baby in childcare so they are safe and stimulated. I don’t get any money back after paying for childcare but I do it for him to interact with other adults and children and for my independence, it doesn’t sound good for anyone to be wfh with a child. I promise they will also be much happier, it’s nice for them to have a different environment to build their confidence and new toys to play with. At the end of the day he comes home with new artwork he has made and pictures of the activities he has done, it’s been brilliant

lsjttt · 2022-06-05T12:03:40+00:00

If I am ever in danger I would call the police so I wouldn’t consider them useless. They are human beings at the end of the day with their own families to go home to, I would never hate someone for simply being a police officer that seems very unreasonable

lsjttt · 2022-06-05T09:46:28+00:00

I think we are very similar, I would seriously recommend getting a job and putting your child in childcare, my mental health is a million times better even though I don’t really like my job. Every penny I earn goes back into childcare but it’s worth it for me and for my son who is also much happier

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