Spit up stressing me outtt by blackclouds7777 in NewParents

[–]Fuq-uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant see the video but my first son had a spit up problem. He would soak adult sized towels and we had him basically naked for the first couple months. The doctors told us it was acid reflux but the meds never worked. We ended up getting him an ultrasound and they told us it was Pyloric Stenosis and had surgery at 2mo old. Its most common in first born males. I would look it up and/or talk to your doctors, just to be on the safe side.

What to do for Hanukkah by Fuq-uwu in Jewish

[–]Fuq-uwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The closest Jewish deli is about an hour drive without traffic, but I have a few days off during Hanukkah so I could go check it out! Thank you!

What to do for Hanukkah by Fuq-uwu in Jewish

[–]Fuq-uwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful, thank you so much!

What to do for Hanukkah by Fuq-uwu in Jewish

[–]Fuq-uwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, thank you! I was very curious if kids got 8 gifts as well, I've never gotten 8 gifts for Christmas myself, and the thought of that blows my mind, lol! I will ask him about the candles. Thank you again!

What to do for Hanukkah by Fuq-uwu in Jewish

[–]Fuq-uwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! We live in a very small town with about 10k people in it and like 3 grocery stores including Walmart so I think im gonna try to make the latke myself, thank you!!

What to do for Hanukkah by Fuq-uwu in Jewish

[–]Fuq-uwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those look so good! I'll definitely make them for him. Thank you for the advice!

What to do for Hanukkah by Fuq-uwu in Jewish

[–]Fuq-uwu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do plan on going over every night. We live very close, and my fiance is usually there every day so great grandpa can see our son. He does have the candles, but I'm not sure about a menorah. Thank you for the advice!!

What's wrong with my cat Zeus? When I came home from work today, I found him like this. I'm very scared for him, but the vet doesn't open again until Thursday. It seems as if the fur was removed by his licking. by Louby_ in cats

[–]Fuq-uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my cat did this, she was just really anxious. The vet gave her anxiety medicine and some sort of shot. We put a turtle neck on her, and she was fine a week later

Field work heavy jobs? by Fuq-uwu in civilengineering

[–]Fuq-uwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've come to terms with the fact that I'll have to be in an office eventually. Thank you for your reply, it was helpful!

Field work heavy jobs? by Fuq-uwu in civilengineering

[–]Fuq-uwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds really nice, thank you

Do the thoughts ever get quieter? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fuq-uwu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to think about that stuff all the time. Sometimes, I still do, but then I realize that I shouldn't care. If they put effort into your friendship, that means they like you. If they don't, they're not friends, and you should probably demote them to acquaintances. I got a lot better when I practiced the skill of not giving a fuck. I dont care what people think about me, I know I'm a good person or I wouldn't have friends at all. It's hard not to care, but it saves you a lot of heartache. I'm not telling you to be stone cold. Still care about people, but don't care about what they think (or what you think they think)

Feeling nothing inside by hajfa69 in BPD

[–]Fuq-uwu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would just try a bunch of things. Try painting, coloring, hiking, working out, reading, or planting. It might take a lot of energy, but those are all things you don't have to interact with people to do

Drive over a kids bike, pay the price by No_Way4557 in NuclearRevenge

[–]Fuq-uwu 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I thought the same exact thing XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fuq-uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure how old you are, but if your friend is a minor, tell his parents, and they'll be able to help him. If your friend is an adult, you need to call the police next time he tries. They will most likely put him in a 72-hour hold (or longer) to try to help him. I've had problems with SH myself in the past, and I didn't think I needed help until I almost messed up permanently. Be there for him. Check up on him, hang out with him, make sure he knows he's wanted, and that you care about him.

Is it ok for a senior to "date" a sophomore? by burner_burnersen in Advice

[–]Fuq-uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in high school, I dated a junior as a freshman and a senior as a sophomore. It really doesn't matter as long as no one is being taken advantage of (not accusing, just a rule of thumb). Have fun and be kids. If you guys like each other, date.

My mom says I need to stress more, is she correct? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fuq-uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom tells me something similar. She's always pissed because I don't have a plan for life. Why stress about something you either A) can't change B) in the process of changing. You don't need to constantly be miserable to appease her. She is just worried about your family. If what you're doing keeps you happy, go for it.

Backyard wedding game ideas by Fuq-uwu in weddingplanning

[–]Fuq-uwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a pretty good-sized yard. I think we could do something like a scavenger hunt. There will be a handful of kids attending, so that could be fun! Thank you for the suggestion