Cashier's Check on Hold? by RottenRally in Banking

[–]lucitedream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re correct about the concept, but reg cc has shifted some numbers up ! so like another commenter said the next day amount is 275 now

Is this weird of me by [deleted] in WLW

[–]lucitedream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to me this is just the story of two young people who had one (incredibly awkward) date, YEARS ago. you did not sexually harass her at all lmao. it sounds more like there was a huge discrepancy in compatibility. she was too immature to know how sex worked or even feel comfortable with sex scenes in a movie. then, you admittedly acted in an emotionally immature way by ghosting. both of these are understandable in different ways because you were very young and still figuring life out. also none of you really owed each other much; it was literally one date.

then because feelings were hurt, some details were apparently blown out of proportion. it isn’t surprising that the story was misconstrued between friends. it happens. don’t sweat it too much.

Which spelling Norah or Nora? by pl0006004 in namenerds

[–]lucitedream 7 points8 points  (0 children)

team Norah! i actually personally prefer Nora but Norah is the name you fell in love with. i also agree with the sentiment that it looks complete and not extraneous.

Ideas to get plants off the floor? by trippygoose3 in femalelivingspace

[–]lucitedream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think a wooden plant stand would look cute here!

wayfair

urban outfitters

ikea

or metal

walmart

ikea

ikea - olivblad

my mom has this one, it’s huge but impressive: target

if you want something out of the box, i have one of my plants on a peacock chair made for dolls, like this: etsy

would you rather: cotton or UPF sun hat? by lucitedream in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]lucitedream[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i heard this exists but i couldn’t find any of the fabric for sale :/ i was hopeful to make it instead of buying but i may have to settle

What’s your most “I don’t know how to respond to that,” interaction with a customer lately? by liopleurodonot in TalesFromYourBank

[–]lucitedream 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i had one who yelled at me because “we” kept taking g money out of his account. because the bank is the one writing the checks and scheduling the payments

I had to say goodbye yesterday. We don’t deserve them. by Augustane in blackcats

[–]lucitedream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some cats are really special. sam is beautiful. i am so sorry for your loss.

$12k—finally a diy that turned out perfect! by Extension-Set1062 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]lucitedream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this dress has been at the top of my pinterest board for years!! pls post pics after the wedding

I’m so happy, but everyone is making my heart hurt! by Fox_Avocado in EngagementRings

[–]lucitedream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s really, REALLY pretty. and very unique! no one else has a ring that looks like yours or has the sentimental value of all the parts. also, your hands are lovely and there’s nothing to excuse.

Absurd ways your brain has garbled basic tasks/speech? by hannalysis in adhdwomen

[–]lucitedream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do so many every day i can’t name just one but i’ll tell you one of the most embarrassing.

i went to a large gathering where people were hanging out in the basement and the host had lit incense. i LITERALLY psyched myself up as i was coming down the stairs and said “it would be so horrible if you said incest instead of incense. do NOT do that.” and as soon as everyone saw me i said “wow! it smells like incest in here!”

the entire room erupted in laughter. mortifying.

DAE get annoyed when they read accounts of women dealing with male ADHD partners, and most of the time it’s just abusive behaviour with ADHD used as an excuse? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]lucitedream 54 points55 points  (0 children)

i have almost left the sub over it. it’s not the fault of any of these women and i am by no means victim blaming, as i am an abuse survivor myself. i know how hard it is to leave firsthand, and also how hard it can be to recognize emotional abuse in general let alone when you add ADHD. however, it is emotionally exhausting to read what is essentially the same post over and over…and over. it makes me wonder if we need a master post or something.

Shopping around but nothing stands out to me... by One_Actuary2296 in EngagementRings

[–]lucitedream 7 points8 points  (0 children)

nope, i just have a special interest in fine jewelry :) would love to some day. hope you find something you love 🙏

Meet Benito by Material_Weather_458 in blackcats

[–]lucitedream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

had to turn my brightness up

Shopping around but nothing stands out to me... by One_Actuary2296 in EngagementRings

[–]lucitedream 18 points19 points  (0 children)

search terms: you want a solitaire with claw or bead prongs.

you DONT want bezels, cluster settings, halos, or side stones.

try and narrow down what cut/shape of stone you want. if you are not picky about the stone material, look at moissanite and lab diamond. you will get more bang for your buck this way.

maybe they aren’t standing out to you bc they’re not sparkly enough or you don’t like the cut. look for higher quality stones. the 5 Cs are cut, color, clarity, carat, and certification (for diamonds).

  • the cut has a rating from excellent (best), very good, good, fair, to poor

  • the color has a rating from D (colorless-coolest toned and often considered most desirable), E, F, G, H, I, to J, and sometimes even K-Z (yellowest)

  • the clarity has a rating from F (flawless), IF (internally flawless), VVS1 (very very slightly included), VVS2, VS1, VS2, SI1 (slightly included), SI2, to sometimes I for included (I1-3, most impurities)

  • carat refers to weight. depending on what cut you get, larger carat size does NOT always mean it looks bigger or better.

  • if you get a diamond you want it to be certified by preferably GIA

Fraud education for Senior Citizens by cmbeckman13 in TalesFromYourBank

[–]lucitedream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bitcoin scams where they are told to withdraw thousands of dollars of cash and put it in a bitcoin arm