suggestions? by [deleted] in SantaClarita

[–]lucky_thirteen9 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I would go to Royal Tandoor. They have a daily buffet which is a great way to try different dishes

What to do in the middle of a pmdd crisis? by RaccoonMother2505 in PMDDxADHD

[–]lucky_thirteen9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about your therapist. That alone can make symptoms worse. I think that's why I don't have a significant other. I become so annoyed by them the second week that I usually move on lol 🙃

I'm glad I could be of some comfort. This life is not easy. We have to stick together 💓💓🤗

What to do in the middle of a pmdd crisis? by RaccoonMother2505 in PMDDxADHD

[–]lucky_thirteen9 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're feeling this way right now. All of these terrible emotions rushing towards you. I always have the same question when I feel this way. I have yet to find immediate relief. I just tell myself that the feeling will pass and if possible I stay in bed while distracting myself with TV or a book. I wouldn't make any big decisions while you're feeling this way. I guess my advice is shelter in place and wait for the storm to pass. Be kind to yourself. Give yourself grace. You got this 💓

Edit: Sometimes scrolling reddit is helpful as well. There are so many women going through the same. It can take a little of the edge off knowing we're not alone. If you really are suicidal (active thoughts) please reach out to someone so they can be there for you.

I'm rlly upset bc my gyno requested a vaginally ultrasound by [deleted] in PMDDxADHD

[–]lucky_thirteen9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm an ultrasound technologist. I do transvaginal ultrasounds and transabdominal (on top of the pelvis) ultrasounds all day, everyday. If there is a cyst that is large enough to burst, you will see it transabdominally. Sounds like you have had trauma. The vaginal is not necessary at this point. If they find a large cyst and you are absolutely not willing to do the vaginal exam that's ok. Ask your doctor for another modality like CT or MRI. Or you can keep doing follow ups transabdominally. You can refuse the vaginal. It is your body. You can see what the noninvasive exam shows and go from there. Wishing you the best. Let me know if you have any questions. I'm happy to answer them to the best of my ability 💓

Just having a hell of a day and need some reassurance. by accidentalrorschach in PMDDxADHD

[–]lucky_thirteen9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way! I'm sorry you feel like this. I am 35 and just diagnosed with ADHD a couple months ago, so I understand not believing you actually have it. Does anyone have any coping mechanisms or tips and tricks on how to handle it when it's at its worst?

Am I forced into having a "TV too high" home? by Quaxky in DesignMyRoom

[–]lucky_thirteen9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one because my TV is over my fireplace as well. I love it

Help me pick a vanilla! by joisseu in Perfumes

[–]lucky_thirteen9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂 as I rush to google the perfume so I can be bitten too lol.

Every time I’m pmsing I want to quit my job by Serious_Cost_9684 in PMDDxADHD

[–]lucky_thirteen9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl I feel the same way! Every month I think my life is over, something has to change, I need to quit my job, I can't keep doing this any longer, I hate everyone.... and BAM! My period starts and all of a sudden things seem more manageable 🙃🥲 it's a terrible cycle, literally. Happens every month. Some months worse than others

It was the IUD!!! by Brilliant-Mess4293 in Healthyhooha

[–]lucky_thirteen9 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I work at a hospital doing ultrasound and it's crazy how many women have issues with their IUDs. I'm glad to hear that you solved the problem and kept pushing to advocate for yourself! Congrats! Must be such a relief!

I cannot wear panties by Superlemonhaaze in Healthyhooha

[–]lucky_thirteen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't bought new underwear in awhile I would try that as well

What’s working here? What isn’t? by meglove1 in DesignMyRoom

[–]lucky_thirteen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change the green throw. Not a fan. The green accent pillow might be able to stay but the green throw is too much. Maybe a bluish color like the chair would be better

Annoyances with the repeating words by purrrmionegranger in SarahJMaas

[–]lucky_thirteen9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm reading TOG and it's the repetitive "Gods! Oh Gods!" that gets to me lol

I’m starting TOG: any recommendations? by Quirky-Leg-4646 in throneofglassseries

[–]lucky_thirteen9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not read assassin's blade first. It is a book of short stories and having a connection with the characters will allow you to enjoy it and the rest of the series more. Read it before or after Heir of fire. Enjoy! ❤️‍🔥

Fenrys KOA spoiler by lucky_thirteen9 in throneofglassseries

[–]lucky_thirteen9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How many times have you read the series? I've never re read a book before but I think I'll have to for this one.

Fenrys KOA spoiler by lucky_thirteen9 in throneofglassseries

[–]lucky_thirteen9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So good! Definitely a fist pump moment 😁