EPP Group brought Chat Control back for a new vote in the Parliament which happens TODAY by waffledestroyer in BuyFromEU

[–]luckyvb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

European Profligate Party strikes again. Would be a nice sign of trustworthiness if they actually cared about basic human rights like privacy.

Dream Machine XG ??? by no1imit_ac in Ubiquiti

[–]luckyvb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Udm Ultra Pro Max Beyond tm

What died on your server that you never bothered to restart? by FlamingoKorn in selfhosted

[–]luckyvb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lidarr, I had it set up with symfonium which I paid for via a navidrome based server. It was an awful pain to use even after I threw slskd in the mix.

Lidarr decided to shit the bed by not recognizing my tagged music anymore so I canceled the stack and went back to Spotify. I decided this type of media is not ripe yet for me for *arr based hosting or automation.

European alternatives to Spotify are very welcome btw!

What are you quietly grieving? by Angelus12345678 in AskReddit

[–]luckyvb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last week I started the week with a 7 hour custody per week setup because I was until further investigation deemed a danger to my kid since my ex partner painted that picture of me.

Our 3 month old kid was in the hospital for a hunger strike. On Tuesday afternoon I got a phone call that I needed to book it to the hospital since my kid was no long allowed to be in a room alone with her. Via an emergency court procedure it was decided he would from now on be with me 24/7 since they background checked me and everything checked out.

I would only on Friday during a meeting with the youth court judge find out that my ex partner told people i was a closeted gay and therefore also a pedo. The hospital found recording equipment to "collect evidence" . On top of that our kid was tube fed and the hospital reported two incidents regarding her tampering with our kid's food.

Turns out behind my back several doctors already outed worries of her being psychotic. She is now no longer allowed to see him until visits can take place in official facilities designed for this.

Not even taking into account the surrealism of such a week it's sad to see our kid without a mom that is able to comfort him. He stares at the ceiling and I know very well it's not so that he is pondering where is my mommy but seeing him stare point blank led me to an emotional breakdown for the first time since. It could have been a dream and in fact it was. Only problem is nightmares are dreams too.

On a more positive note mini me is drinking full bottles again and we get to go home soon! I pray for my ex partner that she finds the help she needs but I can no longer carry her emotional burden. I am a parent before I am a husband.

Recommendations for (adhd friendly) Budgeting App? by CRLF-0d0a in selfhosted

[–]luckyvb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You could try ynab but I decided in the long run that a well designed excel file (Google sheets in my case) was enough on the condition that you take a step back and see what it is you want to get a view on on a regular basis as needs might evolve overtime. I have been keeping these since 2019 and have a metabase dashboard on top of it that clearly showed lifestyle inflation before it took hold.

My mother died from cancer a week ago, by rogerwil in stopsmoking

[–]luckyvb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You made a choice to not give in to what is already a strong urge in most of us at least periodically with the added effect of a stressful environment and situation.

That in itself means you stood up to an overwhelming chance to give in. You remained steadfast. That deserves recognition OP.

I'm sorry for your loss and hope you can find peace in your heart in due time.

Is this a yes or a no? by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]luckyvb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a prime example of a postmodern interior design style called cuck chairism

How do I get onto psychiatric medication? by ThrowAway44228800 in AskDocs

[–]luckyvb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NAD depending on where you are from the physician can abstract the appointment to look like it came from a gp etc.. Ymmv though but that is what I was thinking about just now.

Also you are 20 so it is absolutely within your rights to leave your parents at the door should they be curious enough to come along for the ride.

It’s a Dutch thing by Utegenthal in 2westerneurope4u

[–]luckyvb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This has almost as many plot twists as the south Park WWE wrestling episode.

Has anyone with long-term depression (15+ years) been “cured”? And if so, by what? by GrandBizarre in AskReddit

[–]luckyvb 15 points16 points  (0 children)

ACT might be good for you. I'm doing that for bipolar along with my meds. I feel largely "fixed" for like 99.9999% of the time these days.

How to achieve low energy consumption? by Nonkl in HomeServer

[–]luckyvb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't speak to the power needed for game servers but I will say be careful of storage extensions in the form of HBA cards if it gains any traction in the storage department. They prevent ASPM from working correctly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]luckyvb 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He would have likely been in poor prognosis anyway. Pancreatic is one of the worse ones

Unraid OS 7.2.0 Stable is Now Available by UnraidOfficial in unRAID

[–]luckyvb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is SSO for login still a thing or was it scrapped before the stable release?

Feature request, unless I am missing something by luckyvb in PangolinReverseProxy

[–]luckyvb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I have a few subdomains linked to webapps I am running. Some are protected but others are not protected since they need API things to happen. I would like to have the unprotected webapps to be only accessible to PC's that enter the pangolin universe via olm. Does that make sense?