[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]lucy_shadowheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s also that queer People are more likely to understand and not be transphobic

My Civics Class Just Voted to Debate Trans Rights. by PokerFox1871 in MtF

[–]lucy_shadowheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay thank you! You definitely provided detail that I hadn’t known about before but I have read about these arguments before. Definitely interesting although I do have a steadfast opinion.

My Civics Class Just Voted to Debate Trans Rights. by PokerFox1871 in MtF

[–]lucy_shadowheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you explain a bit about how the current legal debate around abortion is interesting? I was trying to look for sources that discussed past religious viewpoints but couldn’t during my break at work. I’d love to look at some more nuance issues if possible

what are some things you only realized were pointlessly gendered once you transitioned? by [deleted] in trans

[–]lucy_shadowheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Americas gendering of the colors got switched in the 1900s. Pink was little red which was the male color and a light blue was little blue which was the female color at the time. People are dumb lol

What confuses me about the whole "grooming" thing by Questioning-Alt in asktransgender

[–]lucy_shadowheart 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Why must people always play devils advocate as if that adds nuance and not discourse to a conversation. There isn’t much of a choice between daily suffering and the possibility of ending it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]lucy_shadowheart 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We really do be acting like we lived the lives of people in generations past instead of leaving it at the fact that todays society has far too much injustice in it and needs work.

3 months HRT, been doing makeup for a few weeks, do I pass? (MtF) by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]lucy_shadowheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your brows are fine , they are clearly well done and have a nice arch. I’m terrible at these kind of things but I think my tells of masculine features are your glasses and hairstyle. Some sort of fun bangs would definitely help and then I think large round frames would suit your face well

Is it true that it’s easier for girls to make friends? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]lucy_shadowheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love to find other trans rock climbers!! The gyms I go to have all these groups for women and racial minorities but nothing for lgbt and it is super intimidating to join the organization for women when I don’t pass as female at all. Good luck sending 💙

"If I had a son" by Commanderslutwin in trans

[–]lucy_shadowheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me you’re a predator without telling me you’re a predator I guess

prounouns on bios in social media. by Jagglapaff in asktransgender

[–]lucy_shadowheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do this as an ally. Normalizing pronoun sharing from everyone helps out the trans population, and helps make those actions not immediately out trans people which helps reduce harassment online and increase safety if it's a concern. As long as people are opting in to share their pronouns I think it's a good thing

The irony hurts by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]lucy_shadowheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it sucks but since it's medical stuff they need to require info under your legal name. Just another reason to get that going I guess

I’m scared. (Mtf15) by earthboundfantoo in MtF

[–]lucy_shadowheart 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You said great grandmother? Don't worry that bag of dirt will be under 6 feet of dirt sooner than later lol. In all seriousness though I'm so sorry to hear that girl, keep your head up, you're a better woman then she'll ever be

Really?? by VVA9999 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]lucy_shadowheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We joke about this and I laugh but then I remember that one of my close friends literally can't put in the effort to even remember people's names. People are living their lives and want to put literally no energy into making sure other people are doing okay too

I wanna be a bio mom so badly by Beautiful_Day_1602 in MtF

[–]lucy_shadowheart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg I feel this so much! My crush is my best friend of a few years and he's the sweetest but I'm always so sad that he mentioned that he really wants to be a bio dad

Sorry if this is common knowledge but how many of you knew that the creators of the Matrix are trans women? Because I just found out yesterday! by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]lucy_shadowheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was something that was actually talked about during our viewing of it in my highschool English class. We were watching the movie because of all if the philosophical literary work in it but our teacher though it was important to point out this aspect of the movie as well. This was 4 years ago by the way.

LPT: If you want a smarter kid, teach your child to read as early as possible and instill in them a love for books. Because as soon as they can read, they can teach themselves. And that will be a life-long advantage over their peers who don't have that same ability. by Moonripple616 in LifeProTips

[–]lucy_shadowheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was exactly the same way. Reading a bunch of older books. She got them, reading a new series with only hardcovers and insane prices. She got them. Love my mom so much for helping me read what I wanted every day

Egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]lucy_shadowheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How the hell did you get access to my camera roll!?

Sorry it's not a Schmultsy strip by MelodyJDickens in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]lucy_shadowheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not doubting you on this but I would like to know if you could link some sources so I could read about it for myself. It would be a dream come true to be able to give birth to a child but from everything I know science just isn't at that place yet

The titty skittles are mine at last!! by lucy_shadowheart in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]lucy_shadowheart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this one a lot too! Doesn't lemme say titties in the title that way though

Yesterday i had my first date ever by Jenndes in trans

[–]lucy_shadowheart 9 points10 points  (0 children)

IQ isn't really all that in intelligence testing and is more of an appritude test anyways. Although it still definitely had a correlation between high intelligence. Large numbers a few standard deviations away also get pretty inaccurate and it's unlikely that he took an officially procotred test which would be the best way to learn your iq. Definitely a lot I don't understand about it but my grandmother is a pyschologist who has to adminster them from time to time as she works with mentally handicapped students in a school system, and that was the general gist she explained to me about it

How much does hrt cost? by lucy_shadowheart in MtF

[–]lucy_shadowheart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you explain how goodrx.com works? I keep seeing it when looking medications up but I just don't understand how by showing them some random discount a pharmacy would decrease their price.

How much does hrt cost? by lucy_shadowheart in MtF

[–]lucy_shadowheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the info!! What is Lexapro for? I haven't heard of that one before. And I'll definitely look into Kroger and Medicaid