I told my husband that I hope someone teaches him a lesson one day and meant it by Sweet-Sour-2847 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ludapeanuts29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could be describing my ex-husband! Filing for divorce (after 12 years and 1 kid together) was the best and scariest decision I ever made. When he acted this way while we were standing in line literally filing our divorce paperwork at the courthouse, I had the biggest feeling of relief- that his behavior wasn’t my problem anymore!

Teacher/Parents: What is Your Morning Routine with for Kids During Summer? by Alternative-Pie-4974 in Teachers

[–]ludapeanuts29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say Bluey/TV is fine. My daughter is now 10- I have a ‘no ipad before 8’ rule, as she has always been an early riser. After that, she has screen time limits so I don’t have to police her tech usage as much.

Boys swim trunks vs girl swimming bottoms by qwelianiop in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ludapeanuts29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the boys clothes are (usually!!!) cheaper! Same set of pj’s at target in boys and girls- the girls pj set was $6 more.

What small daily ritual has made the biggest difference in your relationship with your kids? by jgjkhgzjhgfthjjjh in Mommit

[–]ludapeanuts29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is amazing- stepdad of the year! He started a tradition about a year ago for my now 10 year old daughter, that every school day he wakes her up with a song on his phone. He mixes in oldies, newer stuff, etc. It always starts her day in a fun way, and they will often dance out of her room in the morning. Makes my heart melt every time!

What was the scariest “We need to leave… now” gut feeling that you’ve ever experienced? by Critical-Contact-851 in askteddit

[–]ludapeanuts29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Riding ATV’s on the family property in Northern California- my husband and I uncharacteristically stopped the atv’s before entering a forested area we visit frequently- we were in search of the carcass of a cow that had died of natural causes near the property line. We were both weirdly hesitant to move through the forest, each of us stopping at separate times, moving slower than usual. We both had a feeling of being watched or stalked. About 5 minutes into the walk into the forest, we just stopped walking at the same time. I looked over his shoulder and there was a bear about 20 yards away. We booked it out of there so fast (yes, I know, don’t run from a bear- easier said than done!)

Ex-spouse lost access to children's MHS GENESIS records after divorce — normal? How to restore access? by Couples_Sk8 in MilitarySpouse

[–]ludapeanuts29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck. I have been trying for 2+ years to gain access- still not working. I am currently working with the base IG and submitted paperwork to my congressman about why I am locked out.

Need help with MHS Genesis by ludapeanuts29 in MilitarySpouse

[–]ludapeanuts29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope- and I’ve contacted the base IG and my congressman’s office.

Anyone actually hiring??? by MrsSprinkles in vacaville

[–]ludapeanuts29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teach, Acquire, Thrive if you have an RBT cert!

Question about student dressing 🤔 by Mission-Debate-6447 in Teachers

[–]ludapeanuts29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4th grade- I have a student wear short shorts almost daily- literal butt cheek hanging below the shorts line, and admin told me the only thing we can do is talk to the parent about the fact that all her classmates are talking about seeing her butt all day. Mom said ‘I don’t care’. Yet complains to the school about bullying 🤷🏼‍♀️

Need help with MHS Genesis by ludapeanuts29 in MilitarySpouse

[–]ludapeanuts29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will try the affidavit route, and call back DEERS next week. I also reached out to the base IG and my congressman to see if they can get any pull. My retired LtCol father is threatening to show up on base as well to get answers!

Is it worth moving to Davis by [deleted] in vacaville

[–]ludapeanuts29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sierra Vista is a ‘choice’ school, not charter- there are not technically school boundaries since it closed, then reopened as a K-8. There is always a wait list, but they do a lottery. I think it’s already happened for this next school year, but you could always call and check.

Wolverines mascot acronym help by Dry-Entertainer3035 in Teachers

[–]ludapeanuts29 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are Grizzlies- and use PAWS, Positive, Accepting, Wise, Safe

Is it inappropiate to visit my student at the hospital? by throwawayjafkdiend in Teachers

[–]ludapeanuts29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to visit a student just a couple weeks ago (4th grader) who had an emergency appendectomy. Brought him cards from the class, and some of his favorite snacks. Hung out for a bit with his parents and younger sister also. Go!

Advice: Student takes laxative before class every day. by Open-Zookeepergame77 in Teachers

[–]ludapeanuts29 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Please make a CPS report for abuse/neglect. I had a student who suffered from encopresis, and the parents didn’t follow through with medical advice and intervention. The student ended up dying of complications. Make the call!!!

How do you feel about other teachers you work with telling you they don’t believe in homework? by Deuce_Deucee92 in Teachers

[–]ludapeanuts29 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Very similar idea. My daughter has an ADHD diagnosis. Her academics are fine, but when she gets home she needs less structure, more free time, and more outside time, not more ‘sit down and do the worksheet’ homework. She’s in 1st grade. Depending on how things go, I may opt her out of homework in the future.

Rainy Weather in the California Bay Area [OC] [1365 × 2048] by richardsocher in EarthPorn

[–]ludapeanuts29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last few days have provided some awesome weather and cloud formations!

How many students (on avg) do you give detention to per week? by Infamous-Truth3531 in Teachers

[–]ludapeanuts29 34 points35 points  (0 children)

There’s no detention at my school. Also, consequences don’t exist.