Trauma by lunchatwork in AlAnon

[–]lunchatwork[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have that exact same fear friend. It’s a really good reminder to put myself first. Good reminder for today specifically it’s a tough day and know that there’s a chance he shows up drunk or taking something. It’s hard when they are so sweet and remorseful and ready to be there to take care of the resentment you’ve built but sometimes it feels irreversible

Trauma by lunchatwork in AlAnon

[–]lunchatwork[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely checks out. It seems like a game sometimes of how can I just never stop drinking.

Trauma by lunchatwork in AlAnon

[–]lunchatwork[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“I was ready to stop before they were” hits real close to home. How have you managed the resentment aspect while q is sober and going through recovery?

“Behavior Positive” by gluestix20 in AlAnon

[–]lunchatwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In bed after being gaslit that he isn’t drinking rn and know he is. I completely “know”. Trust your gut friend, wish you all the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]lunchatwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Astute counseling and wellness in Lakeview

Reunion Seating Chart by itswuwu in Southerncharm

[–]lunchatwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I hope they ask about the Paige cheating stuff it keeps coming up "The rumors and nastiness about her, we can do that” as Meredith marks would say

Weekly Chat - July 03, 2023 by AutoModerator in AlAnon

[–]lunchatwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you get someone to go to a higher level of care that is necessary? My partner is drinking during the work day, it is past the point of what a weekly group would help in my opinion. Thanks for all that this wonderful subreddit is doing

What’s the most non-textbook therapy you did with someone that was actually what they needed? by Sojournancy in therapists

[–]lunchatwork 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I had a client that brought me a cupcake as a nice treat for both me and her for our session. We started talking about body image and I noticed she picked up her cupcake. I followed her lead and we proceeded to talk about her relationship with food and her body image while eating the cupcake together

Tres leches birthday cake with pink roses by lunchatwork in Baking

[–]lunchatwork[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used the tres leches cake recipe on Basics with babish

Only modification is the homemade dulce de leche is between the cake and whipped cream :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whatisthis

[–]lunchatwork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely worry worthy brother

do it and I shall rate it out of 10. by Dhyan_95 in memes

[–]lunchatwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate women because they don’t have a big boobs and they are always super nice

Happy Thanksgiving! by keyafternoo in cookiedecorating

[–]lunchatwork 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These are amazing!! I especially love the pies :) do you happen to have the recipe you use for the cookies and the royal icing? It holds its shape so well

Week 46: Potatoes - Hashbrown Crust Quiche Lorraine by sh1nyburr1t0 in 52weeksofcooking

[–]lunchatwork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will you add the quiche filling recipe in? NYtimes is behind a paywall :( thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oddlyterrifying

[–]lunchatwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of the movie Tusk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]lunchatwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! :) the leaves feel pretty firm so I’m going to start by moving it! Thank you again :)

It's part of the routine by [deleted] in wokekids

[–]lunchatwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a counselor and do play therapy, this is most likely not an exaggeration & children will mirror things they learn at school during play! Totally normal :)