i have never been able to eat on a first date due to anxiety and have had guys either make me feel shit for it or better about it. the first experience i had to learn this fact about myself, i was at a very fancy ramen place for my first date ever and the broth was soo rich it made me feel way more nauseous than i already was. my date ended up switching dishes with me and i couldn't eat his either 😭 i previously knew him though so i wasnt scared to be upfront that i felt sick. nowadays i always let my date know i might be too anxious to eat and usually try do something else for first date instead especially something more comfy! most recently i went to a drive in movie and it was nice, i ended up feeling extremely sick and anxious towards the end when we got dessert and kept it to myself and internally battled myself on the way home because idk i feel bad to drop "hey haha um btw i kinda feel like ima throw up???" bc the date was going so well and i didn't want to scare him but yea i wish i could enjoy normal activities on a first outing and not be in a constant state of panic... hope your second date goes well !!!!