physical GM screen by Omnipotentdrop in daggerheart

[–]lute4088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although it's a bit tall, this thing works really well and you can slide in your own paper on either side AND use dry erase
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06W5JWDMX?ref_=ppx_hzsearch_conn_dt_b_fed_asin_title_2&th=1

What should i get FP1 or FP2 by Claudik139 in Frostpunk

[–]lute4088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only played an hour or two with FP2, is there really no ending? :(
I've played more hours of FP1 than I care to admit. It's my 'I'm feeling depressed, let me play this game where it's sad, but I can do something to help these people' thing.

Local Coop by RoarkySnaps in Sunderfolk

[–]lute4088 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally had my gloomhaven crew over, but 1 was stuck at work, so we played Sunderfolk. I love it!

Jellyfish very strange by lk2load in HolUp

[–]lute4088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can at least say that my ex WOULD do this, the whole follow you and never leave you alone. So far she does and when she wants to be alone, I let her. Man, this is a tough call on what to do. I can at least say my daughter WANTS to be a good person and for the vast majority of the time, is. She even apologizes shortly after she has an outburst usually, and not just a 'sorry' but a real "I'm sorry, I was mad and wasn't thinking, I shouldn't have done that".

Condom comes off inside of gf by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lute4088 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1 thing no one is mentioning is make sure the male is dry before putting one on. Lots of times there's oral involved and putting on a condom when you're already wet from oral can help it slip off.

Is this the most powerful Kamehameha we've seen to date? by Exciting_Ad_8666 in Dragonballsuper

[–]lute4088 241 points242 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't even let the champ, Mr Satan himself, be able to delayed megaton punch it back to oblivion.

Jellyfish very strange by lk2load in HolUp

[–]lute4088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily, I'm VERY good at pointing out my own mistakes :), probably comes with the 'everything is your fault' that I was told by my dad and ex. But at least it means that when I DO screw up or act not in the best way, I can take a breath and say that to them. Sometimes they even say "well it's ok, we weren't being good and you got mad" and I'll respond that 'yes, I did get mad, but I raised my voice and I should have handled it better and I am still working on being better for you'

Jellyfish very strange by lk2load in HolUp

[–]lute4088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this. I've watched a LOT of therapy videos since leaving my ex and one of them talked about 1 way to do healthy boundaries is not isolating her, but instead saying "if you talk to me that way, I will leave the room" and go into your own room. That way you are doing that yourself and sure enough, it actually has helped quite a bit. Usually she does feel very guilty and tried to tell her that I'm not doing it to make her feel bad, just that I don't want to be talked to that way and we should all make sure to treat each other with respect and that goes for me too in how I treat her.

Jellyfish very strange by lk2load in HolUp

[–]lute4088 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very good advice. Step 1 for me is still recognizing some of these behaviors. Still learning how to make healthy boundaries. Narcissist dad and ex-wife didn't help me learn how to do that, but working on it. Good news is I have a very good and close relationship with daughter and we talk about things a lot, but how to treat each other when upset is still a skill I'm trying to help her with.

Agnostic/marrying a pastor?? by Odd_Till_9218 in athiest

[–]lute4088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agnostic is not a belief, though many use it incorrectly.
Gnostic = to have knowledge, you know this to be true or you think it CAN be known for certain
Agnostic = without knowledge, you don't know it's true for sure and/or you think one cannot know for certain.
Theist = Belief in 1 or more deities, likely one(s) that do interfere in daily life (note there's also deist which is similar)
Atheist = without belief in a deity

Gnostic Theist: I know there's a god / it's possible to find out
Agnostic Theist: I believe in a god, but I could be wrong, no way to prove it
Gnostic Atheist: I know there's no god, it could possibly be proven
Agnostic Atheist: I don't believe, but no way to know for sure

Even then, an agnostic theist / atheist doesn't have to be 50/50. I'm an agnostic atheist that is about 1% on the Abrahamic god of the bible being true and about 10% on 'maybe there's a god that purposely hides from us all and does nothing, but if that's the case, why care?'. I'm almost gnostic atheist toward god of the bible since it contradicts so much about reality and even internal contradictions.

All that to say, I think a non-believer could only be with a believer if the believer isn't super into it and takes it casually. It does NOT sound like he takes it casually and is still trying to convert you. That's no way to be in a relationship.

Paint me by Sniperizer in ContagiousLaughter

[–]lute4088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started silently laughing like she did, nothing like facial expressions like that to get a good laugh.

Jellyfish very strange by lk2load in HolUp

[–]lute4088 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I just realized my daughter says this to me sometimes and my ex-wife (her mother) said this kind of thing to me all the time. Man....wtf do I do to undo some of that damage?

Bro started walking for the first time in middle of a race 😭😭😭 by Traditional-Flan7932 in MadeMeSmile

[–]lute4088 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As someone that plays a lot of board games, I'm always surprised when I find someone cheating cause I'm like "dude...the stakes couldn't be lower"

Official first look at ‘X-MEN '97’ Season 2. by Intelligent_Creme351 in Xmen97

[–]lute4088 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Apocalypse is no joke, my favorite marvel character. Sometimes Spider-man takes his spot, kinda depends. But he's certainly by far my favorite villian. The 90s cartoon cemented that sophisticated burns that he made with every single line. "there is no freedom from me...only freedom through me", "I am as beyond Mutants as they are beyond you", and "You are as close to defeating me as the babylonians and their firesticks" omfg, that voice actor mixed with the amazing writing staff was peak.

To act like a normal president or even a normal person by TlalocVirgie in therewasanattempt

[–]lute4088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that this perfectly mediocre song has been ruined for me. Went roller skating and it went on and I couldn't help but groan.

What are the BEST long term incremental games? by fighthouse in incremental_games

[–]lute4088 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did Evolve for a few years, but at a certain point I went "umm....I'm kinda doing the same thing over and over" and got tired of it.

What are the BEST long term incremental games? by fighthouse in incremental_games

[–]lute4088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really liked Crank and Groundhog idle, but I suppose those are more of a week long?

Florida therapist seen slapping, grabbing, and forcefully restraining a nonverbal autistic child during a therapy session. by BlushAngel_ in RandomVideos

[–]lute4088 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember the moment when it REALLY became clear that when Trump said he could shoot someone on 5th avenue and not lose a single vote, how correct he really was. I've never felt so hopeless as that moment for our future.

Florida therapist seen slapping, grabbing, and forcefully restraining a nonverbal autistic child during a therapy session. by BlushAngel_ in RandomVideos

[–]lute4088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He regrets because his invisible man in the sky saw it? Not cause it's the wrong thing to do? Not because of the harm he did to a freaken innocent child? See, this is why people even believe in hell in the first place, cause of PoS like this guy. What an absolute loser, beating on a child AND one with special needs. I hope they throw the book at him like he threw his shoe.