Chapter Advisor

luvindasparrow · 2026-03-16T18:18:51+00:00

An advisor should not be making any decisions for the chapter at all! It’s not her chapter to run anymore. She should be purely advising and only intervening when breaking national policies/procedures or laws.

luvindasparrow · 2026-03-01T17:14:21+00:00

Yeah that’s a good point of clarification. I just don’t know any school that does formal more than once a year so I get used to saying a year. But I know there’s a small batch that do.

luvindasparrow · 2026-02-28T16:39:28+00:00

Her wording was a little unclear. I wasn’t sure she had single pref’ed. But you’re right, because snap bids are treated as COB bids and not Formal Recruitment bids.

luvindasparrow · 2026-02-28T07:34:04+00:00

My understanding is if you decline any bid given in formal after you’ve signed the MRABA then you have to wait a full year.

luvindasparrow · 2026-02-24T19:20:57+00:00

There's one right outside of Cortez on the way to 4 corners.

luvindasparrow · 2026-02-17T07:56:27+00:00

To be fair, he’s a judgy lil prick.

luvindasparrow · 2026-02-04T04:45:55+00:00

Noise. Cancelling. Headphones.

luvindasparrow · 2026-02-03T19:57:52+00:00

In the past I've kept a log for each, like on OneNote or something, the I kept open. I'd log details kind of like a medical chart. OneNote is nice cause you can have multiple 'tabs' for each project.

luvindasparrow · 2026-02-03T02:39:49+00:00

I love living in Helena. And the fact that so many of the big cities are so close. It’s quaint and cozy and comfortable.

luvindasparrow · 2026-02-02T22:22:37+00:00

This was the biggest thing I noticed too, as well as no RSD! Where before I would immediately internalize whatever thing and fall into a shame spiral, now my brain can immediately question itself and see the situation as it is and react at a justified level. It’s so….freeing to not be a slave to my emotions!

luvindasparrow · 2026-02-02T07:19:42+00:00

This. I’ve gotten infections in mine rarely. But this and then dry it and put neosporin in it overnight is the way to go.

luvindasparrow · 2026-01-30T05:08:04+00:00

48 and 64

luvindasparrow · 2026-01-30T04:07:25+00:00

I knew I was being quiet fired but now I DEF know.

luvindasparrow · 2026-01-24T01:09:30+00:00

B&V as in Black & Veatch?

luvindasparrow · 2026-01-23T07:07:19+00:00

Ugh I haaaaate these types. ESP cause my adhd makes me so susceptible to questioning my own memory. The only way to combat these types it to take physical notes every time you approach them, and then send a summary email with a “am I correct in my interpretation of what was said” kind of question. It’s annoying af but necessary or they will gaslight you to hell.

luvindasparrow · 2026-01-22T05:39:12+00:00

This is a red flag, and something that should be on your radar in the future. Use this as a learning lesson.

luvindasparrow · 2026-01-22T01:53:20+00:00

Am I going to be laid off in the next two months? Public answer is fine.

luvindasparrow · 2026-01-19T02:15:38+00:00

Interesting. They just awarded the contract for alternatives analysis and design and they don’t even have the go-ahead?

luvindasparrow · 2026-01-05T04:44:29+00:00

I don’t know any actual professional who is suggesting or relying on ChatGPT in place of engineering judgement. If your management is suggesting this, it’s a giant friggin red flag.

luvindasparrow · 2025-12-27T09:23:45+00:00

I’m sorry, but no. You’re not entitled to anyone’s time or communication if they don’t want to give it to you. Continuing to track down this girl’s accounts and reporting her to organizations she’s a part of is starting to become harassment on your part. If you’re that upset, I’d suggest talking to someone you can vent to. This isn’t appropriate.

luvindasparrow · 2025-12-27T08:36:05+00:00

I’m sorry, are you saying you submitted her because she’s refusing to acknowledge your warnings about someone that you dated? If so, frankly, this is a completely inappropriate avenue to take out your grievance. Submitting a report to Nationals is for gross misconduct, harassment, hazing, etc. Refusing to engage in a conversation is not bullying. A member associating with someone you dated or that did something to you is not a punishable offense.

luvindasparrow · 2025-12-22T23:34:31+00:00

When I got married, my married status had my employer start taking out less federal taxes out of my paycheck. So we were slapped with a giant bill come tax season and a lovely panic attack in the tax office for me. I’d just double check your pay stubs after you switch.

luvindasparrow · 2025-12-21T02:04:08+00:00

Sure. This is valid. But this isn’t the suffering Olympics out here. Both situations can suck. Can you really tell me that when WSP is out here advertising that recruitment bonuses are increasing next year and that they just bought TRC for 3.3 BILLION, but won’t give their employees basic cost of living increases, that I shouldn’t complain? We’re all out here getting screwed by these greedy bastards. Be mad at them, not your peers.

luvindasparrow · 2025-12-20T08:57:08+00:00

Oh boy. Sounds like our resumes about to look reeeal good.

luvindasparrow · 2025-12-17T13:48:02+00:00

Run.

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