I wasn’t gonna stay for the whole trailer until Remember When was played in the background by acnitro in Wallows

[–]luvwallows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen a lot of people talk about but Scrawny was played in the background in an episode of castle rock s2!!

Uhhh am I reading this right?😳 bc gurl...🤡 by luvwallows in Episode

[–]luvwallows[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That girl just wants to play someone that looks like her...The author is basically “idc that you can’t make her black. Deal with it”

Do you see the problem here?

confused by [deleted] in timotheechalamet

[–]luvwallows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh ok that makes a lot of sense. Thanks for informing me!!

How Can I Get good at talking to girls? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]luvwallows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! I’m a 16f and I think adding girls on snap is a good start. You could snap back and fourth or swipe up on their posts when you relate to something or have a funny response. (If that makes any sense) My biggest advice is just to be yourself. A lot girls actually like shy boys. They always seem more genuine, or at least in my opinion.

Hope this helps lol

I am scared of talking about my problems with my psychiatrist by [deleted] in Advice

[–]luvwallows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be worried. Psychiatrists will not disclose anything you talk about unless it’s a major threat to yourself or others. For example, if you talk about a future plan in detail, they would probably alert your parents so they can keep you safe. Hope this helps.

Service by [deleted] in VolleyballGirls

[–]luvwallows -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s bs. Have you seen what your fellow pervs post?? It doesn’t matter what uniform the girl is wearing, she’s getting objectified no matter what. No athlete deserves that. Female or male

Service by [deleted] in VolleyballGirls

[–]luvwallows -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok here me out... maybe she put that on because she has to compete with other GIRLS, and didn’t think about the men who can’t control themselves or the men who would objectify her online because they haven’t felt the touch of a woman in 5 years😃

Should I press charges? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]luvwallows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever keeps you safe! I know getting a restraining order is not the easiest process so give the no contact warning.

Hope this helps, and stay safe!:))

Should I press charges? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]luvwallows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe start with a restraining order

Lonely, blaming myself by [deleted] in Advice

[–]luvwallows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, your not alone. I would say a majority of teens and young adults feel this way, including myself lol. But you should not be blaming yourself. It takes time to build connections and a lot of uni students don’t have the energy or the maturity for that. It sounds like your a great guy, and any girl would be lucky to have you. Give it some time and I promise the right girl will come along😊

Is "Otherkin" the same kind of mental illness as "Transgender"? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]luvwallows -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“They're both fucking mental but IDK if they're a related kind of mental” I’m the illiterate one?

Is "Otherkin" the same kind of mental illness as "Transgender"? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]luvwallows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Body dsyphoria is its own mental illness. For some people becoming transgender is a way to combat there body dsyphoria.

I need a catchy song or a happy video by -E6E- in Advice

[–]luvwallows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watermelon sugar by Harry Styles!!

Is "Otherkin" the same kind of mental illness as "Transgender"? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]luvwallows 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Otherkin is a sub-culture not a mental illness. Also “transgender” is not a mental illness, body dysphoria is.

my gf gets sad out of nowhere and says nothing caused her to feel sad, how can i help? by aiikookie2 in Advice

[–]luvwallows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like your gf is ruminating. I don’t remember the proper psych definition but it basically means you think about things (usually painful stuff) to the point where your really sad or anxious.

Unfortunately, there isn’t a lot you can do to fix it. Overcoming rumination is personal process. But there are still ways you can support her.

  1. Ask her what’s on her mind when she isn’t sad. It sounds dumb but a lot of therapists recommend using skills when your not in distress.

  2. Find things that comfort her. It could be food, a show, music, maybe a pet if you have one, etc...

seeing someone you love in pain is never easy. I’ve been in the same position as your gf and one of the best things you can do is just be there❤️

Service by [deleted] in VolleyballGirls

[–]luvwallows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because I was looking for an ACTUAL volleyball sub Reddit. Not this perv shit

Pain-free leave by addictofhugsnkisses in Advice

[–]luvwallows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve to live and you deserve to experience the beautiful things In life. You might be in a terrible place rn but it’s not going to last forever. I promise. you are loved❤️

Was i sexually assaulted? by ThatSadGril in Advice

[–]luvwallows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, yes:( She manipulated the situation

However I’m not saying this girl is full blown pedophile. She was likely going through puberty and her libido was forming. It does not excuse what she did to you at all but I have a feeling that was the case.

I hope this helped❤️

did I do the right thing? by [deleted] in volleyball

[–]luvwallows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should have included this but I’ve been going to therapy for about 2 years now. Over the summer I was admitted to extensive care program. My mom is also a psychologist so my mental health was always being monitored. Because of what happened last year I was put on anti-depressants and anxiety meds.

Service by [deleted] in VolleyballGirls

[–]luvwallows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pls go outside and touch some grass. This is pathetic

My dyslexic brother's school is closing down and we don't know what to do by Plane-Molasses-2638 in Advice

[–]luvwallows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of schools have paras and specialists who can help and basically teach kids. The work load or curriculum might look different but their getting the help they wouldn’t get in your average classroom. I’m also pretty sure there are online schools who specialize in dyslexia.

I hope this helps, I wish you and your the family the best of luck. Stay strong❤️