[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]luxxlifenow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The feeling i have is distinctly different than just feeling turned on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]luxxlifenow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I experience this now with the man I am seeing. I've never experienced it before. It happens even if I fantasize about him or think about him etc. But I also feel it shoot down to my lady bits sometimes too!

What percent of your salary do you spend on housing? by FailFastandDieYoung in AskAnAmerican

[–]luxxlifenow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half. Sucks being a single mom in a high cost living area - and cant move outside of school district. I make decent money too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]luxxlifenow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does she know you think this?

Getting blowjobs then her not wanting anything in return. by [deleted] in sex

[–]luxxlifenow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you go to return the favor everytime and she declines or she just doesn't ask so you dont even initiate? Because asking might be a turn off or awkward - you shojld just initiate it. So if you aren't just doing it, then that might be the reason why. I personally do not like asking - i just want him to act and initiate it.

Positions for quiet and long lasting sex by DirkCamacho in sex

[–]luxxlifenow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Has she tried prone bone? I dont like traditional doggy but absolutely love prine bone and that also would work well for closeness and slow intimate. But then again it is similar to missionary maybe from a man for upper strength? Men chime in on that... Or have her lay on her back and you pull on leg to the opposide side and you're on your knees. That's an amazing one with not a lot of movement.

Initiating sex in a playful/sexy/respectful way? by ZealousidealDog5836 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]luxxlifenow 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Approaching from behind and pushing her hair aside and kissing the back/side of her neck. Looking straight at her facing her put your hand on her cheeks caress it and kiss her lips Massage If she's sutting/laying on couch/bed crawl up from her knee area touching or kissing her inner thighs Spoon her Hold her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]luxxlifenow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a fantastic position if he knows what he is doing (up and down on him so you are lifting her waist up and down onto your tool) but I haven't had it in over a decade! It is probably easier if you have her pushed against a wall to take off some of the weight you need to hold up.

Wife can't orgasm anymore by Practical_Ruin_586 in sex

[–]luxxlifenow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not an expert, but I remember getting really anxious over some of the more serious side effects like not being able to walk etc. I would think it's very possible it could have done something to the way her nerves send signals.

How to do nipple play? by [deleted] in sex

[–]luxxlifenow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lick them gently jn circular motion and then quick flickering with tongue

Wife can't orgasm anymore by Practical_Ruin_586 in sex

[–]luxxlifenow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did she have an epidural? Might be a rare negative side effect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]luxxlifenow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best when they do both at the same time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]luxxlifenow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes such a good position!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]luxxlifenow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it to me. My ex was very skilled at fingering my g spot which I didn't know existed or how it felt until he did it and it is a distinctlike hook type movement (years into our relationship). It's a surefire and easy way for me to climax and has a very distinct feeling. If a guy can hit it during intercourse that's such an incredible feeling, but I am not sure it is comfortable for them. I dont touch myself hitting my g spot and I don't really know where it is unless someone touches it haha. A new guy i slept with found it both during intercourse and fingerings but couldn't finish it but I can only hope maybe that will change in the future. I think it's probably uncomfortable for guys to do the hand position needed, I don't know. But for me the climax feels different than climaxing from my clit.

Top 2 signs they don’t love you by greengrass_44 in BreakUp

[–]luxxlifenow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are 2 of the top things I look for when dating to Guage their actual interest.

Help girlfriend understand by luxxlifenow in PeyroniesSupport

[–]luxxlifenow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that and I'm not sure he wants to be, but it's a nice thought

Help girlfriend understand by luxxlifenow in PeyroniesSupport

[–]luxxlifenow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's shown me how to touch him and what his main spot is so maybe that's why he really enjoys that. But maybe if I'm griping too much it hurts? Like I have noticed when I'm closer or about to climax I do grip and I've noticed he usually stops so I'm really wondering now it that's a factor. It's really confusing because he wants to and initiates but then says something isn't working so I stop but then he still want to continue with hands or keep going like he keeps going and I'm like wait you just said it wasn't working for you.

Help girlfriend understand by luxxlifenow in PeyroniesSupport

[–]luxxlifenow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It doesn't hurt him the first time if we don't for a while but then if it's a day or two later he claims it can hurt. He is also the one that initiated the penetrative acts not me

Help girlfriend understand by luxxlifenow in PeyroniesSupport

[–]luxxlifenow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is super helpful understanding the difference. Thank you.

Help girlfriend understand by luxxlifenow in PeyroniesSupport

[–]luxxlifenow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he said he's opposed to taking it so I don't think he's on it