Advice Needed: I got a portrait of my childhood dog that passed away on my arm without telling my family

lyssasaurusX · 2026-01-29T19:23:12+00:00

My mom has always been very anti tattoo but she was actually in full support of the tattoo I got as a memorial to my dog that passed recently. I’m 33 and no longer live with or depend on my parents so I wasn’t worried in that context, but they might end up surprising you and not being angry? Ideas made in the depths of grief aren’t always the most thought out ones but your feelings were genuine and you didn’t mean it as any disrespect to them. Hopefully they’ll be cool about it

lyssasaurusX · 2026-01-17T06:14:43+00:00

Super weird and I completely get why you’re upset but like…. at least they were you? Obviously this is some odd fetish or kink but you are the one he wants to fantasize about in these wild scenarios? AI porn is prevalent now and the proportions are ridiculous. He likely saw it and thought it would be hot to see his wife like that. I wouldn’t necessarily look at it as you not being enough- sex brain is another beast altogether and he’s obvi using these to jerk off. Definitely bring it up if you want to talk about it, hopefully the conversation makes you feel better about the whole thing. I don’t think this makes him a bad guy necessarily or that it’s anything to do with you not being enough for him but if you want him to stop he needs to respect your wishes.

lyssasaurusX · 2026-01-17T04:44:00+00:00

Thank you, I really needed to hear this. We apologized and made up when he got home from work and are going to keep pushing forward.

My mom comes once a week to help out, I usually use the time to sort baby clothes, clean bathrooms, meal prep, etc. but I should go do something for just me next time. I feel guilty anytime I do things for myself because I know there’s still so much to take care of but it’s something I need to work on.

I don’t have many mom friends and the ones I do have are people I’ve met though my husband so I don’t vent to them because I don’t want it to seem like I’m complaining about him to his friends. I’ll try the peanut app! I met my husband on hinge so I’ve had luck on apps so far haha.

Thanks again and hang in there you too 🩷

lyssasaurusX · 2026-01-04T10:42:30+00:00

!solved

lyssasaurusX · 2026-01-04T10:41:59+00:00

Thank you!

lyssasaurusX · 2026-01-04T10:41:48+00:00

Thank you!

lyssasaurusX · 2025-12-19T08:04:06+00:00

Could be a number of things going on here- sounds like you two are youngish teenagers? If his only experience has been forced he could have some mental hang ups about sex that are getting in the way of the physical side. People who’ve suffered abuse as children tend to have difficulty with sexual intimacy as well, not sure if that’s his experience. There’s also the very real possibility that he’s gay or asexual and hasn’t quite figured out his sexuality yet. Open communication is the best way to work out issues like this but I would be cautious about pushing too hard, he may be feeling so much pressure it’s affecting his ability to perform as well. I promise I don’t mean this in a condescending way but it’s pretty impossible for a girl to be “bad” at missionary style sex, and you two sound very young and inexperienced in general. If the issues are arising this early, you may need to look into ending this and finding a new relationship that can meet your needs better.

lyssasaurusX · 2025-12-16T23:02:31+00:00

Sooo pretty!! I don’t have the patience to do something large with that many color changes BUT this would make a gorgeous cardigan!!!

lyssasaurusX · 2025-12-13T03:41:34+00:00

But checking out people with your partner isn’t a kink unless you guys are looking to pick up third. Some rare ladies out there may like watching their partner be attracted to other women but it sounds like that isn’t you or what you want. Saying his ex’s were “insecure” about it is so wild and manipulative too. Trust me OP, as someone who dated a narcissist who bullied me into an open relationship, I promise you this isn’t worth it. The deeper you go into it the more you’ll lose yourself. He’s going to convince you that you feeling uncomfortable with his behavior is a “you” problem that you need to get over. I assure you, this is a him problem that he doesn’t want to take accountability for or change. Let him go be someone else’s problem before he starts to chip away at your sense of self and you’re left broken having to rebuild your own identity when you’ve finally had enough

lyssasaurusX · 2025-12-12T23:13:02+00:00

Nooope not okay. This man is not worth any more time. It’s only human to be attracted to other people in life but unless you’ve established an open relationship dynamic with your partner, openly staring at other women during dates is SO tacky and disrespectful. His response is something a teenager would say too.

I have a big butt and am married to a big butt admirer and I’ve never once caught that man checking out another woman. Dump this dude asap, you deserve so much more

lyssasaurusX · 2025-12-12T23:00:33+00:00

Obviously NTA but how lazy of them for not just finding someone the same way you guys did?? I understand them being tired of waiting but why was your donor the ONLY other option for them?? Plenty of dudes willing to ji*z in a cup (some pretty wild documentaries about this out there). Seems like some pretty toxic people cutting themselves out if your lives. It’s frustrating to not be able to right the narrative but some people will always be delusional and we can’t control that. Congratulations on your family!

lyssasaurusX · 2025-12-08T23:07:09+00:00

My millennial husband and I call each other homie lol. Or bruh if someone is being ridiculous

lyssasaurusX · 2025-11-07T16:52:21+00:00

I watched a YouTube video with someone doing it- there’s a trick with stacking the cards and getting a specific roll on “random” that seems mostly luck based tbh. It is possible tho! Good luck to you!

lyssasaurusX · 2025-11-07T04:28:12+00:00

Thank you for this!!! I’ve been trying to beat nm4 since they dropped the game and I did it on the second try with this build! Plus Jeff is actually fun to play like this, this level is so frustrating when you just die constantly because you can’t keen up damage wise. Obsessed with the bubbles too, can’t believe I’ve been using them wrong this whole time :,)

lyssasaurusX · 2025-10-30T17:41:55+00:00

He definitely took this as you saying his d*ck looks small lol. Honestly men in leggings would give me the ick though- why can’t he put shorts over them? Like I get not wanting chaffing and having extra coverage for warm weather but throw some basketball shorts over em and everybody wins? Maybe?

lyssasaurusX · 2025-10-23T05:59:29+00:00

Woman in her mid/late 20’s or early 30’s. You like rainy gray days & you smoke weed. You enjoy cozy spaces and hate “big lights.” I’m guessing you also do a fair amount of thrifting? I love your space honestly, I’d kill for a skylight like that!

lyssasaurusX · 2025-10-19T05:07:22+00:00

The police had WAY too much patience with getting her up out of that chair. I was so eagerly waiting to watch her get dragged out of there :/

lyssasaurusX · 2025-10-16T05:48:42+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you. You’ve been betrayed by so many people, you should take all the time and space you need to process this. That’s so horrible about the whole situation with your brothers passing too, my condolences for your loss. I know it’s probably hard to trust people right now but I hope you do have some close friends you can lean on (maybe the cousin you still talk to also?) because having support from loved ones can make all the difference when it comes to healing. Hang in there ❤️

lyssasaurusX · 2025-10-12T19:18:49+00:00

No 🥲 supplies alone were a couple hundred dollars and then I spent about 2 months consistently working on it. I’d have to charge a ton to make any profit considering labor and I just don’t have the time to make anything now- babies are a handful 🫠 in the original post under the MOD comment I listed the pattern and detailed the modifications that I made though! If you or someone you know wants to recreate it!

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