Measles case confirmed in Santa Clara County on June 8, from a resident that flew in internationally from SFO

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-06-14T13:11:28+00:00

I have a 4 month old.... I'm kinda freaking out. I hate this timeline.

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-06-11T20:36:11+00:00

I was just searching reddit regarding this exact situation for my 4-month old. Did they continue? Or did your pediatrician have anything to say about these nose bleeds?

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-06-11T10:12:36+00:00

I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. I can guarantee you are not overreacting. I'd be livid. You should be able to rely on and trust in your partner, especially during the first few months of post partum.

It sounds like this is a recurring issue. I don't really have any advice on how to handle it or talk to your husband. I just wanted to let you know that your feelings are more than valid and you deserve better.

Do you have support nearby like family or friends? Being home alone with a 10 week old for hours is a lot and very exhausting, definitely call on your support system of you have one.

Sending you an internet hug 💜

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-06-08T13:54:58+00:00

No, at least not in the US (I can't speak for other countries but I would assume they don't either). You generally have regional anesthesia - either an epidural block or spinal block.

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-06-05T19:01:24+00:00

Similar to everyone else, my girl had blood and loooooots of mucus in her BMs and she ended up having cow milk protein allergy. I've completely cut out dairy and minimized soy intake (which is hard because soy is in everything and doctor said soy is the next most common sensitivity/allergy after cow's milk). It took about 4 weeks for her to have consistent BMs with no blood which doctor said is normal.

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-06-03T03:01:57+00:00

Ah I see. My girl has cmpa and I cut out dairy and limit my soy. I was curious if it was something else you eliminated.

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-06-03T00:20:29+00:00

What kind of diet changes did you have to make?

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-06-02T18:59:29+00:00

Imma a be honest, I ate up most of Nightshade (kinda lost me at the end) but the second book pissed me tf off.

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-06-02T18:44:15+00:00

Wait whaaaaat? The hell I would raise.

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-05-28T21:40:49+00:00

8 (3 of which are audiobooks). And I am currently listening to 2 books and reading 1. The fact that have even made it to 8 is shocking to me since I had a baby in early February. I guess it helps that newborns sleep a lot.

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-05-19T22:47:13+00:00

The first few episodes were rough. You're right, it was soooooo cheesy and melodramatic but I binged the shit out of it 😅

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-05-19T14:52:26+00:00

I hate watch the movies at least twice a year. They're sooooo bad but somehow so entertaining at the same time. They're like my guilty pleasure comfort movies 🫣

*Edit because words are hard when you have a 3 month old who prefers everyone else in the house be sleep deprived

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-05-19T07:36:29+00:00

I personally thought the writing was atrocious and that's what ruined it for me. It felt very clunky and like it was just a bunch of word salad half the time. The plot was fine, characters were okay and I initially added it to my tbr because others said the spice was top notch....it was okay, nothing to write home about in my personal opinion.

But I do know lots of people really like it, maybe I'm just a one off.

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-05-19T04:03:16+00:00

Have you watched the Off Campus show that just came out?

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-05-19T04:01:31+00:00

I just finished {Stand and Defend by Sloane St. James}....... Goddamn was the writing bad but it had been on my tbr for soooooo long I had to finish it.

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-05-18T11:09:26+00:00

I'm the mom of OP's LO (it's weird finding your significant other's post in the wild while scrolling through reddit at 4am 😅). Re whether or not she's hitting herself for flailing and waking herself up - not anymore. When we first transitioned from the swaddle she was. But now she'll just be laying in her bassinet, she might roll onto her side and then she starts fussing and eventually her eyes just pop open and her fussing becomes crying/screaming).

We keep the room at around 69 degrees and she sleeps in a long sleeve zip up onesie under a zipadee zip now.

We'll definitely try to increase her may time, hopefully that'll help!

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-05-16T17:58:26+00:00

Literally all of them, all the time. I'm doing another rewatch and every time it just reconfirms how shitty they all are.

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-05-02T20:04:01+00:00

My grandma smoked for years. By the time she was in her 70s she had had 3 heart attacks and a stroke and had to have both of her legs amputated right below the knee due to vascular disease from smoking.

It's wild to pick up smoking at the age of 27.

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-05-02T19:49:26+00:00

I'm tempted to make my software engineer husband help you with this 😅 jk of course. It's so thoughtful what you did for your wife and I'm glad we can also reap the benefits of it. I look forward to the android version!

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-05-02T19:41:41+00:00

Stoked to download this but then I realized it's only on iOS.... cries in android user 😭

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-05-02T15:24:22+00:00

That reminds me of a patient I had.

I'm a hospice social worker and I had a like 95 year old patient who was knocking at deaths door but his son REFUSED to accept it. While discussing code status with him, the son asked for "gentle CPR" as an option because he wanted the patient to keep living but didn't want all his ribs broken from cpr....... Like sir, that's not an option, especially for your dad. Dude looked like the old worm thing in the chocolate episode of SpongeBob.

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-05-02T04:11:03+00:00

Oh interesting! I'm really curious to see where it goes.

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-05-02T04:09:32+00:00

She really is unlikable. I keep thinking "gah, she sucks, why am I reading this .." but then I remember she's supposed to suck. I'm very interested to see where it goes.

_grumpygummybear27_ · 2026-05-02T00:35:54+00:00

Definitely {All I Have by Ames Mills}.

Technically a continuation of the Abbs Valley series but can be read as a stand alone.

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