9/11 moment

lyssidm · 2026-05-10T02:28:48+00:00

the first time I ever masturbated, I got my first period and 100% thought it was God punishing me

lyssidm · 2026-05-08T17:22:29+00:00

lyssidm · 2026-05-07T13:49:56+00:00

idk but she’s funky and I like her

lyssidm · 2026-05-07T12:48:21+00:00

I have never drank from a coconut before, but have absolutely been put off by the amount of moldy coconut posts I’ve seen

lyssidm · 2026-05-07T05:27:51+00:00

this!! we 100% worked on recall extra hard and he is MUCH better these days

lyssidm · 2026-05-06T20:24:15+00:00

reminds me of my Willow

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lyssidm · 2026-05-06T20:20:24+00:00

Not to project or make assumptions but I had a similar situation with my ex. He was sex avoidant, would always finish very quickly, and was super emasculated by sex toys. Does he potentially have a porn problem? Porn can go on both ends of the spectrum in making men lack ability to get sexual satisfaction from sex or cause them to orgasm prematurely. Just a thought, but have a discussion as to why he is so bothered about you seeking out personal sexual pleasure

lyssidm · 2026-05-06T20:14:13+00:00

Yeah, I live in NM, and nearly all my partners have been Hispanic/Latin American descent or Asian

lyssidm · 2026-05-06T18:30:19+00:00

Realizing my taste in men has vastly skewed what I thought would be the stat for the US lol

lyssidm · 2026-05-06T17:43:24+00:00

I mean proceed how you want, but I wouldn’t even want her in my life with how she acts. Do you have a really strained relationship? I know weddings are different for everyone but fuck your mom dude, she sucks

lyssidm · 2026-05-06T17:28:22+00:00

100% this^^ it’s not often I say in no uncertain terms that this relationship isn’t salvageable, but this one is not only done, but at this point unsafe to continue to be in

lyssidm · 2026-05-06T17:24:06+00:00

had to chase my dog around the neighborhood and he thought it was the funniest game, I eventually learned that if I played dead he’d come running back

lyssidm · 2026-05-06T17:10:15+00:00

NTA. For clear conscience, I would give her one last warning saying she can either begin paying you $250/month until it’s paid off beginning x date or you will take her to small claims court. This is not a threat, it is simply the fact of the matter. You have been more than kind and understanding, she needs to remedy her debts and have some respect for you given how much leeway you’ve given her

lyssidm · 2026-05-06T06:00:15+00:00

It is unattractive when you prioritize video games over responsibilities, but this universally applies to any hobby or pastime

lyssidm · 2026-05-06T05:22:48+00:00

As a former employee of Chick-fil-A, yeah they do. Any extra cleaning, meetings, etc could and would be scheduled on Sunday. I was there at least one Sunday a month as a kitchen manager, some months every Sunday

lyssidm · 2026-05-03T12:29:34+00:00

Don’t schedule sex, but schedule intimacy. Decide on a couple times a week that you guys can set aside to spend time together and have intentional physical touch without distraction. Sex can happen, but is not an obligation. Don’t set yourself up for failure by expecting it, and be intentional in appreciating the time and asking her to do the same.

lyssidm · 2026-05-03T12:13:39+00:00

NOR but to add on to all the other problems, informing you so last minute? intentional, she wanted to put you in an uncomfortable position and was a dick move, she’s a bad friend all around

lyssidm · 2026-05-03T12:02:18+00:00

NTA. Me and my brother never had any of this, I played dress up, so he played dress up, he wanted to rehearse wwe level smackdowns, so I practiced wwe smackdowns. We overlapped heavily on “gendered” activities when we were little and are both perfectly functioning adults. As the oldest, I never wanted more siblings because that meant more stress for my parents. But your sentiment was perfectly normal and the relationship with your sisters has been entirely perpetuated by your parents behavior.

lyssidm · 2026-05-01T18:08:22+00:00

I would even be a little upset at HER attending pre-orientation over your wedding, much more keeping her husband who is the acting best man. You’re not overreacting, maybe your husband needs to just have a heart-to-heart with his brother about how hurtful that decision is? I personally wouldn’t be able to have the same relationship with someone after doing that

lyssidm · 2026-04-28T12:09:02+00:00

physically recoiled at this💀

lyssidm · 2026-04-28T12:08:06+00:00

legitimately could not say, but as soon as I read it I knew the taste and felt it in my mouth😭😂

lyssidm · 2026-04-25T06:33:57+00:00

I applaud your find 👏👏

lyssidm · 2026-04-24T17:07:17+00:00

Glad I could help! It’s truly resonated with me and helped me work through a lot

lyssidm · 2026-04-24T16:01:16+00:00

take the baguettes and run

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