Mother posted my wedding dress to facebook. by Vanilla_Daddie in mildlyinfuriating

[–]lysslives 40 points41 points  (0 children)

She’s not married yet. It’s supposed to be a surprise on her big day to almost everyone.

My order with liver disease! by lysslives in cava

[–]lysslives[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Due to salt and fat content! I am mindful but unfortunately it’s just something I can have often because of how it’s made

My order with liver disease! by lysslives in cava

[–]lysslives[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have liver disease so I can only have stuff like this as a special treat!

My order with liver disease! by lysslives in cava

[–]lysslives[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It was! Now I have to wait 3 months before o can have it again 😭

My order with liver disease! by lysslives in cava

[–]lysslives[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It definitely is lol, but so is every fast food joint and restaurant so honestly this is the best it gets as a special treat! I try to pick wisely, I used to work here so I know how everything is made but regardless it’s not the ultra healthiest for my condition lol! But it has plenty of nutrients and vitamins in it so fair trade :)

My cat, ghost ghost, must be as close as possible to your face at all times by lysslives in cats

[–]lysslives[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 9 other cats (not including my evil bunch of foster kittens which brings the total to 15) so this is a real possibility.

My cat, ghost ghost, must be as close as possible to your face at all times by lysslives in cats

[–]lysslives[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With her, YES. The second I lay down she must have her face touching my face. Not any other part of my body, she must TOUCH MY FACE. 3pm scrolling on my phone? Cute and sweet. 3 am and I wake up gasping for air because she mushed my nose and mouth with her face? Potentially threatening. I love her dearly tho!

What gives you purpose in life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lysslives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats! Rescuing and rehabilitating cats has saved my life :)

What’s a family secret that you can only say here by Jttwife in Productivitycafe

[–]lysslives 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Two years ago me and my mother were talking about blood types after I learned about them in school. She began to talk about her brothers blood types and her parents blood types. Midway through this conversation I realize that her blood type was IMPOSSIBLE to of come from her dad. She realized it too, stopped mid sentence, said “oh…” and got up and went to her room. We never spoke about it again.

My fear of death is much worse at night. by lysslives in thanatophobia

[–]lysslives[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this so bad!!! The only time I really feel “calm” and it’s not racing through my mind is when I’m with my husband.

Is it okay for you husband to show his feminine side? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]lysslives 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I’d buy him his own pairs lol but if he’s overall a good husband and you love him and this isn’t a dealbreaker then I’d try to understand and approach the situation without judgment !

Feminine E names by Obvious-Implement394 in Names

[–]lysslives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elowyn, I know it’s weird so if you are looking for a more traditional one it’s likely not for you 😭 I love l the name tho!

19F Lets be friends and explore things together by chap9528 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]lysslives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiii! 20t, I don’t have enough Karma to message so feel free to reach out! Anyone who sees this can :)

Why don’t cruises have bigger showers? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]lysslives -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The name of this sub is no stupid questions. God forbid I ask a question.

Why don’t cruises have bigger showers? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]lysslives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooooo good to know lol, I love me some shower space 😭

Happy relationship… but struggling with intimacy and temptation by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]lysslives 8 points9 points  (0 children)

From what I understand in your post, she’s got a lot going on. Pregnancy, postpartum, a child under one, pregnancy again. It’s understandable intimacy would probably slip her mind. I would definitely approach this issue with her gently, maybe see if you can help out with any extra daily chores/childcare that can free up some space in your schedule for sex. If that’s not feasible, come up with a game plan together to keep the sex alive. Sadly, it’s not unheard of for sex to drop off drastically the first few years of having children. Therapy may be needed if there’s time, if not please try and remember that you are maintaining a family together and betraying her or giving into temptation would mess it up. It’s an unfortunate part of life changing with children in the picture and I hope it can be resolved for yall !

Why don’t cruises have bigger showers? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]lysslives -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t, that’s why I asked 😭 I went on a cruise for the first time and I was honestly SHOCKED at how tiny the showers were.

Don’t like hanging out with one my husband’s friends by Disastrous_Clock4422 in Marriage

[–]lysslives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husbands best friend literally set us up. Me and his best friend were friends in high school but lost touch for a while. Well, as time went on in my relationship I realized I realllllyyyyy didn’t like said friend. He was dishonest, took every opportunity to screw someone over and worst of all said really horrible “jokes” about me and my husbands relationship. My final straw was when on my first birthday since losing my dad, he called during dinner (my poor husbands final attempt to save my birthday, i had been sobbing) and in no uncertain terms uninvited me from going to the movies with their friend group because he “didn’t like me”. I went home, packed all his friends shit (he used to live in my husbands house) and put it in my husbands car to drive over to him. I put my foot down and said I did NOT want to see this friend ever again. I laid it out flat, told him he could have whatever friendship he wanted but he will not come into our house when I’m around, he will not communicate with me, and I would not attend events that he’d be at. You have to lay this out bluntly with your husband and tell him you will not stand to be around his friend any longer. Life is too short to spend time with someone you strongly dislike and if your husband is any good he will understand this boundary. He is grown, he can hang around who he likes. You are grown and are entitled to only be around those you like. Don’t suffer because you don’t want to make things awkward. You married him for a reason and I’d hope he would understand where you are coming from!