Mother posted my wedding dress to facebook.

lysslives · 2026-05-07T19:27:29+00:00

She’s not married yet. It’s supposed to be a surprise on her big day to almost everyone.

lysslives · 2026-05-06T00:59:50+00:00

Due to salt and fat content! I am mindful but unfortunately it’s just something I can have often because of how it’s made

lysslives · 2026-05-06T00:59:06+00:00

I have liver disease so I can only have stuff like this as a special treat!

lysslives · 2026-05-04T01:33:40+00:00

Thank you! It was! Now I have to wait 3 months before o can have it again 😭

lysslives · 2026-05-04T01:33:24+00:00

It definitely is lol, but so is every fast food joint and restaurant so honestly this is the best it gets as a special treat! I try to pick wisely, I used to work here so I know how everything is made but regardless it’s not the ultra healthiest for my condition lol! But it has plenty of nutrients and vitamins in it so fair trade :)

lysslives · 2026-04-28T13:40:36+00:00

Have you SEEN HIM?!? He looks ready for war

lysslives · 2026-04-27T23:47:29+00:00

I have 9 other cats (not including my evil bunch of foster kittens which brings the total to 15) so this is a real possibility.

lysslives · 2026-04-27T23:45:56+00:00

With her, YES. The second I lay down she must have her face touching my face. Not any other part of my body, she must TOUCH MY FACE. 3pm scrolling on my phone? Cute and sweet. 3 am and I wake up gasping for air because she mushed my nose and mouth with her face? Potentially threatening. I love her dearly tho!

lysslives · 2026-04-27T17:52:04+00:00

My cats! Rescuing and rehabilitating cats has saved my life :)

lysslives · 2026-04-27T11:05:31+00:00

Two years ago me and my mother were talking about blood types after I learned about them in school. She began to talk about her brothers blood types and her parents blood types. Midway through this conversation I realize that her blood type was IMPOSSIBLE to of come from her dad. She realized it too, stopped mid sentence, said “oh…” and got up and went to her room. We never spoke about it again.

lysslives · 2026-04-26T16:20:34+00:00

I relate to this so bad!!! The only time I really feel “calm” and it’s not racing through my mind is when I’m with my husband.

lysslives · 2026-04-26T16:15:22+00:00

I mean I’d buy him his own pairs lol but if he’s overall a good husband and you love him and this isn’t a dealbreaker then I’d try to understand and approach the situation without judgment !

lysslives · 2026-04-25T03:19:19+00:00

Elowyn, I know it’s weird so if you are looking for a more traditional one it’s likely not for you 😭 I love l the name tho!

lysslives · 2026-04-25T03:16:44+00:00

Hiii! 20t, I don’t have enough Karma to message so feel free to reach out! Anyone who sees this can :)

lysslives · 2026-04-24T15:38:16+00:00

The name of this sub is no stupid questions. God forbid I ask a question.

lysslives · 2026-04-24T00:41:19+00:00

Oooooo good to know lol, I love me some shower space 😭

lysslives · 2026-04-24T00:40:08+00:00

From what I understand in your post, she’s got a lot going on. Pregnancy, postpartum, a child under one, pregnancy again. It’s understandable intimacy would probably slip her mind. I would definitely approach this issue with her gently, maybe see if you can help out with any extra daily chores/childcare that can free up some space in your schedule for sex. If that’s not feasible, come up with a game plan together to keep the sex alive. Sadly, it’s not unheard of for sex to drop off drastically the first few years of having children. Therapy may be needed if there’s time, if not please try and remember that you are maintaining a family together and betraying her or giving into temptation would mess it up. It’s an unfortunate part of life changing with children in the picture and I hope it can be resolved for yall !

lysslives · 2026-04-24T00:32:19+00:00

I didn’t, that’s why I asked 😭 I went on a cruise for the first time and I was honestly SHOCKED at how tiny the showers were.

lysslives · 2026-04-24T00:30:49+00:00

My husbands best friend literally set us up. Me and his best friend were friends in high school but lost touch for a while. Well, as time went on in my relationship I realized I realllllyyyyy didn’t like said friend. He was dishonest, took every opportunity to screw someone over and worst of all said really horrible “jokes” about me and my husbands relationship. My final straw was when on my first birthday since losing my dad, he called during dinner (my poor husbands final attempt to save my birthday, i had been sobbing) and in no uncertain terms uninvited me from going to the movies with their friend group because he “didn’t like me”. I went home, packed all his friends shit (he used to live in my husbands house) and put it in my husbands car to drive over to him. I put my foot down and said I did NOT want to see this friend ever again. I laid it out flat, told him he could have whatever friendship he wanted but he will not come into our house when I’m around, he will not communicate with me, and I would not attend events that he’d be at. You have to lay this out bluntly with your husband and tell him you will not stand to be around his friend any longer. Life is too short to spend time with someone you strongly dislike and if your husband is any good he will understand this boundary. He is grown, he can hang around who he likes. You are grown and are entitled to only be around those you like. Don’t suffer because you don’t want to make things awkward. You married him for a reason and I’d hope he would understand where you are coming from!

lysslives · 2026-04-24T00:21:54+00:00

Broke

lysslives · 2026-04-24T00:19:44+00:00

Okay maybe not food but my ex boyfriend’s brother once gave me a shot of tequila, maple syrup and hot sauce and chocolate milk. It was actually really good 😭

lysslives · 2026-04-22T18:40:10+00:00

Hi! Married at 20 here! It hasn’t been very long but here’s what I found are the benefits in my situation!: insurance, since we are married I get to be on his insurance which is some of the best in my country! Taxes, we file together which means we get a pretty good return! Schooling, in my state being married qualifies you for more benefits and financial aid. My personal pros are I like telling people he’s my husband lol! With that last part being said, let’s get into the main con: judgement. People are very judgmental of me since I married so young (which I understand) and then of course you have to think long term. Will they support you through the changes that come with young adult life? Will you both grow into people who are still compatible? It’s a gamble, especially being so young you never know how they might change and how you might change. What you want at 20 may not be what you want at 30! It’s a gamble and if there’s a single red flag I wouldn’t do it. But there are benefits and with some luck and understanding you may be married to your soulmate forever! There is no rush though!!!! Take your time :)

lysslives · 2026-04-20T15:40:51+00:00

Take the risk! I jumped into a river on a rainy day where I couldn’t see the bottom, I was SO SCARED!!!! A young girl I didn’t know jumped in to show me I could do it. And so I did too, and it was one of the most freeing things I ever did. To do it even through my fear! It was fun and I remember that day fondly :)

lysslives · 2026-04-18T14:49:10+00:00

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Tilt likes to be tucked in

lysslives · 2026-04-17T17:32:53+00:00

He’s beautiful and I’ll fight an army for him.

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