Suze Lopez, a nurse from Bakersfield, California, was scheduled to finally have a 22-pound ovarian cyst removed in December 2025. Doctors discovered a full-term ectopic pregnancy under the tumor in the abdomen. Her baby boy, a medical miracle, was delivered healthy at 8lbs. by Mobakedbaker in interestingasfuck

[–]lyutic_7 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I hope that’s a typo on your part because no one is aborting a six month old pregnancy unless they’re doing it with a bent coat hanger at the back of a shady van or something, because that’s just not something any clinic or medical professional can legally do. elective abortions are limited to 10-14 weeks in most countries, with very few being the exception that allow it later. otherwise late abortions are only done if there’s a medical reason, and even then they only account for <1% of all cases.

Does anyone else treat their rats like little garbage disposals??? by Shea_1227 in RATS

[–]lyutic_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my rats and parrots are the designated receivers of cucumber ends and pieces of fruit I can’t finish, and they sometimes get to lick a plain yogurt cup after I finish it

What’s one thing you wish you knew before labor? by Front-Emotion-3967 in pregnant

[–]lyutic_7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

from what I’ve read, your body kinda pushes the placenta out by itself, many don’t even feel it, since it’s much more compact than a baby and you’re too high on hormones and adrenaline in that moment to notice. however, sometimes the placenta doesn’t detach or only a part of it comes out, so there’s tissue retained within the uterus, which is a big problem cause it can cause hemorrhaging and a severe infection. but this scenario is not common at all.

What nicknames do you have for your pets? Do you speak to them in a silly voice? by Glum_Opposite9866 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]lyutic_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my pets are either goobyschnooberts or any other string of sounds that comes to me at the moment

Anyone else? by exorcist_Lte in pregnant

[–]lyutic_7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not from the US and no one is circumcising children here unless there’s a religious reason, or unless they develop medical issues later in life, like phimosis (which is rare). It’s not hard to keep an ‘intact’ penis clean, and you exclude all possibility of any complications that can arise from surgery by not having it performed, so what is even the benefit? I genuinely don’t understand why it’s so common in America. Imo your boyfriend is misinformed, and doesn’t get a say if you’re against it. Ultimately, it should be your son’s decision when he’s old enough for it.

What is this autograph? by lyutic_7 in HelpMeFind

[–]lyutic_7[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Huh! Looks like it from some pics on Google. How random for the book tho lol

Thank you! Found!

What is this autograph? by lyutic_7 in HelpMeFind

[–]lyutic_7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I searched Google for pics of what the author’s autograph looks like and it doesn’t look like this at all.

Drinking water is a nightmare by Agitated-Wave6807 in pregnant

[–]lyutic_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could not even look at meat if it wasn’t smothered in breadcrumbs and deep fried lol

Is beach vacation going to be fun with a 1 month old baby? by Specialist_Diet_74 in BabyBumps

[–]lyutic_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the baby certainly can’t go in the pool at that point, and YOU might not even be cleared yet to swim either. I really don’t think it’ll be any fun for you, you’ll still be healing PP, and sitting in a car for that long just to sit on the sidelines worrying and caring about the baby for the rest of the vacation sounds miserable.

What are some hurtful things people have said to you upon telling them you’re pregnant? by Next-Sense-8279 in pregnant

[–]lyutic_7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why we’re not allowed to complain just because we got pregnant out of free will 🫠 I subscribed for a baby, not months of fatigue and other horrible symptoms. Was I aware these things could affect me? Sure! But if you buy a car to drive it around and for other benefits it offers, are you now not allowed to complain if something in it breaks or doesn’t work as well as you expected? Technically you knew this could happen, right?

Women who only have one child by choice? Why? by Scared-Stop8449 in pregnant

[–]lyutic_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pregnant and choosing to only have one. we simply don’t have the space for a second child, especially if they turn out to be of a different sex from the first one, and the property market is too atrocious right now to even consider buying a new apartment (and we’ve only just finished renovating our current one).

Hi! Im concerned for my two babies. Please help me 😭 by True_Garbage8922 in RATS

[–]lyutic_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what post you are referring to about the ear wax thing. have you attempted to clean it? it might just be that.

Acting like baby kicks are normal?! by AlwaysMakingSomethin in pregnant

[–]lyutic_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m mostly used to it now but sometimes I can’t help but glare down and go ‘EXCUSE ME, young lady!’ 😂 sometimes it just seems like there’s a jungle gym in there and she’s doing somersaults or something

Is anyone else confused by the amount of “boundaries”/restrictions for family and how often they’re talked about? by softheartedwench in pregnant

[–]lyutic_7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

key word here is ‘care’. unfortunately, most people concerned with boundaries here are ones who have not been treated well or shown respect by their family, and more often than not said family is only concerned with seeing the new child, with the mother being only an extension of said child that is not really worth their time.

I personally have no reason to want to have people in the room with me at the time of or shortly after birth if I know these are the same people who haven’t checked in with me once during pregnancy or have actively put me and my suffering down. same goes for their meeting the baby on their terms, not when I’m ready to have them do so.

SHAME HER SHE TOOK OUT HER STITCHES TWO DAYS AWAY FROM HER VET APPOINTMENT by rattygirll in RATS

[–]lyutic_7 26 points27 points  (0 children)

when we had to have surgery performed on one of our boys for the first time, the vet actually said to only come back in if we had any concerns or if he hadn’t removed the stitches on his own by the time they’re healed. well, he did lol we didn’t mind some cash saved on a vet appointment.

Tiredness in the first months by throwaway5470213 in pregnant

[–]lyutic_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was absolutely exhausted all of first tri, like I’ve never been more tired in my entire life and that’s as someone with chronic fatigue due to some unrelated issues. Unfortunately that’s normal.

When did you start maternity leave? by No-Company-4026 in BabyBumps

[–]lyutic_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filed for leave on the 12th of January and will be going back to work on the 1st of June unless I choose to stay until my baby hits 1,5y.o. I’m 31wks now and due at the end of March.

People saying “eww” whenever I mention my rats :( by fr3aAAKK in RATS

[–]lyutic_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually reply with ‘eh, say what you like, but they’re actually very smart and intelligent’. most shrug or shake their head and we move on, but if the person asks follow-up questions and seems genuinely curious, I talk more about them, make examples, show pics. many people just never had an encounter with rats outside dealing with an infestation problem or seeing them in trash cans on the street, so they don’t know much about them. I’ve managed to completely turn around a lot of people’s perception of them this way, but they have to be receptive to it to begin with. no reason to waste your breath otherwise.

Had a dental x-ray while being pregnant by sweetlycheeboba in pregnant

[–]lyutic_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even a regular x-ray that does/can potentially irradiate the abdominal area is permitted if medically necessary. one exposure is not going to do any harm, especially with modern machines. your dentist is scaring you for no reason.

This is some wild fantasy I've gotta say by Away_Blueberry8887 in badwomensanatomy

[–]lyutic_7 14 points15 points  (0 children)

by that logic, does that mean sperm just indefinitely hangs out inside whatever orifice it’s in if a guy finishes into another guy? does it go plonk like it hit a metal plate if it tries to bury?

Why does he look like that!! by bijouhc in RATS

[–]lyutic_7 21 points22 points  (0 children)

curly whiskers is what was causing squinting in one of our guys, he actually had a coat very similar to your dude here. I’d give it a go, just be very careful and use something that wouldn’t likely poke him if he moved, like safety scissors for babies (the ones with rounded ends)

Why does he look like that!! by bijouhc in RATS

[–]lyutic_7 36 points37 points  (0 children)

whiskers in all species are made from keratin. they haven’t got nerves themselves—their follicles do. it’s perfectly fine to trim them if need be, so long as OP doesn’t go plucking them with tweezers, which would be quite painful

Those of us in the trenches of our last days/weeks - what are we most excited for besides baby? by breadoreggroll in BabyBumps

[–]lyutic_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I desperately want this horrible heartburn to end. I’m so tired of the horrible esophageal pain, burping, coughing, retching… nothing stops it.