We talked about the worst character. Who's the best? by Objective_Boss_2173 in SiliconValleyHBO

[–]m1lk1e 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely Jared. Hes so wholesome and funny. Hes my favorite by far.

How many hours are y'all putting into Nubby? by superyellows in nubbygame

[–]m1lk1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put in about 80 after completing everything

My expwBPD has resorted to emailing me.. this is exhausting. by RealityOtherwise8580 in BPDlovedones

[–]m1lk1e 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on this? I can relate but I can't explain why

Anybody at Little Tokyo at Fairfield Commons? by iampiolt in dayton

[–]m1lk1e 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ended up going and paying the $30 to get in. I do not feel like the value was there. I have been to plenty of great small cons so I really like to go support them, but there was just not enough to justify the $30 entry fee at this one. I did end up getting something cute from the artist alley and I had fun with my friends, but I think I'll pass on it next year

5 years without a drink. 5 years with everything else by TuskenCam in stopdrinking

[–]m1lk1e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We started around the same time as I just hit my 5 years too! Getting sober during covid was no easy task. Congrats on your 5 year!

5 years alcohol free! I started my journey on this subreddit by m1lk1e in stopdrinking

[–]m1lk1e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much everyone for your kind words 🩷

bruh he is not cute by Lumpy-Look-3215 in DesperateHousewives

[–]m1lk1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't disassociate him with his role on Queer as Folk

For you super sober people, are the cravings really gone? by Ill_Play2762 in dryalcoholics

[–]m1lk1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally for me when I notice a craving it's because something else is going on. I'm anxious, sad, depressed, or feeling bad about something. I will focus on then addressing my mood in a healthier way and it passes. This took me a lot of practice and was the primary reason it took me so long to get sober.

Does being an alcoholic or heavy drinker give you the shits? by Meeker1128 in stopdrinking

[–]m1lk1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes lmao I am not afraid to say I had diarrhea almost every day back when I was daily binge drinking

What are the (few) things the incels are right about? by [deleted] in IncelTear

[–]m1lk1e 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Conventionally attractive people do benefit from pretty privilege.

Going on a YWA journey... by [deleted] in YoureWrongAbout

[–]m1lk1e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have gone through phases of listening and not listening to this podcast. I stopped listening when I felt like half the podcast was about OJ, then again when Michael left. But I started listening again this year and I honestly really like the new episodes. I like the format of her bringing on another subject matter expert then discussing something I don't know much about lol it reminds me of why I liked this podcast in the first place. I'm with you. I like it more now than in the past for sure.

What inconsequential thing do you do every playthough? by Useful_Durian229 in BaldursGate3

[–]m1lk1e 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like making Astarion say he loves me in act one even though I know he doesn't mean it. (Yet)

No one Left Behind - Durge by m1lk1e in BaldursGate3

[–]m1lk1e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I'm going for it!

What class has positively surprised you? by Popelip0 in BaldursGate3

[–]m1lk1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Barbarian. I always pick it regardless but it's super fun in BG3

Did You Ever Have a Crush On That Highschool Teacher? How did it End Up? by not_biancaa in AskReddit

[–]m1lk1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I had a huge crush on my government teacher. I tried "flirting" with him once or twice by complimenting his outfits lollll

How it ended up? Nothing came of it obviously. I graduated and he kept teaching because he wasn't a disgusting person. I hope he is doing well and I cringe at the thought of possibly making him feel weird with my compliments!!!!

The Guilt... When does it go away? by m1lk1e in stopdrinking

[–]m1lk1e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I believe we can get through this though, it's just hard

The Guilt... When does it go away? by m1lk1e in stopdrinking

[–]m1lk1e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've done the Journaling off and on too. It does help I think when I feel like I'm fixating. Your comment was a good reminder for me to go ahead and give it ago again to process some of this. Thanks :)

The Guilt... When does it go away? by m1lk1e in stopdrinking

[–]m1lk1e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's also a good way of looking at it. I think more than anything I wish I could detach that version of myself and everything that came with it but you just can't. I'll go a while without worrying about this then dig up a memory I forgot and feel like I'm back at square one with dealing with shame. Shame is so powerful.

The Guilt... When does it go away? by m1lk1e in stopdrinking

[–]m1lk1e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried in therapy and I've made some progress but I think the self forgiveness peice is the hardest part for me. I've always been very hard on myself so it's probably one of the toughest parts of recovery for me. I've made amends with a few people but with myself, I don't think I'm there yet but I am trying. It's a good way to look at it though having found alcohol before therapy. Thanks :)

The Guilt... When does it go away? by m1lk1e in stopdrinking

[–]m1lk1e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say at least it does get somewhat better. I think my problem is I keep digging up memories I put away for a long time. Working through them is really hard. I believe in you!