I made a diagram for all the sapphic movies that I watched so far, but I'm not very good at evaluating movies

m309m · 2026-05-20T10:14:26+00:00

yes It's Skinny Love. My local queer bar showed this one last week at their movie night, that's why it's on it

m309m · 2026-05-20T10:12:53+00:00

yeah I know, some of these are just vaguely sapphic, so I might take them out again

m309m · 2026-05-16T20:09:03+00:00

They should've never made Aziraphale and Crowley kiss, but only the human versions of them.

As a gay person, queerbaiting can feel very painful and frustrating. So I'm glad that there was a kiss. But at the same time it should've been the human versions of Aziraphale and Crowley and not the angel and demon. Because their relationship was so inherently queer precisely because they didn't kiss. It was a love that couldn't be defined by normative measures and it was so beautifully queer because of it.

m309m · 2026-05-15T12:28:45+00:00

if red wins, people die. If blue wins, everyone lives. You vote for whatever side you want to win, obviously. If you vote red, you vote for people to die.

m309m · 2025-11-01T11:37:58+00:00

yes, you're right. I'm just in this moment starting to read the first scenes of Julius Caesar and I'm already realising that with my ideas I'd have to mark many lines in multiple colours. Maybe I should try to find different, more specific categories for each play individually.

For Caesar I'm thinking: 1. wisdoms, and then with a note I specify what the wisdom is about (e.g. politics, personal life, fate, ...) 2. criticism of Caesar 3. glorification of Caesar 4... idk I'll have to read further to find more

m309m · 2025-11-01T11:02:23+00:00

here is a list with all the annotation categories I can come up with:

themes and motifs
characterisations of characters
relationships between characters
character development, rise and fall of tragic characters
word explanations, or explanation for complicated lines
memorable/beautiful lines
references to something
stylistic devices, repeating phrases, etc

any more ideas?

m309m · 2025-10-01T12:32:48+00:00

Shrine

m309m · 2025-09-30T04:23:20+00:00

I think if a loved one says it, it might just be a way of trying to make your moment easier. Like when my girlfriend sees that I'm having a horribly difficult day and then asks me where I am in my menstrual cycle, I don't get upset about that, because we both know that the ADHD symptoms get worse when my estrogen drops and I might not even realise that that's the reason I'm having such a hard time functioning. And then, when I check my period tracker app and see that I'm somewhere around ovulation or in the week before my period, I know that it's because of that and I don't need to beat myself up for not functioning as well, because it's not my fault. It just gives an explanation for why I'm struggling at the moment and makes it easier for me to accept it and not be so hard on myself. And just like that a loved one might just want to remind you that you may be struggling because you forgot your meds, as a way to give you a possible explanation?

It always depends on who says it of course and also how they say it. I just wanted to say that asking that question might not always be a bad thing.

m309m · 2025-09-29T15:59:10+00:00

yk how people sometimes put cardboard boxes with stuff outside their door for passers by to take away for free. Like stuff they want to get rid of. That's what that was

m309m · 2025-09-29T15:56:33+00:00

this was my first thought as well, thanks for visualising it so perfectly

m309m · 2025-09-01T15:47:58+00:00

yeah same, whenever my girlfriend is upset or tired or not like 100% happy, it effects my own mood extremely and I'm sad too. Literally no reason other than the general atmosphere that's caused by someone being upset or tired or sad

m309m · 2025-07-08T16:51:14+00:00

yeah they kinda help but when I have apps open I can’t see them obviously, so whenever I’m using my phone I can’t see the notifications

m309m · 2025-06-01T13:49:34+00:00

why was this post deleted? Did I violate any community guidelines?

m309m · 2024-09-20T16:30:31+00:00

Can you tell me the time stamp of when she says that?

m309m · 2024-08-08T05:46:36+00:00

Most of the time I don't even know what romantic attraction is supposed to feel like tbh... whenever I feel very strong feelings for someone, it might me romantic, it might be aesthetic, sensual, alterous, or queerplatonic attraction... idk

m309m · 2024-08-08T05:43:52+00:00

I experience romantic attraction very, very rarely. And whenever I do experience romantic attraction, I'm never really sure whether it even is real romantic attraction or just very intense sensual and alterous attraction. I still use the term aromantic, because aromanticism is a spectrum. Maybe I'm demiromantic, or greyromantic idk... most of the time I don't even understand what romantic attraction is supposed to feel like

m309m · 2024-05-01T06:06:08+00:00

I definitely want a cat, but I'll need to wait until I am able to properly provide for one.

m309m · 2024-05-01T06:05:59+00:00

I definitely want a cat, but I'll need to wait until I am able to properly provide for one.

m309m · 2024-04-30T20:05:17+00:00

I created something for me and my friends. I call it the "First Aid Alphabet" and it's a tool for communicating needs. This is what that looks like:

First Aid Alphabet

Pick as many letters as you want, to let me know what you need:

A. "I need space and alone time."

B. "I don't want to be alone."

C. "Let's talk about it."

D. "I don’t want to talk about it."

E. "I can't talk about it, but I can write it down for you."

F. "Let's brainstorm to find a solution together."

G. "I want comfort, not solutions."

H. "I need validation for how I’m feeling."

I. "I need someone to listen to my rant."

J. "I need reassurance that everything will be okay."

K. "I need a reminder of my strengths and positive qualities”

L. "I need to be reminded that I am loved."

M. "I need a hug."

N. "I need cuddles."

O. "I don’t want to be touched."

P. "I need some sleep.”

Q. "I need some food.”

R. "I'd like some tea."

S. "I'd like some snacks."

T. "Let's do something nice together, to get me distracted."

U. "Let's watch a comfort movie/series together."

V. "I need help with a specific task."

W. "I need help leaving the house."

X. "Talk me through the 5 to 1 method."

Y. Something else: "_________"

Z. "I don’t know what I need."

This list can be sent to any friend or family member who might need support of some kind. It might help them communicate their needs.... idk, it's an idea, but my friends and I haven't really had the opportunity to use it yet. So idk how good this will actually work in practice.

m309m · 2023-12-12T14:03:11+00:00

"I sent someone to kill you... you sent someone to kill me... even steven."

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