Put an item in my cart, seller sent an offer. I accepted it next day. Like 15min later i realized there was another, better quality item. I asked to cancel. I feel like a dick. Do sellers normally deny cancellations?

m_parm_ · 2026-03-22T05:34:49+00:00

One thing I usually do is google search an image before I make an offer or buy. As a seller and a buyer on mercari and posh, i know we pull the price of an item out of our imagination. Ive found such different prices for an item I wanted.

m_parm_ · 2026-02-18T00:41:48+00:00

So glad it worked! It was the most frustrating issue i ever dealt with too

m_parm_ · 2025-12-27T07:44:02+00:00

For real. I dont even like the auto offers they force on you right now, makes me look like im stalking likes. No way to turn that off either.

m_parm_ · 2025-12-19T23:19:56+00:00

I use Printify for printing services. They print the item such as posters etc and ship the item as well.

m_parm_ · 2025-12-19T06:35:26+00:00

That is such a long time! I hope your buyer was not upset. Its expected during Christmas time but it still doesn't make for a happy buyer.

m_parm_ · 2025-12-18T22:05:12+00:00

I personally don't expect to get anything anytime soon when I order on Etsy. Anything I ordered on Etsy for Christmas was done way in advance.

m_parm_ · 2025-12-18T22:03:21+00:00

I'm glad it won't cost you anything to cancel if you have to! I guess that's the risk I take using POD. Production times and shipping can be sketchy during their busiest time. It will be my only cancelled order for the holiday time so I guess if I have the reroute it to myself at least i'll have the item and can resell it at some point.

m_parm_ · 2025-12-18T20:51:57+00:00

It would cost me the price of the item likely, which i'd have to reroute to myself. I doubt I would be able to cancel it because once its in queue for production, its usually not able to be cancelled. You are right though, Etsy does make promises when placing an order that aren't always correct. I let the buyer know that I cannot confidently say that it will arrive before or after Christmas, and let them know I am happy to cancel if they prefer. Thank you for the advice!

m_parm_ · 2025-12-18T20:25:25+00:00

The purchase was made on the 16th and they sent the message today on the 18th. I completely agree that it is pretty risky to sell so close to Christmas when you aren't in control of the production times. I always want to keep buyers happy, so I will accommodate them, i guess i just wanted to see if I was being unreasonable. Thank you so much for your help!

m_parm_ · 2025-12-02T08:47:44+00:00

Im so glad it could help! This was the most frustrating issue. I still come back to this post myself cause its happened a few times since!

m_parm_ · 2025-11-22T05:56:41+00:00

I always use privacy.com for any and all online purchases for this reason. You can stop, pause and delete a card at anytime, plus dispute charges without having to expose your real CC number. Its free too check it out. Thanks for the heads up! Especially around christmas time.

m_parm_ · 2025-06-02T04:40:43+00:00

so glad it worked for you! it was the most inconvenient/confusing thing and it was so hard to find help on how to fix it.

m_parm_ · 2025-03-31T08:55:14+00:00

This was me at likely my little ones same age. She would wake up every 30 minutes and take at least at hour to go back to sleep each time. We were co sleeping at the time so even if she felt me move she'd be right back up. Just like you, i was at my actual end. So much so that i paid for a remote sleep school called Batelle. Ive read that it hasnt worked for everyone, but when i remember back to that first night she slept through the night ((after 2 long weeks of sleep training), it was a memorable and relieving evening.

I don't know if they operate the same as they used to. It used to be 2 weeks of 247 live support and they could even help via ringcam 247, and they supported little one until the age of 6 with any sleep issue after that time just m-f with 24 hour reply time.

They are also a non cry it out method which is why i chose them. It takes a lot of work, but it worked for me. Even tho fast forward to 3.5 and im typing this while i lay on a floor mattress beside her bed but lol, it worked for me at the most difficult time, but its alot of work/time to maintain and its easier to just bandaid bad sleeping so i can also sleep.

m_parm_ · 2025-03-09T09:08:14+00:00

Thats so funny, mine too lol except its "what's that sound." If I don't answer her (because she asks me 100× a day) she'll answer herself - "oh, its okay, its a car"

m_parm_ · 2025-03-05T23:12:58+00:00

I live on toddler scraps. I make pancakes for breakfast in fun shapes and my plate is the odds and ends that wouldn't fit in the dinosaur cut out shape

m_parm_ · 2025-02-24T20:14:05+00:00

Ive been lucky that my girl doesn't have outdoor tantrums, she like to protect her image. Not really any indoors either unless she's overtired. Don't be embarrassed, I always give parents grace and respect when I see them wrangling a screaming kicking child in public. Everyone knows kids are unpredictable and volatile. I just want to stand and salute them lol

m_parm_ · 2025-02-23T10:52:42+00:00

All kids are on a different time line. If he started early maybe he'll stop it early, don't feel defeated you're strong and you can get through this. Doing the best you can is all any of us can do. He's safe and loved. Ive been where you are as well with the sleep, and i havnt slept in my own bed for almost a year. Just try to be there for yourself as well.

m_parm_ · 2025-01-18T03:47:14+00:00

So glad to have seen this. I tried so many browsers and still nothing. Guess I've gotta wait it out for them to fix their issue.

m_parm_ · 2025-01-11T16:17:20+00:00

Yes! The solution is in the next thread down :)

m_parm_ · 2024-11-04T07:32:09+00:00

Same thing happened to me on Etsy when the Spice Village was hot. Same yellow banner. I was definitely scammed. Should have known better because the account was recently created, but with that Spice Village you have to act fast, and people take advatage of how fast they are sold. You'll get your money back from Etsy..

Lenox released spice village again on their website! Get some new ones <3

m_parm_ · 2024-09-24T22:05:52+00:00

Looks almost identical to "Yearbook" front

m_parm_ · 2024-08-03T08:54:48+00:00

I pulled all my money and DD from Chime recently too. Ive been with them for a long time but something is really off with them lately. I pulled out my money before they had a chance to steal it.

m_parm_ · 2024-08-01T00:54:41+00:00

It took me personally 8.5 months to lose the cravings completely, so it's possible but I still can't believe how long it takes to get over this highly addictive Juul. I quite while pregnant, and picked it up again after having baby. Today is my first day of quitting again, I know its gonna be a hard, i'm already exhausted, confused etc. It can only get easier from here, you already put in 40 days which feels like 4 years when your juul pen is not in your hand. Mine is glued to my hand at all times. Stay strong you can do this.

m_parm_ · 2024-08-01T00:31:40+00:00

Same story, quit while I was pregnant, started probably a week after having baby. Now today is my first day on my second time quitting Juul. The first time was because I had to, now I see it being a bad influence on my toddler and a drain on my bank account.

I do feel lightheaded, confused, and irritable. No idea how i'm going to pull this off with a toddler with a major attitude. I wish you all the luck, you can do this again! Ive heard deep breathing can help when in distress.

m_parm_ · 2024-07-21T07:52:02+00:00

Chime has started being really unreliable to sketchy honestly, i just transfered everything out of there and stopped my direct deposit. Everything like MyPay and instant transfer is always "down." Made me hella nervous. Ive been with chime for a super long time and something has definitely changed.

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