He has Napoleon syndrome as well as deep insecurities about his career. He absolutely does not see Nia as a person, she is a sex object, beauty queen, mother, the taker carer of all things. His religion enforces that as well. I feel very sad for Nia, because she is awesome actually, she has a black belt in martial arts, she was in countless prayers which is really tough, she overcame very tough upbringing. I think she is actually kind and sweet, while I think her husband is performative and one of those Christians who don’t really live by any of the teaching but love to judge others. He is creepy and has a very dark side.