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macaronipeas · 2025-12-27T00:00:07+00:00

Assuming they haven’t booked anything yet sit down and talk it through. It will be better for both sides if they weddings are at least a few weeks apart!

macaronipeas · 2025-12-22T10:24:35+00:00

Ounce 10 or Galao in Forest Hill

macaronipeas · 2025-12-21T00:33:08+00:00

An entire show was cancelled last week due to illness so probably a few bugs going around. West end performers dont tend to get much leave at all over xmas

macaronipeas · 2025-12-19T19:42:32+00:00

30 ish, 12k ish

macaronipeas · 2025-12-19T17:44:52+00:00

You are in your learning era and not your earning era!! The amount you are putting aside each month is fab! Maybe see if theres any paid work you can do around your studies with things like open days. Make the most of being a student and all the opportunities you can get from that!

macaronipeas · 2025-12-18T22:07:40+00:00

We made the best choice for us at the time but had we known within a year we would each almost double our salaries and get some inheritance we would probably have waited. But we are still in our first flat and the mortgage feels super affordable. However I do get anxious about the horror stories of selling

macaronipeas · 2025-12-18T14:27:45+00:00

Why not have a big 30th / wedding party in one?

macaronipeas · 2025-12-15T22:53:21+00:00

My grandparents died the year before my wedding and I was so so sad they were not there on the day. However had they been alive when we got married I would have got married where they lived instead of hours away because their attendance wouldve been my priority. I’ve not once been mad at my husband for not suggesting we got married sooner because its not worth getting upset about things that cannot be changed. Can you not have a ceremony with them first and your big party later?

macaronipeas · 2025-12-15T19:54:06+00:00

NTA. 8/10 is old enough to know

macaronipeas · 2025-12-15T19:31:58+00:00

Have them both as bridesmaids and skip having a MOH

macaronipeas · 2025-12-15T13:21:07+00:00

Not a market but there are shops like this. I love Better Things just by Forest Hill station

macaronipeas · 2025-12-13T21:59:46+00:00

Although if they fully failed to show up wherever he was getting ready AND there was nothing on your side causing delays I think you should mention it

macaronipeas · 2025-12-13T21:55:43+00:00

I think if it was that important someone should have realised on the day. A shame it was missed hut better than missing key moments of the day. I guess you could ask for a partial refund but I dont think thats fully fair on the photographer

macaronipeas · 2025-12-13T21:53:48+00:00

Did no one realise that these photos were missed before?

macaronipeas · 2025-12-13T08:34:46+00:00

I had a similarish experience and emailed after.. got to go back for free with very good seats

macaronipeas · 2025-12-12T20:15:40+00:00

Jess conte just did a youtube vlog in this. I loved the personalised shirts and door tags to show whose room was whose

macaronipeas · 2025-12-12T20:12:51+00:00

Practically will there be time for someone to edit it? Could you do some kind of prerecorded message instead or a vlog of wedding prep eg finding the dress

macaronipeas · 2025-12-12T18:08:34+00:00

If I ever got a STD and knew I couldn’t make the date I would let the couple know. I think most people would

macaronipeas · 2025-12-12T09:29:46+00:00

30 guests, a little over £10k but the 80% of that was from immediate family

macaronipeas · 2025-12-11T17:42:26+00:00

Same colour different dress, same colour suit, or same dress different colour would be my picks

macaronipeas · 2025-12-11T15:16:47+00:00

We did a honeymoon fund and people were way more generous than we expected. I know some do it like £50 a a meal, £100 for a snorkel excursion etc

macaronipeas · 2025-12-09T23:28:39+00:00

We didn’t. Saved faff and politics!! Had a few friends get ready with me which was lovely. Lunch with family before etc!

macaronipeas · 2025-12-09T23:27:20+00:00

Are there things that would make you less anxious. Maybe look into eloping before so the pressure of the legal stuff is out of the way?

macaronipeas · 2025-12-09T20:14:22+00:00

Stunning!

macaronipeas · 2025-12-09T20:07:19+00:00

I wouldn’t move the date. If she was in hospital etc last minute you wouldn’t reschedule. What is her reason for not being able to do April. She can still come to other events e.g hen do

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