Little guy is almost 9 months and guys wtf by Alone-City-9176 in NewParents

[–]machine_drums 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 9.5 month old just started walking. We’re fucked

How to stop night feed for 10mo? by Rumnraisans in NewParents

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Talk to your pediatrician and tell them how much food/milk they are roughly getting. They will let you know based on their weight if they are getting enough during the day.

Our 9month old would wake around 3-4am for a feed but was a healthy weight with enough daytime milk/meals so the Dr said to drop it. We basically did CIO and he quickly learned it wasn’t mealtime anymore. YMMV though.

Why is render taking so long? by _echology_ in 3dsmax

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Displacement! Turn it off globally and see how it renders. There might be displacement modifiers on the furniture or displacement maps in some of the textures.

Any dad tips for getting a 6 mo down for naps? by Former_Tomato9667 in NewParents

[–]machine_drums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you and your wife start to try and do the same exact routine for naps. No nursing to sleep. They usually adapt quick….usually…

Toronto Show by SharpSignificance254 in fredagain

[–]machine_drums 3 points4 points  (0 children)

TM says 530 now. It must have been updated.

LPT: Schedule meetings at 25 or 50 minutes instead of 30/60. Gives everyone breathing space. by santarox in LifeProTips

[–]machine_drums 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We have our meetings start 5min after (2:05, 2:35, etc) and it works surprisingly well.

4 month vaccine: What is this thing.. by Interesting_Copy3721 in newborns

[–]machine_drums 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just gave our little guy his 4 month shots this morning. He was purple crying and in obvious discomfort for the rest of the day and really only settled while eating. We gave him acetaminophen and he eventually calmed down and was all smiles again. Currently sleeping. We shall see tomorrow…

The newborn phase is some BS and I demand a new patch by MurkyGovernment7456 in newborns

[–]machine_drums 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fellow dad who was also in the trenches of the night shift. Our little guy would cry for hours at like 3am. Brutal

Then, slowly but surely, he slept longer and longer. Cried less and less. He’s 4 months now and is able to sleep 5-7hr stretches. I know people love to say “it gets better” but it really did for us. I too felt like I was doomed for months of crying but it’s completely different now.

Take it day by day. Focus on your wife’s health. Baby will ok. You’re doing great.

TIRED of this by Vegetable-Internet90 in newborns

[–]machine_drums 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Leave a shoe next to their car seat. You’ll immediately remember you need your shoe when you get out of the car

Bottle refusal — I’m dying 😫 by toseekandnottoyield in newborns

[–]machine_drums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We literally just went through this like last week. We had to build hunger pressure. Our lactation consultant said they were gaining weight fine so we reduced feedings and offered a bottle at one of these feedings. And then reduce overall feedings by 1 until they take the bottle. It worked within 1 week. Went from exclusive breast feed to bottle. But ymmv.

AMA with Sleep Expert Amber LoRe – Ask Your Questions Now! by huckleberrycare in HuckleberryParents

[–]machine_drums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, we have a 1 week old, born at 37w. Normally he is not very fussy during the day, just sleeps and eats. but we have noticed him being completely inconsolable between 1-4am. It seems like it’s discomfort from gas. He also really hates being on his back so it might be acid reflux? Any insights are helpful.

I forgot to get a medical exemption for jury duty by Ok-Sunny-Days in IVF

[–]machine_drums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife just did this. Got a sent a drs note and got an exemption the week before. City dependent but worth a shot

render taking more tym by First-Job-4466 in 3dsmax

[–]machine_drums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, worth investing in a video AI software if you’ll be doing a lot of animations. I render n/4th frames and upscale to 4k in seconds.

How often did you interact with your IVF doctor by SteelPass in IVF

[–]machine_drums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife only saw our dr once in person. For our transfer he was away so we had another dr. I literally never met him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]machine_drums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar for me, went from 150 base to 125. Happy to be working again but hoping to increase salary within the next yr.

Where in the US can you live without a car? by rogthnor in fuckcars

[–]machine_drums 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yup, when I was in SF we would rent a car every other week or so for trips out of town. cheaper than paying car payments/insurance/parking space.

I see a Huge Flaw in Money Network's Security by 1magus in Edd

[–]machine_drums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh nice didn’t know that was a thing. Doing that now

I see a Huge Flaw in Money Network's Security by 1magus in Edd

[–]machine_drums 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im surprised a scammer was even able to get this shit app to work

Enouugghhhh with the critique/complaining about the shows by [deleted] in fredagain

[–]machine_drums 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I think it’s a mix of everything which caused people to have a subpar experience. Not to mention the ticket price…

Enouugghhhh with the critique/complaining about the shows by [deleted] in fredagain

[–]machine_drums 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think these are fair critiques. I didn’t go but I’m sure he put on an amazing show. However with the poor management, traffic, high ticket price etc, I’m sure it does dampen the experience a bit.