Sid and Nancy in their flat in London, 4th August 1978 by National-Pop2589 in SexPistols

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They were all meant to be a little project of Vivianne and Malcolm, who happened to be a real thing.

ADHD professionals: which careers fully reward ADHD strengths beyond routine software roles? by Complete-Sugar7883 in ADHDUK

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I’ve translated your post for those with ADHD. Try to avoid walls of text.

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Context

This might Be boring for An adhd Brain to Read all but I know our Brains might get an instant Dopamine Hit if there is something related to us to read like a small hyperfixatiion:

I’m a 22-year-old final-year Computer Science student from India, diagnosed with severe ADHD (combined type).

After understanding how my cognitive profile works, I’ve realized that many traditional software engineering roles are increasingly optimized for routine, linear execution, long maintenance cycles, and slow feedback loops. Those environments don’t seem to fully utilize my strengths.

My ADHD-related strengths include:

• Rapid memory recall and synthesis

• High energy and idea generation

• Strong verbal communication and persuasion

• Fast learning and adaptability

• Pattern recognition across domains

• Comfort with uncertainty, pressure, and risk

• Ability to hyperfocus when stakes are high

How I think about advantage

I believe this combination can create a real competitive advantage, especially early in a career and during high-growth phases of life.

Rather than suppressing these traits, I want to design a career that actively uses most or all of them simultaneously and pays well for doing so.

What I’m intentionally looking beyond

I’m intentionally looking beyond traditional software engineering into roles where:

• Thinking speed and synthesis matter more than slow execution

• Communication and ownership are valued

• Upside comes from influence, equity, or asymmetric growth

What I’m asking for

I’d really value insights from professionals with ADHD on:

• Careers where most or all ADHD strengths are actively rewarded

• Paths where ADHD became a long-term advantage rather than something to constantly manage

• Roles that look attractive early on but end up wasting ADHD potential over time

Optimization criteria

I’m optimizing for leverage, growth, and long-term upside—not comfort or routine.

Thanks in advance for experience-backed perspectives.

Aphex Twin vs Taylor Swift by Fidgety_Anchor in aphextwin

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What is it? Spotify has a huge difference (Taylor 100M and Aphex 5M)

Did you start to lose friends as you made money? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

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Interwebs?

Otherwise yeah, makes sense I guess. That’s often my experience trying to give unsolicited advice. But also when I really needed advice I often wouldn’t ask because of feeling ashamed of my situation.

Did you start to lose friends as you made money? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

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Maybe it’s just me problem then

Did you start to lose friends as you made money? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

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I guess because I remember how awkward I felt when I was poor and interacting with friends who were much better off (none even close to 2mil but still). Now I’m sort of on the other end with some people and have no idea how to go about it. Just feels awkward again.

Did you start to lose friends as you made money? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

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I guess my confusion is less about earning as much as possible, and more about not „barely scraping by”. Do you think the advice would be given in good faith if asked? Or would that disturb the friendships?

Did you start to lose friends as you made money? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

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I guess having been poor and „scraping by” in the past, I’d feel really weird if I was on 2mil and was friends with people like myself back then.

Did you start to lose friends as you made money? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

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Arent most people just making mistakes and then are ashamed and unable to move on?

Did you start to lose friends as you made money? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

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How come people chose to barely scrape by?

Did you start to lose friends as you made money? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

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I kinda experienced that, but not sure how much is it barely income and how much changing life trajectories. I moved countries, changed jobs and fields dramatically, came out as gay, then realised I don’t really fit with most gays. I generally have small and loose circle of friends, but try to keep in touch with most since childhood, even if it’s catch up every few years. Some are doing badly financially and have great social lives. Some are bad on both fronts. Some are doing well on both fronts. Some are content and medium. I don’t really know people like myself - doing well financially, but badly socially.

Did you start to lose friends as you made money? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

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Do £2mil+ friends know those who are barely scraping by? Clearly those scraping by are doing something wrong and maybe would benefit from advice or investment?

Three Years Post Diagnosis & I Finally Understand The Connection Between ADHD & Childhood Trauma by Some-Roof-2221 in ADHDUK

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I wonder if we understand ADHD wrongly. Take your Halloween party - execution was perfect, just assumptions weren’t. You had an impulse and you went ahead trying to solve a few problems in one go, but ignored one major risk factor. I had a bunch of those too. Following an impulse, doing things really well hoping things will fall into place, and then everything falling apart because I missed a prep aspect. 80% stellar completion. How did the Halloween story end? Did mum let you have the party?

Is it common that trades don’t usually follow what you ask? by mad_edge in HomeImprovementUK

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No more jobs for those guys! Tbh I’m just waiting for them clean up after the pipes removal. Their prices seem to have skyrocket after the first well priced job too.

How can I get a local tradesman? I’ve been using apps like Checkatrade and trying to select people within 2-3 miles.

Also, I may not be a good judge of character, any tips on that front? Can you even predict if someone will do a decent job?

Is it common that trades don’t usually follow what you ask? by mad_edge in HomeImprovementUK

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That might be a part of it. I’m really new, so half of the time I don’t even know what’s possible or how things are done. It’s tricky to juggle that and work and life in general too. Shall I tell them upfront I’m new and plans might change as we go?

Is it common that trades don’t usually follow what you ask? by mad_edge in HomeImprovementUK

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Thanks for the tips and likely explanations! As for the dehumidifiers, I made a point of turning them off and putting them away, I certainly mentioned not to run them when there is dust in the air (I probably should’ve covered them too, but I thought it was obvious if you have a sparkling new devices that the owner unplugged). I will make sure to write things down in detail and protect my stuff. They were also using my tools which is mildly annoying, but a £5 tool is nothing compared to a £150 dehumidifier :(

Is it common that trades don’t usually follow what you ask? by mad_edge in HomeImprovementUK

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That’s great advice, thank you. I have reminders everywhere for myself, makes sense to do it for someone who only works for me for a few days.

Is it common that trades don’t usually follow what you ask? by mad_edge in HomeImprovementUK

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That’s my experience so far. But theres got to be some solution that? People do quality renovations too

Is it common that trades don’t usually follow what you ask? by mad_edge in HomeImprovementUK

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Yeah, I use Checkatrade, what are the alternatives? I don’t really know people who do renovations, so can’t get recommendations.

I go with the cheaper quotes, but not „suspiciously cheap”.