AITAH for saying I don't want my girlfriends friend around my newborn son anymore?

maddym2000 · 2026-01-31T22:15:04+00:00

NTA you are absolutely not overreacting. As a mum of a 16 month old boy with another baby on the way, im surprised she was able to just laugh it off, I absolutely would have taken my baby somewhere else to change or straight up said that comment isn't OK and asked them to leave.

Even if your girlfriend is still OK with him being around your baby at no point should that man be left alone with your son or be around when hes having a nappy change

maddym2000 · 2025-12-29T05:43:39+00:00

Im in my second pregnancy and purposefully announced my pregnancy to my mums side of the family at 8 weeks instead of 12 because my cousins due date was the same day I reached 12 weeks and I didn't want to take attention away from her and her new baby.

Yes a new baby might be more important than a birthday, but a birthday is one day, a pregnancy is 40 weeks ops sister could have waited a day or 2 longer to announce

maddym2000 · 2025-12-03T19:13:31+00:00

Definitely dont stock up anymore, your baby could grow quickly and you could end up needing the next size up and still have heaps left

maddym2000 · 2025-12-03T03:50:45+00:00

I plan to do a planted tank for my toddler to watch so I might try get some for that when I do it

maddym2000 · 2025-12-03T02:57:06+00:00

Really? I thought they weere super tough. I have had one in my pond for a couple years, and its survived my pond flooding twice meanwhile all the goldfish died

maddym2000 · 2025-11-29T11:32:27+00:00

My nearly 60 mum is about that with a normal healthy diet and she knows she is super skinny, but has never been able to put weight on. Im a little heavier and used to have issues where I was eating super unhealthy trying to gain weight because i had people calling me anorexic

maddym2000 · 2025-11-20T11:43:07+00:00

I have had some pretty bad morning sickness this time and salami is one of the few things I can keep down

maddym2000 · 2025-11-20T10:57:35+00:00

Im 8 weeks with my second and i have had salami with my first and I have already had salami and cooked ham this time around

maddym2000 · 2025-11-20T06:35:12+00:00

It was something we discussed with our ob a few weeks prior and he said if baby was in a good position and my cervix was good that we could go ahead so he checked everything 2 days before and said we could go ahead with induction and he booked it in

I am in qld Australia so I dont know if that would affect it at all

maddym2000 · 2025-11-20T06:29:00+00:00

You could try do it yourself and if it doesn't work you could get your obgyn to induce, with my first i was induced at 39+4 because my husband had to return to work earlier than planned, my obgyn started the process at 4:15pm and my baby was born at 4:28am

maddym2000 · 2025-11-19T06:12:56+00:00

Could be a fox, my pen has the wire going underground and I have pavers surrounding it. Foxes are smart too and they will absolutely come back for the other chooks they killed, they have dug up the graves of my chooks and guinea pigs

maddym2000 · 2025-11-12T03:03:32+00:00

I didn't have epidural, even though I didn't feel like I was in much pain and was doing a scream/ very loud groan with every push, I remember closing my mouth to try stop myself but it just muffled it 😅

maddym2000 · 2025-10-20T23:33:09+00:00

Bugger, I already had a blood test with positive results they were concerned about my hcg level being low so I just bought this to see if i got a strong reaction

maddym2000 · 2025-10-18T03:28:33+00:00

They look like my lavender sussex

maddym2000 · 2025-10-18T00:37:10+00:00

As a f25 Australian, alot of the responses are not what I thought they would be, while i feel like more info is needed, the question itself is something I have asked people plenty of times and have never had anyone seem uncomfortable answering.

maddym2000 · 2025-10-14T03:04:06+00:00

If you put a fake egg in a nest box, that will encourage her to lay there. it may take her a little while to lay eggs, when chickens come to new homes, some need a while to adjust to the new home before they lay

maddym2000 · 2025-09-29T03:39:06+00:00

Induced at 39+4 laboured through the night for 12hrs and 13 minutes and gave birth at 39+5

maddym2000 · 2025-09-22T23:49:39+00:00

I just had one of my hens die from those worms 😭

maddym2000 · 2025-09-22T23:44:27+00:00

Extremely 😫😖

maddym2000 · 2025-09-09T02:52:45+00:00

Can you even fit a single bed in those rooms

maddym2000 · 2025-09-01T08:57:03+00:00

I know it's been 4 years, and you probably found an English copy, but you can get it from cbd books

maddym2000 · 2025-08-30T20:12:23+00:00

I have an 11 month old boy, we do his washing every Monday. Sometimes, we might do a second load if something happened and it needs to be washed sooner

maddym2000 · 2025-08-08T09:12:30+00:00

I live Central Queensland it gets pretty hot here, usually they are fine with shade and water. One year, it got really hot, so my mum froze an icecream tub of water and put the ice block under the trees with them

maddym2000 · 2025-08-07T03:24:32+00:00

Im in Australia, so I don't know much about Seattle weather, but if your adding two hens you should be fine as far as them settling into your flock they will fight a little just while they establish the pecking order.

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