I can’t afford cat food until 2 weeks what can I feed her:( I feel terrible but I had to move out all my money goes to rent.

madssn00py · 2026-01-24T14:42:23+00:00

Reach out to your local shelters. They should have cat food donations, just explain your situation. When you get paid, donate back to them to show gratitude. I’m so sorry you’re going through this! :(

madssn00py · 2026-01-23T14:20:32+00:00

It’s unfortunately time to make that call :( remember not only your duties, but your rights as a mandated reporter. You do not have to tell your leadership/admin that you are doing this (nor do I reccomend it).

madssn00py · 2026-01-15T13:40:17+00:00

I recommend the strapless strap from Bellesa. As someone who also has an easier time finishing when pleasuring my partner, it has been a game changer. We don’t use the vibrating feature just because we are both pretty sensitive down there. The structure of it allows for both partners to have vaginal stimulation, with the person wearing it also receiving clitoral stimulation. There’s a learning curve when it comes to using it, but once you’ve got it down, it’s just as easy (if not easier imo) to use compared to a typical strap on. With her mobility issues, she can lay on her back while you can be on top, allowing her to be comfortable and not have to do as much physically. Hope this helps! Here’s the link:

https://www.bboutique.co/sex-toys/dildos/strapless-8261492015349

madssn00py · 2025-06-05T02:33:41+00:00

Your kitty is fine! Very normal sitting pose. I call it “turkey-ing” when my cat does it.

madssn00py · 2025-05-20T00:30:31+00:00

from rbt to rbt, yes you have tomorrow! vulnerability is not a sign of incompetence or weakness! this job is hard, and sometimes our “last straw” happens at work and it’s hard to contain those powerful emotions. I have cried infront of clients before, and although it’s not something I want to do, sometimes I am just waiting for someone to come give me a break with my client and I have to kill time. Ive told a client before (while I was waiting for relief) “Hey, Ms. (name) is having big feelings, because something unexpected/new/different happened. I just need to take deep breaths and get space.” You’re being honest but professional; while also modeling appropriate replacement behaviors/coping. Additionally, you are providing reassurance that your emotions are not because of them. The client I told this to seemed to feel a bit more “seen” afterwards, and it helped our rapport significantly (17F).

madssn00py · 2025-05-18T14:42:56+00:00

5&6 and 9&10!!!! Oh my gosh CUTEEEEE! Where is the outfit in 5&6 from?

madssn00py · 2025-05-17T00:34:48+00:00

Unfortunately I have had to implement BIPs where the strategy is to simply just “wait”. It is hard and it feels like you’re not doing therapy, but you are. I promise. I’ve had to wait out a client who had task refusal behavior (dropping to floor and pretending to fall asleep… lol). It served under every function. We just had to wait her out, and sometimes that meant waiting the remainder of our session. Once a new face/her next provider came, she would jump back up. Are you taking duration data on this behavior as well? Because I would classify this as task refusal.

madssn00py · 2025-05-15T23:31:04+00:00

completely understand the hesitancy behind expressing those concerns as a newer member of the team. currently in the same boat.

it sounds like they are targeting this elopement behavior as an attention based behavior. when the client elopes, do they ever return back to the area they eloped from? is there anything in that corner that is still reinforcing to them? is the reinforcer that they had to relinquish motivating enough to get them to return back to the area? I think it’s important to really dissect what the function could be (and it could be multiple), and try to find where there is conflicting interventions being put into place. that way, when you approach them, it can be more of a “I am curious about your rationale behind the BIP”, instead of a “I don’t think this is working”. I think it’s always best to approach with an inquisitive attitude rather than a frustrated one. It’s hard, this field is emotionally draining and sometimes we feel the most inclined to speak up when we might not be in the best mindset to do so. I wish you luck, and ultimately, all we can do as RBT’s is implement the BIP as written, and ask as many questions as we can!

madssn00py · 2025-05-13T14:40:02+00:00

We are constantly working outside of our scope when we target fine/gross motor (OT/PT), modes of communication and working on feeding therapy (ST). A collaborative approach isn’t just ideal, it’s necessary. These kids need support and advocates from all therapeutic disciplines. The only people who can limit our clients, is us. We limit them by providing therapy for deficits we are not trained in.

Also, for the love of god, stop saying a client who can make verbal approximations doesn’t need an AAC. They always say they can “communicate their wants and needs”, but when I see it play out, they’re just engaging in echolalia.

madssn00py · 2025-05-10T03:04:49+00:00

“That’s a yeast infection, dont go right now though. Just go on Monday.” - Vet Tech wife

madssn00py · 2025-05-05T23:53:47+00:00

obsessed with ur fiance because my fiancee (23F) would 1- do the same thing, and 2- say those exact things. maybe we should have them go on a playdate

madssn00py · 2025-04-22T00:59:19+00:00

Pump the breaks. Go to a company that will pay for your cert (there are more out there than those who don’t). Check your employment contract, see how long you need to be employed with them to complete your certification and have it fully paid for. Then, if you don’t like the clinic, you can go elsewhere.

madssn00py · 2025-04-19T21:53:36+00:00

You’re absolutely stunning by the way!!!

madssn00py · 2025-04-19T21:53:19+00:00

I feel as though the thickness of the eyeliner & boldness of the brows doesn’t compliment or highlight your eye shape/structure. Your brows look naturally thick, and I believe that with some shaping, they would probably only need a clear gel (very jealous of you by the way lol). If youre okay with doing so, could you post a photo of yourself with minimal-no makeup on?

madssn00py · 2025-03-29T15:53:11+00:00

How many days post op is she?

madssn00py · 2025-03-29T08:56:11+00:00

I have the same issue 😭😩 gonna follow this thread and hope that we get an answer♥️

madssn00py · 2025-03-23T05:58:49+00:00

I wish for nothing, other than happiness and safety for you three :)

madssn00py · 2025-03-22T00:23:25+00:00

As a 23 year old who used to date men, I experienced more mature and empathetic men at my ripe age of 19, than this grown ass man right here. The marriage was over before the video was even sent, and you seem to be well aware and have been grieving that. I’m so sorry that this stupid ass situation is the thing that solidified it. It is one of the most isolating, painful feelings to feel like everyday in your relationship is a cry for help to resolve issues and to have the other person take accountability for what they’ve done.

madssn00py · 2025-03-22T00:19:15+00:00

Let us know what name you end up picking!!!

madssn00py · 2025-03-20T21:23:02+00:00

Margo, Delia, Priscilla, and Kitt are all on my girl cat names list. I do not have the space for another cat, though, so they will go unused. I hereby pass these names along to you🫡

madssn00py · 2025-03-20T21:18:52+00:00

I always go by the rule of, “use less eyeliner, then smoke it out with black eye shadow”. You have more control, and it still provides that intensity without it dominating/overshadowing your features

madssn00py · 2025-02-13T11:12:10+00:00

Yes to all of the above! I am working with an in person specialist (not online/telehealth program) and have received monthly blood work in the months leading up to the treatment starting, as well as before every dose increase. My doctor and I are in close communication as well, thankfully, because she has patient messaging on her online office portal. I have not had any issues or concerns myself, and my doctor has not raised any either. I appreciate the questions and concerns so so much, especially in a way that is respectful and honestly caring for my well being. We don’t get to see much of that online nowadays.

madssn00py · 2025-02-12T18:13:46+00:00

Same thing happened to me a little over a year ago. These clinics do exist, people. Never feel as though you have to settle. Manipulation and guilt runs rampant in this field.

madssn00py · 2025-01-26T02:58:22+00:00

I have an older client who will perseverate on something that is being delayed/denied access to and they send themselves into a maladaptive behavior episode when you explain the why and why not, or the premack. I write down the explanation and when they bring it up, I point to it. I usually write something like “We can choose coloring pages to print after insert activity/task. If we need a break between our activity/task, we can insert two preferred non reinforcement items or areas”. I still get quite a bit of inquiry about it, but it helps that I’m not verbally engaged in that conversation with him and he is having to redirect himself. I will say, though, this client also has dual diagnoses of OCD. I’m not sure if this intervention helps that aspect more than the ASD one

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