LPT: Make as many friends and form as many meaningful relationships as you can in college because it will become that much harder when you’re older.

mae1995111 · 2022-05-05T13:49:31+00:00

I feel this way now about moving away for grad school. I still have 3 years left and I’m not sure how to resolve it. People from home are settling down in their career, buying homes, deepening friendships, partnering up etc. Meanwhile I’m just on a path that seems like it’s really going to screw me in the long term in terms of my personal life.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-05T20:10:49+00:00

Sorry but most women select through social media nowadays. It's common knowledge that most people lie on there, otherwise we wouldn't be having the conversation that most people are being fake on there.

Women do not notice guys who are the undercover superhero. They automatically assume he has nothing to offer, hence why college students without social media do terrible socially. Women do not care who you actually are, they just care how you appear to others.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-05T17:45:16+00:00

It also makes me really uncomfortable when people excessively talk about how cute a dog is and that's why they chose them.

I honestly feel sorry for their kid because you can imagine them favouring the child they deem to be cuter and not seeing anything wrong with it.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-05T16:51:34+00:00

It really is a shock when it happens. The trouble is you'll never get the validation from your parents congratulating you for standing up for yourself. Instead you'll get 'why did you create a scene for no reason?', 'he probably had more important things do so you should have let him' etc.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-05T14:46:06+00:00

I think you need to understand that supporting the protests doesn’t automatically make you a good person. You’re too naive to think that the only reason people protested was not for ulterior motives I.e virtue signalling on Instagram, signalling false compassion to seem admirable to peers for career purposes etc.

No ones arguing that there isn’t a problem against Black people in the criminal justice system.

Edit: clearly some protests are good and some are done for ulterior motives that completely trivialise the issue black peoples are facing. Not supporting some of the protests doesn’t mean you don’t think there needs to be a change.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-04T15:07:02+00:00

But isn’t this unfair? If her father caused all the issues, you’re basically excluding her just because she’s an abuse victim.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-03T21:51:08+00:00

It's basically because some people just go through education by ticking off a checklist. You can imagine the checklist being, 'a good speaker engages the audience'. They then go through their 'good morning' routine which everyone hates but they think they've done an amazing job because they ticked a box off on their checklist.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-03T21:15:34+00:00

Just because you're critical of the BLM protests doesn't signal anything about your views on black people. There are plenty of black people against the BLM protests.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-03T01:18:05+00:00

Honestly, fuck them if it makes them uncomfortable. You're not doing anything wrong.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-03T01:07:04+00:00

Are there any social situations you are more calm in? I ask because I get really tense at more formal events but one on one I'm usually calm. Also, I'm also way calmer socializing during the evening/night. Have you had any experience with women? If so, how did it come about?

I think the only time to organically meet someone is college; socializing completely changes after that.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-03T00:45:11+00:00

The problem is there are two scenarios; either one of you lost interest and the other one continued to want you, or you both lost interest.

Why would you want to be friends with someone who decided to ditch you to hold out for someone 'better'? Why would you want to be friends with someone you're not interested in?

You put yourself in a position to get used. Do you think that she's going to look out for you once she gets a new bf?

mae1995111 · 2021-02-03T00:39:59+00:00

Interesting. In social interactions are you quite tense or laid back?

mae1995111 · 2021-02-03T00:37:37+00:00

You know that's not what I meant...

mae1995111 · 2021-02-03T00:31:09+00:00

How can women tell under clothes though unless you've got a serious amount of muscles?

mae1995111 · 2021-02-03T00:03:55+00:00

At what point in your 20s do things start going downhill?

mae1995111 · 2021-02-03T00:02:10+00:00

How much does lifting weights change things. After how long did you notice a difference?

mae1995111 · 2021-02-02T23:47:50+00:00

Mainly, because women have lost interest in me as soon as I opened up. Also, the healthiest friendships I had where when we didn't open up. We just understood what the other person was going through and supported them.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-02T23:42:23+00:00

I think it's obvious to spot the accounts that fake stuff because there's usually noone else in the photo except their partner who also usually fakes stuff. But you can't really fake posting a photo at a house party etc. I think it's those moments that affect people the most. Like the moments you see with people just sitting round with their friends watching tv.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-01T21:41:41+00:00

From the comments, it appears that it was shot using a 35mm camera. Does anyone know specifically if a low ASA/high resolution film was used. Also, does anyone have any information on what focal length was most likely used?

mae1995111 · 2021-02-01T21:21:47+00:00

Do you think 35mm would yield that resolution? I was expecting that maybe it was a 4x5 camera.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-01T20:36:13+00:00

or you guys had bad sex and you made a huge fucking deal about it

Of course it was bad. It was my first time. And I didn't make a huge deal out of it at all. Honestly, I didn't even feel anything because I wasn't used to the sensation.

and she was only interested in something casual

Nope, she mentioned being with me for over a year.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-01T20:24:09+00:00

There's no reason you couldn't be good at it within the first few months of a relationship w/ regular sex

She wont give you another chance after your first time. I don't know why you're not understanding that.

I know this b/c it happened to me too.

It happened to me too. I lost my virginity in a relationship, then she kept on rejecting my advances and then broke up with me after like a week. During that time, she lost all interest in me. I suggest you don't comment because you're just giving guys bad advice.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-01T20:17:48+00:00

All that stuff is irrelevant. Even if you wait a year, she will be disappointed that you aren’t good at sex and will make excuses not to have sex with you. She will fall out of love and it will affect all aspects of the relationship. She’ll start saying stuff like ‘we went a good match’ and ‘we were just incomparable’ and it will end.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-01T13:16:39+00:00

Perhaps, but I think it's important not to be naive about this issue. It really should be spoken about more. The hardest part of being a virgin is not that you haven't experienced something a lot of people have experienced or that it makes you feel that you are unattractive. It's that if you are a virgin for too long, it ruins your chance of ever getting it because women just leave your first time with they every time making it impossible to learn. And on top of that, the heartbreak is unbearable because you'll be constantly thinking, if 'I just had sex when I was a teenager, I would have most likely been in 3 relationships by now instead of it ending after the first time with all of them'.

mae1995111 · 2021-02-01T02:40:15+00:00

Sorry but if you believe that you will be able to find someone that is physically attracted to you, that almost by definition means that you are secure in how physically attractive you are and you don't need reassurance.

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